Lava Life

[Ironhead]

I joined Lavalife today just to try it out. I don't know how good it is. We shall see.
I guess it would not be there if it did not work.

Are there any secerts to meeting ladies in there. I don't think
there are any SP's in there, and I would not expect to see any.

Anyone else out there tried it?

 

[stryker]

Lots of SP's on Lava Ironhead,,,,best thing is to be honest,,don't imbelish and make your self out as something your not,,,,
if you post a photo,,be prepared for the whole world to see it,,,,,have fun,,,,be prepared to waste alot of time,,,,,,good luck

 

[wolverine]

I've been a lavalife member for a couple of years now, with varying success. But I use it for finding dates, not for pooning.

Tips:

- If you want to meet ladies in the Dating and Relationship sections, do not post a profile under Intimate Encounters. They'll check.

- Be sure you read the ladies profiles carefully. Many of them specify what they're looking for in a man.

- Be yourself. Do not lie about your age, your job, etc, nor post your old pics.

- Yes, there are SPs on lavalife, however they are likely seeking out an actual mate instead of advertising their business. If they are on there to advertise then they are likely in the Intimate Encounters sections.

- Take nothing personally. If a lady you fancy doesn't respond back to you, just move on.

 

[lowdeville]

It works,but There's alot of Airheads on there,be prepared to weed out a few undesirables!There are SP's on there,but they all post in the intimate section,Adult friend finder is better if all you are looking for is sex!There's alot for the ladies to choose from,so just wait for responses and don't expect too much in the first 24 hrs or anything,unless you are exceptional!lol

 

[zoomer]

Ginger is on lavalife? What is her profile name? You can PM me if it isn't appropriate to post TIA

 

[rigiddoctor]

If you start outing SP's on lavalife, be prepared for some of them to out us pooners

We've all witnessed what happens when a lady is outted, stalked, harrassed or just plain PMSing

 

[Ironhead]

HHMMM

I never said I was looking for SP's. I just wanted to know of anyones success in meeting ladies.
If I want an SP I will phone up Carman or someone.

 

[static]

it can be addicting.

 

[yoniluvrca]

You can spend a lot of time on LL and see nothing for your money or time. Many, not all, of the ladies are time wasters. For them it is a free service. They invest nothing but a bit of time to be there. For success you have to be smart.

First, define what you want. Second, ask for it up front and as honestly as you can. Third, don't take anything personally. Forth, if a lady sound too good to be true, she probably is.

I spent many hours and a few bucks on LL and only got laid a few (about 4) times. This is what I was there for. The cash/poon ratio was high ie. I spent a lot and got a little. I would actually recommend sticking with Sp's for casual sex-it turns out to be cheaper and your selection is better. Also. less complications.

There are some gems that appear but in about three years of trying I only really, really found one once. A couple of 19 yo sweeties (from the island) out for a good time. A rare find.

One more thing. In the looks department, the ladies on Intimate Encounters tend to be better looking. Don't know why this is.

Good Luck

YL

 

[Hedonist7]

I met a couple of girls from Lava - both were very nice but not all that attractive... I think it is a great place for people that don't do all that well in real life... if you know what I mean...

The male/female ratio is also extremely unbalanced... Something like 10 guys to 1 girl. Factor-in that you wouldn't really be attracted to 90% of these females during normal "real life like" circumstances and you get the general idea = slim pickins...

Bottom line is: good looking girls don't need to waste hours and hours of time on-line just to get laid (all they need to do is go to a bar and ask for a "light") - but some may want to "talk online first" to find out if there is mental attraction before looking at getting physical. Best advice is: Be Real.

Also beware of Ashley Madison... I heard they actually give "commissions" to some ladies to keep desperate guys on-line as long as possible. A form of tease for money kind of thing...

 

[lowdeville]

TRy the free sites like Faceparty,no cost involved,younger crowd though.If you are over 30 it might not work!

 

[wolverine]

For them it is a free service. They invest nothing but a bit of time to be there. For success you have to be smart.

As far as I know, the ladies still have to buy credits to use Lava's instant messenger or to send an initial mail message. But not that many of them need to do so.