Very well put.......agree completely!You also give workshops in sex? Wow.
We know many of you ladies put considerable effort and time into looking amazing, but some of us think you are just amazing anyway without all of the facade.
For me, it is the attitude, the heart, the sensual energy, the genuineness in the connection, that is important to me.
The rest is just 'icing on the cake'.
Looking amazing for you takes effort guys!
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Understanding that shit happens, being chronically late is disrespectful. Some people just don't give a shit about others.
On the topic of prepping for a date. I'm sure that its necessary for some clients but in my humble opinion, I will repeat what I have expressed to many ladies in the past. Relax with the makeup. You are only hiding your beauty!
I know y'all make great efforts and they are appreciated.
Yes. Maybe you just happen to be heading into that area of town for some other reason and you reach out to see if that lady might be available since you're going to be nearby.
That's when you start going through the plan B options of one of the numerous advertisers that are happily willing to accommodate the short notice callers. For example, some of the ladies who only post their ads when they're actively available. Or the ones who post their hours of availability in their ads with notes that they are available "now" or that they require notice of anywhere from as little as "20 minutes" to a couple of hours prior to a booking.Alas, BBB gets all groomed, freshly showered and is in the car on the way to the incall only to read a text saying "I have to cancel, sorry".
:doh:
To be honest, these are the women that I tend to see more often than not anyway. I tend to be more of a spur of the moment kind of guy and am not fond of prebooking too far in advance. I can only imagine that it must be extra frustrating when you book in advance with an SP with whom you're really looking forward to spending some time, only to get cancelled like that, BBB.
Now that's what I'm talking about!
I'll take you!Generally of someone wants me on a short notice basis where I'm limmited with time towards getting ready and commuting if I'm able to see the person I just shower, throw on some lip gloss fly out the door and then open the door shortly there after wet hair and all !!! There's no time for outfit requests or much else !! Take me or leave me
Two points:Grrr! I'm really just coming on here to bitch a little bit, and I'm sure all the guys on perb are going to protest with "I never do that!!", but I really just wanna vent.
There seems to be a large number of clients or prospective clients who assume that their lovely SPs just wake up in the morning, looking fabulous and ready to rock it, and then we drape ourselves sexily over furniture at our incall, just waiting with bated breath for the phone to ring. I'm flattered that some guys seem to think I'm just that gorgeous all the time, but....DREAM ON GUYS! Not only does it take time to prep for the appointment with exfoliating, shaving, moisturizing, makeup and hair, but then you take into account things that SPs do outside of the scheduled appointment...secondary educations, other jobs, workshops in massage, workshops in sex, training at the gym, cooking healthy meals, going to yoga, travelling, time at the salon/nail place/laser hair place/wax place etc...all that stuff takes time, and it all goes towards benefiting the client so the SP can be at her best. And I know a lot of you lovely gentlemen notice and appreciate this, and we love you for that.
I'm rambling, but here's what's bothering me: when your SP asks you to confirm a specific way, at a specific time, just do that. Because if you don't, maybe she was at the gym earlier, and because you called an hour after she asked you, she's still sitting around in her gross gym clothes, sans makeup, without enough time to get ready/postpone by an hour. Hypothetically
Pleeeeeease remember that SPs are people who sometimes lead busy lives outside of this business and there are good reasons we give direction re: communication method/time. I'm going to shower now.
1. I guess that explains all the guys who get stood up after making confirmed appointments. The escorts were too busy getting ready to be able to have the actual encounter.
2. The best looking women, period, are the ones that look good right out of bed without any "making up". Just sayin'
lol Don't toy with me! I would love to give sex workshops!!You also give workshops in sex? Wow.
What about the guys who are so disgusting that they get turned away at the door after confirming? Is that as funny Man Mountain?
And I'm not saying that escorts are a bunch of uggos who have to slave away at looking presentable, but some people do put effort into being better company/conversationalists/healthy human beings. If you really believe there's women out there who look fresh as a daisy, hairless, soft, and perfectly primped, I guarantee you, she's just a master of disguise. The point is to look flawless without a lick of makeup and at the drop of a hat.
Hmmmmm.......I'm thinking there may be a real demand for that! Where do we sign up?
Hmmm... maybe I would like to 'toy' with you
And in the process you could present an amazing sex workshop...
LOL I totally agree. It takes me literally less than 15 minutes to get ready for sexy time. haha! I need it that way because I hate getting ready for assholes who are NOSHOWS! I have a short attention span and a very spontaneous lifestyle. I'd rather my date tell me hes at the intersection I told him to come to, then I'll start moving. By the time he arrives, I'm ready.Generally of someone wants me on a short notice basis where I'm limmited with time towards getting ready and commuting if I'm able to see the person I just shower, throw on some lip gloss fly out the door and then open the door shortly there after wet hair and all !!! There's no time for outfit requests or much else !! Take me or leave me
As a sometimes sperm of the moment guy (like it only takes a moment then I'm gone) I have to say that often, in my busy workdays, I will find an hour or so and will make some calls. IF a babe can make it work great, if not I have more dialing to do. And making dates days in advance has often resulted in me having to change the precise time by 30 minutes or an hour or even to later in the day. I am 99% of the time able to communicate that hours in advance when I have a sense of how the day is shaping up. So, I have had to cancel and no show plenty of times. Having said that I can honestly say that I am about 70/30 or even 80/20 on the cancelling problem where I have had to cancel/postpone 20-30% of the times that dates have been cancelled or postponed. It used to bother me that chicks would cancel but it is the nature of the business and it is frightfully easy to pick the phone and dial . . .
But what really pisses me off is when I call and a girl says she needs 15 or 30 minutes to get ready and then 30 minutes later says another 15 and then another 10 and, damn I used to buy that crap, says ever so sweetly that I can come over now - an hour later or more. Now I have adapted and if she needs 15 or 30 and I can make that work I do but at 30 minutes I move on without blinking an eye. I don't want to waste her time and I don't want her to waste mine. Once I had a raging bone that needed attention and I got delayed by the sexiest voice, and then delayed again, and again. I couldn't move on because all the blood had left my thinking head for my powerhead and everytime I heard that voice I KNEW I had to have her. Well, my and my blue balls wound up at a nearby micro.
For me it is totally about delivery of what is advertised, photos, services, and time. And then communication both ways to make everything as good as it can be.
And that toy show sex workshop - where does one sign up? I think I would very much lick lick lick it! I mean like like like it.
I have to say that often, in my busy workdays, I will find an hour or so and will make some calls. IF a babe can make it work great, if not I have more dialing to do. And making dates days in advance has often resulted in me having to change the precise time by 30 minutes or an hour or even to later in the day. I am 99% of the time able to communicate that hours in advance when I have a sense of how the day is shaping up. So, I have had to cancel and no show plenty of times. Having said that I can honestly say that I am about 70/30 or even 80/20 on the cancelling problem where I have had to cancel/postpone 20-30% of the times that dates have been cancelled or postponed. It used to bother me that chicks would cancel but it is the nature of the business and it is frightfully easy to pick the phone and dial . . . But what really pisses me off is when I call and a girl says she needs 15 or 30 minutes to get ready and then 30 minutes later says another 15 and then another 10 and, damn I used to buy that crap, says ever so sweetly that I can come over now - an hour later or more. Now I have adapted and if she needs 15 or 30 and I can make that work I do but at 30 minutes I move on without blinking an eye. I don't want to waste her time and I don't want her to waste mine. Once I had a raging bone that needed attention and I got delayed by the sexiest voice, and then delayed again, and again. I couldn't move on because all the blood had left my thinking head for my powerhead and everytime I heard that voice I KNEW I had to have her. Well, my and my blue balls wound up at a nearby micro.
For me it is totally about delivery of what is advertised, photos, services, and time. And then communication both ways to make everything as good as it can be.
And that toy show sex workshop - where does one sign up? I think I would very much lick lick lick it! I mean like like like it.
I have always been amazed at any guy who thinks they would be presentable for intimacy (in any form, including with an escort) without being shaved, shined and fresh as just out of the shower.
Oh, and to your "master of disguise". I have lived with four women in my somewhat short life to date and three of them tended to look pretty much amazing all the time and one NEVER used makeup. I don't think what you think is so rare really is that rare. However, I will totally agree with you about men who show up in a disgusting form and then expect to get down to business. That is not right at all.
