Looking amazing for you takes effort guys!

[SeductiveCameronDEL]

Grrr! I'm really just coming on here to bitch a little bit, and I'm sure all the guys on perb are going to protest with "I never do that!!", but I really just wanna vent.

There seems to be a large number of clients or prospective clients who assume that their lovely SPs just wake up in the morning, looking fabulous and ready to rock it, and then we drape ourselves sexily over furniture at our incall, just waiting with bated breath for the phone to ring. I'm flattered that some guys seem to think I'm just that gorgeous all the time, but....DREAM ON GUYS! Not only does it take time to prep for the appointment with exfoliating, shaving, moisturizing, makeup and hair, but then you take into account things that SPs do outside of the scheduled appointment...secondary educations, other jobs, workshops in massage, workshops in sex, training at the gym, cooking healthy meals, going to yoga, travelling, time at the salon/nail place/laser hair place/wax place etc...all that stuff takes time, and it all goes towards benefiting the client so the SP can be at her best. And I know a lot of you lovely gentlemen notice and appreciate this, and we love you for that.

I'm rambling, but here's what's bothering me: when your SP asks you to confirm a specific way, at a specific time, just do that. Because if you don't, maybe she was at the gym earlier, and because you called an hour after she asked you, she's still sitting around in her gross gym clothes, sans makeup, without enough time to get ready/postpone by an hour. Hypothetically

Pleeeeeease remember that SPs are people who sometimes lead busy lives outside of this business and there are good reasons we give direction re: communication method/time. I'm going to shower now.

 

[escapefromstress]

I try to stay 80% prepared so I can accommodate short notice clients, but it does seem to be a common misconception that we look 'appointment ready' 24/7.

 

[ladyhayden]

this is one of my biggest pet peeves of this industry, I know not all men are like this but it's a little funny to break their idea of who we are, and yes we do normal shit all day. I feel like it's usually the beginners who think this and demand it to be NOW

 

[gerri]

Hmmm, he's an asshole....LOL

Alot of the time if a gentlemen wants to visit me in the am or pm, and I know that I'm going to be doing someone/something, in the am or pm, and trying to use discretion as much as possible, I will have them confirm the evening before or several hours prior to our engagement. If they don't do so, well f**k them.

Hopefully this hasn't completely ruined your day Cameron

xx

 

[badbadboy]

Alas, BBB gets all groomed, freshly showered and is in the car on the way to the incall only to read a text saying "I have to cancel, sorry".

:doh:

 

[Cami Parker]

Preach Mama!

 

[SeductiveCameronDEL]

Hmmm, he's an asshole....LOL

Alot of the time if a gentlemen wants to visit me in the am, especially if I know I'm to be doing someone/something I will have them confirm the evening before or several hours prior to our engagement. If they don't do so, well f**k them.

Hopefully this hasn't completely ruined your day Cameron

xx

It hasn't at all. I'm in a super great mood, but I have a very busy schedule today outside of my incall, so I didn't have any wiggle room. Oh well!

 

[ladyhayden]

Even on your worst day ever ladies. Covered in dirt from a hard days work. Covered in paint and drywall dust. Sweat from a great workout. Unshaved legs from a few days off (nobody shaves in the playoffs). You're still beautiful.

Beauty takes a lot of work and time sure to go from disaster (which none of you are) to supermodel status. We as gentlemen appreciate everything you do to get there. We know you don't lounge around all day in lingerie impatiently waiting the next call. Life isn't Las Vegas or the way they make it seem in movies.

I for one appreciate the way you keep in shape and the hard work you put in daily at your other careers and everything else you do. It all takes time and effort.

The seasoned veterans know for the most part what you ladies go through daily. We appreciate everything you do. Most importantly of all though you're beautiful from the moment you wake up on your worst day till the pinnacle of hotness you achieve at your photo shoots.

We all love you for that.

aw! made my day reading this

 

[ddcanz]

Spur of the moment for me a lot of times also- we ALL have busy schedules and ongoing commitments and things can change in a hurry once I'm on the road. Traffic is unpredictable as well. A quick call to confirm if early is OK- if not then no problem. The same courtesy if I'm running late also. Most of us that have been around the block understand that a lady needs her time to prep and she isn't just lounging around in her undies "appointment ready 24/7".

 

[Cami Parker]

Awww! You're such a Doll!!

Even on your worst day ever ladies. Covered in dirt from a hard days work. Covered in paint and drywall dust. Sweat from a great workout. Unshaved legs from a few days off (nobody shaves in the playoffs). You're still beautiful.

Beauty takes a lot of work and time sure to go from disaster (which none of you are) to supermodel status. We as gentlemen appreciate everything you do to get there. We know you don't lounge around all day in lingerie impatiently waiting the next call. Life isn't Las Vegas or the way they make it seem in movies.

I for one appreciate the way you keep in shape and the hard work you put in daily at your other careers and everything else you do. It all takes time and effort.

The seasoned veterans know for the most part what you ladies go through daily. We appreciate everything you do. Most importantly of all though you're beautiful from the moment you wake up on your worst day till the pinnacle of hotness you achieve at your photo shoots.

We all love you for that.

 

[MissingOne]

Spur of the moment is what massage parlours are for. When I can anticipate a day or so in advance, then I call an independent lady.

Still, stuff happens. Recently I proposed a time several days in advance and it was accepted. Then I had to change the time just the day before. Then, when I made the penultimate call to confirm, she needed to change the time. It all worked out, because we communicated.

 

[LADY-VIA]

Generally of someone wants me on a short notice basis where I'm limmited with time towards getting ready and commuting if I'm able to see the person I just shower, throw on some lip gloss fly out the door and then open the door shortly there after wet hair and all !!! There's no time for outfit requests or much else !! Take me or leave me

 

[PierreCoeur]

Some people have natural beauty and just don't realize it. Although sometimes I go for a painted doll, other times I am fine with the wet hair and lip gloss look. Gosh you look beautiful Lady Via !

 

[girth-brooks]

Cameron - you're beautiful and many good clients appreciate the effort you put in. :nod:

 

[hornygandalf]

... workshops in sex....

You also give workshops in sex? Wow.

We know many of you ladies put considerable effort and time into looking amazing, but some of us think you are just amazing anyway without all of the facade.
For me, it is the attitude, the heart, the sensual energy, the genuineness in the connection, that is important to me.
The rest is just 'icing on the cake'.

 

[italian233]

Unfortunately there are some people that are late for everything. Either they have no sense of time or don't care about others busy schedule. If the person does not confirm in the manner that you told them in advance then that's on them not you. You don't have to change your day for one person that did not listen to your instructions.

Cameron I'm sure you look great during and after yoga! Hope to meet you one day.

 

[newatit]

Well actually I might be jaded by age and having traveled a lot with SP's but I really prefer to go without make up lipstick and perfume. When you are away for a few days with an SP then you know you are getting up in the morning to the real thing. I would rather have that. So if I were to call on a moment's short notice a big rush to dress up isn't appreciated. I don't want to be leaving there with anything like makeup on me nor do I want a mouthful of in the process. Just plain simple you.

So yes lady via's style suits me just fine. Must get together with her soon again. Been awhile.

 

[sybian]

I know I truly appreciate the effort you ladies put into looking as perfect as you do....That being said, if your born gorgeous, you could wear a potato sack and turn me on.
When a young lady I'm calling on is running late, or whatever...and phones or texts me that is the case, I'll respond ,..Don't go to all kinds of effort looking perfect. Wet hair and little or no make up is ok with this old cowboy if your rushed for time.
I will sometimes drive 4 to 6 hours to an appointment, so the one hour lead time doesn't apply for my schedual.
I do realize that you all want to look perfect and it's all in the presentation. I mean who gives a Christmas gift to someone that isn't wrapped ? But sometimes the gift is so beautiful , and so stunning standing on it's own...The wrapping wasn't really noticed, or necessary anyway.
Having said that...I also try to arrive in my best black Ariat's ,Wranglers, shiniest Rodeo buckle, and the cleanest Carhartt I own at the time..So I suppose I understand the extra effort in the presentation.

 

[Walk Softly]

Never yet having met you Cameron, I have perused your pictures and feel confident saying :Just out of the shower without doing your hair and little or no makeup would be just fine!

In fact...not hearing "don't mess up my hair" really wouldn't bother me!

Cheers beautiful!

One of these days...

 

[LADY-VIA]

Some people have natural beauty and just don't realize it. Although sometimes I go for a painted doll, other times I am fine with the wet hair and lip gloss look. Gosh you look beautiful Lady Via ![/QUOTE thank you !!!