*~* looks, attitude or service? *~*

[Cami Parker]

Hey, hey!
So I was wondering (as always) from a client perspective, or even from a mans perspective in real women in the real world, how do the three of these rate in order of importance? I've always thought that, if I was a man, I would order them service, then attitude, then looks. just because I would much rather be with someone who was a 6 in looks and a 10 in service than vice versa. And as far as attitude goes I probably couldn't enjoy myself with someone who wasn't very friendly. But then I thought that I guess the importance you place on each factor really depends on the type of experience you're looking for, or rather what you're hoping to gain from your experience with and SP. That probably someone who's main social life revolved around time with SP's, or maybe someone who enjoys extended dates with his SP's, or regular visits with the sane lady may order them differently than a guy who simply enjoys sleeping with a large variety of women, and likes something new all the time, or someone who just really gets a kick out of sleeping with women half his age. Not that there's anything wrong with either, of course, just that a different approach may factor things in differently as far as the level of importance goes? Then I thought that instead of thinking myself to death and running my brain around in circles trying to come up with the answer of what and how men think.... It would be a lot easier to just ask you.
So that's my question. When it comes to looks, attitude and service where do they REALLY rank in order of importance? Or maybe it doesn't vary from man to man... Maybe it varries from mood to mood?.... Or maybe it varries from experience to experience?....maybe....maybe...maybe...???

 

[PierreCoeur]

Looks, Attitude and Service

All of the above plus Sincerity and Personality. I look for the perfect package but always hope for four out of five

 

[steverino]

Probably could use a definition of each term but I generally view it as attitude...service...looks.

 

[rick hunter]

Service followed a close second by attitude. Looks are subjective. No point spending time and money on a hot girl if she makes you feel like she is just going through the motions and wants to get it over with as soon as possible. I've seen a few sp like that and it's not a great feeling.

 

[Cami Parker]

Oh!
I really like that way of thinking about it. :thumb:

You've just identified the "three pillars of pooning" (trademark pending). Think of it less as an order of importance and more like the legs of a stool. If any one of the three is missing the session is going to fall flat.

 

[Cami Parker]

Sounds awful...
Sorry you had to go through that...

Service followed a close second by attitude. Looks are subjective. No point spending time and money on a hot girl if she makes you feel like she is just going through the motions and wants to get it over with as soon as possible. I've seen a few sp like that and it's not a great feeling.

 

[DoraVan]

Service and Attitude definitely more important, I am seeking an experience to escape reality.

Most SPs are already above average in looks and it is a subjective thing. Some find you hot, some find you off. Just be confident.

On the other hand, I believe the benchmark for service and attitude can usually be agreed upon by many.

 

[Five-Guns-West]

Service always trumps looks. Unless you're Monica Bellucci, I'd bottle her bath water and drink it with wine glasses.

Attitude follows closely with service, I don't see much distinction there.

 

[Crumb]

Attitude (or enthusiasm), Service, Looks

if she has a great attitude and enthusiasm (even if faked), then, in my book, every thing else is secondary.
of course, you'd like a girl you think is attractive, but a good service is good service. /shrug

 

[Cami Parker]

It's true. Women, by nature, are beautiful. I've given sooo many girls makeovers, and love knowing how to bring out the unique natural beauty in a lady. Any lady that takes care of her health/hygiene, wears her make up and hair tastefully done, wears clothing in a style that's flattering to her body type, highlighting her assets and carries herself with confidence and class is beautiful to me.

 

[1nitestan]

Nothing is possible without first having a good attitude.

Even the most well-reviewed/reputable Escort can have an off day. Attitude will show through (if she chooses to work through that day) and affect how she treats you and how much effort she puts in to looking good.

 

[Cami Parker]

So true! If you're not feeling it you should really try to offer your client a bonus incentive to reschedule if it isn't too inconvenient for him. It's not fair to anybody if everybody's not having a great time.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

So true! If you're not feeling it you should really try to offer your client a bonus incentive to reschedule if it isn't too inconvenient for him. It's not fair to anybody if everybody's not having a great time.

That's why I think it's important to let women just getting into this or ANY industry at a young age know that EVERY career has a shelf life. When you are making CASH like there is no tomorrow, remember that there will be one, and it ALWAYS arrives sooner than you think. I suppose if my original career path had stayed on the same tragectory as that of my university classmates, I might be a principal by now. Had my health continued as it was when I left that field, I would be dead. My internist told me that last August! So remember little grasshoppers, that no matter how much fun it is to play, fiddle & dance from sunup to sundown, someday the winter will arrive, and if you haven't got a friend like the hardworking ant who saved from dawn to dusk, you're well & thoroughly fucked (and not in a good way!) IF you take care of tomorrow NOW, you don't have to worry about it later, and we all know worrying makes the 'W" words appear on One's forehead!

xox
Ms E

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Are you talking about an SP, or a wife, or a girlfriend?

Yes. I'm talking to WOMEN! Hell, I'm talking to PEOPLE. I have no kids, or students anymore, so I share what I know where and when I learned it. Took almost nothing with me out of my first marriage, despite having worked two jobs to put him through school. Don't regret a thing. I went from 70k a year & benefits to "at least I have a pension in 15 years" overnight. Never saw it coming, I had virtually NO savings. Now I do.

 

[Cami Parker]

That's so funny. Do you ever watch Seinfeld? It's my favorite. There's this one episode ehere Herry is dating Feorge's ex who he actually can't stand but is extremely sexually attracted to. There's a scene where he's playing chess with himself, on one side dressed as his penis and on the other side dressed as his brain, arguing with his penis about how terribly obnoxious she is and no matter how wonderful it may be for penis, brain is seriously disgusted. It's a pretty epic battle lol

I just let my cock decide, if he likes her it don't matter what she looks like, I'm surprised at some of the bitches my dick can't get enough of. Some bad attitude gals have totally turned me on and some really beautiful babes have left me totally limp. There are other forces at play here you just never know, gals that everyone swoons over have done nothing for me but I do love it when things click. Being a SP is an important job and it's great when a gal takes a bit of pride in her work, there is no such thing as a job that can't be well done wish more would make the effort!

 

[Cami Parker]

All of the above Darling!

Are you talking about an SP, or a wife, or a girlfriend?

 

[P_e_r_b]

Attitude is tied to service: I give points for effort even if the resulting service is mediocre.
Looks are tied to attitude: I give points for body maintenance since very few roll out of bed looking awesome, and body toning is all about effort boys and girls).

Hence everything is in the attitude. Of course, I wouldn't say no to a 10 even if her 'tude sucked... then again, I did bail on some lookers since daily bad attitude can wear you down.

 

[badbadboy]

I'm a happy man if I get amazing service, stellar attitude from an attractive enthusiastic female.

So L = 6 and up with S & A = 9 or 10 makes BBB give a :thumb:

 

[escapefromstress]

That's so funny. Do you ever watch Seinfeld? It's my favorite. There's this one episode ehere Herry is dating Feorge's ex who he actually can't stand but is extremely sexually attracted to. There's a scene where he's playing chess with himself, on one side dressed as his penis and on the other side dressed as his brain, arguing with his penis about how terribly obnoxious she is and no matter how wonderful it may be for penis, brain is seriously disgusted. It's a pretty epic battle lol

 

[Cami Parker]

TRUTH!
I notice there's some confusion between how one might define looks, attitude and service. I could be thinking wrong, but for me it means...
Looks: 1 part natural beauty, 4 parts manufactured beauty (ie "effort") such as hair and make up look tasteful and lovely, your outfit is sexy and flattering to your shape, body maintenance meaning making the best of whatever you got regardless of your natural shape/cup size/booty size etc, and just the general appearance that someone made an effort to look nice for you.
Attitude: you love your job and are genuinely happy and excited to be there. You enjoy sex and are excited to share a sexual experience with a new and exciting partner. You are fun, happy, warm, welcoming and genuine. It's is truly and sincerely important to you that everyone who comes to see you leaves with a big smile, more masculine confidence and some fantastic memories knowing they've just had one of the greatest sexual experiences of their life.
Service: Technical Skills. No getting around this. There are lots of books, movies, seminars etc... As with any skilled career, a lady should always be furthering her education, developing new skills, exploring new trends and expanding her knowledge of her field. An SP is a PROFESSIONAL. Sex with civilian and sex with an SP should be as different as a root canal from a civilian or a trained dentist. If a lady is a true professional that cares about her work, even if you don't have chemistry there's no denying her technical skill....
And of course hygiene ties into all of the above. Good/bad hygiene is is an important factor that is affected by and could easily affect all 3 aspects of service either positivelyor negatively...

Attitude is tied to service: I give points for effort even if the resulting service is mediocre.
Looks are tied to attitude: I give points for body maintenance since very few roll out of bed looking awesome, and body toning is all about effort boys and girls).

Hence everything is in the attitude. Of course, I wouldn't say no to a 10 even if her 'tude sucked... then again, I did bail on some lookers since daily bad attitude can wear you down.