You should sent your complaint and pertinent details about the stalker to the Mods and have him get booted out instead of you having to leave...
I have become aware that I have a stalker that is a member of PERB. Let me be perfectly clear about this, the stalker is NOT an SP. It is a regular member.
Because of this, I will no longer be a contributing member of this board.
When you say 'stalker', do you mean someone who shows up where you live and work? Because that would be creepy.
If by 'stalking' you mean someone that posts on the threads you post on? That would be rather thin-skinned of you. Maybe public forums aren't the place for you.
Especially considering he rarely hesitated to comment about others from time to time.I agree with you, Ray. Being bothered by comments and back talk is a bit thin-skinned.
Exactly true.Stalker will just come up with a bunch of diff names and ip. Especially easy if the person has a laptop.
It isn't a question of someone engaging me in debate. This person is following my postings on this board. Ignore is irrelevant.Ignore doesn't work?
Works great for me.
Rather than walk I suggest either ignore or contact a mod to discuss.
More the former, not the latter. I will not go into details but this person, through improper means that are legally questionable, has obtained highly personal information about me.When you say 'stalker', do you mean someone who shows up where you live and work? Because that would be creepy.
If by 'stalking' you mean someone that posts on the threads you post on? That would be rather thin-skinned of you. Maybe public forums aren't the place for you.
I do not know the handle of the member. I just know that this person is on PERB.So why would you leave ? If this person is a board member, let the board know who this person is. It might not solve your problem with this individual, but at least it would give a heads up to other board members that it might be wise to avoid this person. Based on another thread, I suspect that maybe this person has also identified you from/on other social sites and may be causing you problems there, more so than here.
I agree with you, Ray. Being bothered by comments and back talk is a bit thin-skinned.
This is what happens when people comment when they don't know what they are talking about. This person has never, to my knowledge, ever commented on something I have written. I would suggest you withhold judgement on issues you do not have good knowledge about. It will help you to not look foolish and petty.Especially considering he rarely hesitated to comment about others from time to time.
Good luck with that.I would suggest you withhold judgement on issues you do not have good knowledge about.
It isn't a question of someone engaging me in debate. This person is following my postings on this board. Ignore is irrelevant.
More the former, not the latter. I will not go into details but this person, through improper means that are legally questionable, has obtained highly personal information about me.
I do not know the handle of the member. I just know that this person is on PERB.
This is what happens when people comment when they don't know what they are talking about. This person has never, to my knowledge, ever commented on something I have written. I would suggest you withhold judgement on issues you do not have good knowledge about. It will help you to not look foolish and petty.
and making a big deal over it rather than just leaving sounds kinda drama-queenishIt's really hard to figure out what you're trying to describe here. To be blunt, it sounds paranoid.
It's really hard to figure out what you're trying to describe here. To be blunt, it sounds paranoid.
I think that the problem here is, that nobody has any compassion or common sense. STALKING IS A CRIME. It brings a host of psychological fears to the table, and RIGHTLY SO. It is sick and twisted, and ILLEGAL. If a person says that someone has illegally obtained HIGHLY personal information and is possibly showing up somewhere OTHER than Perb, to harass them, in whatever way he is feeling harassed, then who are you to say he is paranoid, or a drama queen?and making a big deal over it rather than just leaving sounds kinda drama-queenish
Hard to have good knowledge about something when you won't share details. Their only option is to theorize and draw a conclusion from there. You suggest they not comment, because you don't like their responses, but by even posting this in the first place you are clearly looking for a discussion on the matter. Or was your purpose in posting this to simply draw sympathy?This is what happens when people comment when they don't know what they are talking about. This person has never, to my knowledge, ever commented on something I have written. I would suggest you withhold judgement on issues you do not have good knowledge about. It will help you to not look foolish and petty.





