Lena the Leech from Seeking Arrangements
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"I may have a disorder, but I am not crazy. In a world filled with gloomy, mediocre nothings populating a go-nowhere rat race, people are attracted to my exceptionalism like moths to a flame. This is my story."
Charming, isn't she? Well, on the outside she is but this book is her revelation of what's really going on on the inside. I recommend reading it as a study of human relations. If you've ever met someone who seemed nice enough but your spidey senses were tingling, yet you could never quite put your finger on what was wrong, you may have met someone with this personality disorder. Some are more obvious than others (we have had some doozies in this community) but some live quite comfortably under the general radar!
These arrangements are NEVER about "loans". Once the money is in her hands, it is gone, and if you think there will be a future benefit for that money, you will be sorely disappointed. These arrangements ONLY work if you keep on top of things, and ensure that you only pay appropriately for current services. You pay what you feel is 3 sessions worth of $$ in the hopes that you will get 2 more sessions without money exchanging hands? Not gonna happen. You just paid 3x the rate for 1 session. Never ever ever ever give her money that you expect to be paid back. cash only flows one way in these relationships. Her job is to get the maximum flowing for the longest she can. Your job is to manage cash flow and expectations, and keep tabs on your emotional involvement; failing to do so leads directly to your financial ruin.
Read "Private Dancer". It provides some insight on a Westerner falling for Thai prostitute, and the stark contrast between how he views their relationship compared to her. The huge cultural rift results in both parties wondering "just how the fuck on Earth the other party cant see how totally stupid and unrealistic they are acting, and how totally normal and sane I am acting...."
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Please don't take this the wrong way...
I think you are very nice but probably just got the wrong idea. A man looking to be a "Sugar Daddy" doesn't give his Sugar Babe "loans" he expects to be paid back for. He also doesn't usually pay her "per session", but more of a monthly allowance type thing. Last but not least never ever EVER would a proper Sugar Daddy offer to take his Sugar Babe to McDonalds. He wouldn't have a problem with expensive meals because that is what he is used to eating alone anyways, and the extra expense is no bothder. Seeing as she could go to McDonalds by herself, or with someone who is not an SD it is not uncommon for a Sugar Babe to decline meeting a Sugar Daddy at McDonalds. Sugar Daddy's are meant to be very wealthy and very generous, with plenty of disposable income and not giving only on a tit-for-tat basis. I think the ladies here are better for you.
I'm really really really sorry if I upset or offend anybody with the blunt honesty of this statement.... it's not my intention, I'm just trying to keep it real! *smoochies*
I think you are very nice but probably just got the wrong idea. A man looking to be a "Sugar Daddy" doesn't give his Sugar Babe "loans" he expects to be paid back for. He also doesn't usually pay her "per session", but more of a monthly allowance type thing. Last but not least never ever EVER would a proper Sugar Daddy offer to take his Sugar Babe to McDonalds. He wouldn't have a problem with expensive meals because that is what he is used to eating alone anyways, and the extra expense is no bothder. Seeing as she could go to McDonalds by herself, or with someone who is not an SD it is not uncommon for a Sugar Babe to decline meeting a Sugar Daddy at McDonalds. Sugar Daddy's are meant to be very wealthy and very generous, with plenty of disposable income and not giving only on a tit-for-tat basis. I think the ladies here are better for you.
I'm really really really sorry if I upset or offend anybody with the blunt honesty of this statement.... it's not my intention, I'm just trying to keep it real! *smoochies*
Try reading the first part over where she asked him for $14,000.00
Let's face it most women are too cheap to pay for anything. Even if they do offer - they don't mean it. It's just a test to see if you will insist on paying or not.
If she asked me for $14,000.00 I'd say no way - not going to happen I'd tolerate it for a while until she became more trouble than she was worth and then I'd tell her to go fuck herself.
And if you are suggesting that there are men who routinely give $14,000.00 away to money leeching whores - then these men are morons and they deserve to have their money taken.
Gold diggers exist because men with no brains exist.
This guy had enough sense to say to her go fuck yourself.
Good on him.
