Ladies: Do you ever judge your clients on looks?

[Vman]

Hey ladies! Do you ever judge your clients on physical features and does this affect your services towards them? I've heard of the term YMMV does this apply on looks or would you say it's more for their personality?

I sometimes feel self conscious when I awkwardly walk into an escorts place, I'm still a newbie at it as I haven't pooned that much yet, but when I do I get really nervous because I always feel like the woman I'm about to make sweet love to is a lot more mature than me and that maybe they look at me like a little kid, so I get all intimidated. All the escorts I have been with, they tell me "wow you look really young" I mean I know this is technically a good compliment, but at the same time it makes me feel kinda nervous lol. I always think one day I'll encounter one who will ask for my ID or something, and I'll pull out a Hawaiian drivers license like McLovin. I guess what I am trying to say, all the SP's I have been with so far range from mediocre to excellent in terms of services, but I have never truly experienced a real girlfriend experience, maybe cause I've never had one yet so I'm not sure what it's truly like, I just base my standards on romantic films.

 

[take8easy]

What do you think SP's are going to say?

On a serious note, I think most sp's are ok with looks etc. Those who are not, usually mention it in their ads. Dont be so self conscious. No one is ideal looking. Looks are always subjective. it is the personality, attitude and behavior that matter.

 

[UhOh]

To a robot SP looks are not important. Why would you think human SP's are any different then you average man when it comes to being attracted to good looks.
Sure some may said they don't care but I'm not buying it.

SP's just might be great actresses like female porn stars. Ever see a hot late teen girl in porn with Ron Jeremy lying on top and she looks like she's thoroughly enjoying it? Those babes deserve an Oscar.

 

[bcneil]

Everyone on earth cares about looks.
I can't speak for the SPs, but I would say below average looking men is just part of their job description.
Good hygiene would be more important, and if you are nice and clean you would be better than a lot of their clients.
But I read in the other thread you are afraid of water or some odd shit, so who knows.

 

[Vman]

Everyone on earth cares about looks.
I can't speak for the SPs, but I would say below average looking men is just part of their job description.
Good hygiene would be more important, and if you are nice and clean you would be better than a lot of their clients.
But I read in the other thread you are afraid of water or some odd shit, so who knows.

Yes bcneil, water scares me, I can't even walk around vancouver anymore because of the constant rain, that must've been a great read, how long was that thread? like 5 pages? Anyways, this is a new thread now

 

[LADY-VIA]

Hey ladies! Do you ever judge your clients on physical features and does this affect your services towards them? I've heard of the term YMMV does this apply on looks or would you say it's more for their personality?

I sometimes feel self conscious when I awkwardly walk into an escorts place, I'm still a newbie at it as I haven't pooned that much yet, but when I do I get really nervous because I always feel like the woman I'm about to make sweet love to is a lot more mature than me and that maybe they look at me like a little kid, so I get all intimidated. All the escorts I have been with, they tell me "wow you look really young" I mean I know this is technically a good compliment, but at the same time it makes me feel kinda nervous lol. I always think one day I'll encounter one who will ask for my ID or something, and I'll pull out a Hawaiian drivers license like McLovin. I guess what I am trying to say, all the SP's I have been with so far range from mediocre to excellent in terms of services, but I have never truly experienced a real girlfriend experience, maybe cause I've never had one yet so I'm not sure what it's truly like, I just base my standards on romantic films.

Absolutely not !! While i am naturally attracted more to certain physical attrbutes i dont judge any of my clients
sure there are some thimgs in life that we can control such as our personal health and fitness as well as how groomed we keep ourselves but there are so many other things we have no control over. What natinality we are along with what ever genetic traits we were born with is all a roll of the dice. So I see everyone equally the same on an overal basis if that makes any sense. Ive had thoroughly pleasurable times with all sorts of different looking clients. I feed off of the reactions of my clients when im doing things to them. The more pleased they are the more energy they release that i absorb and pleasures me at the same time. Im on that board right beside them riding all those waves at the same time.

 

[Vman]

With the whole YMMV thing I always wonder if looks plays a big role in that? Or....if you can compensate with more

Do good looking guys get better services?

 

[escapefromstress]

Hey ladies! Do you ever judge your clients on physical features and does this affect your services towards them? I've heard of the term YMMV does this apply on looks or would you say it's more for their personality?

I sometimes feel self conscious when I awkwardly walk into an escorts place, I'm still a newbie at it as I haven't pooned that much yet, but when I do I get really nervous because I always feel like the woman I'm about to make sweet love to is a lot more mature than me and that maybe they look at me like a little kid, so I get all intimidated. All the escorts I have been with, they tell me "wow you look really young" I mean I know this is technically a good compliment, but at the same time it makes me feel kinda nervous lol. I always think one day I'll encounter one who will ask for my ID or something, and I'll pull out a Hawaiian drivers license like McLovin. I guess what I am trying to say, all the SP's I have been with so far range from mediocre to excellent in terms of services, but I have never truly experienced a real girlfriend experience, maybe cause I've never had one yet so I'm not sure what it's truly like, I just base my standards on romantic films.

In ten years of working as a SP, I can't ever remember thinking "OMG this guy's ugly". I'm always mentally prepared to accept everyone's appearance, and have trained myself to look for something positive about/inside every client I meet.

Poor hygiene and/or a disrespectful attitude are what turn me off from enjoying our time together.

Whenever I get a really young client, I marvel at how 'new' their body is, lol.

 

[tokugawa]

He look mighty handsome !

kah_ching

Hmmmm...... I prefer the following instead:

 

[Vman]

No, looks won't change how I treat a client. But their nervousness has stopped me from connecting with some of them, and not for lack of trying.
My first restriction? Don't be an asshole. second, be clean. I'm sure you have some great features, both inside and out. Walk in knowing that, and most reputable ladies will want to try to connect.

Nervousness is definitely something I need to work on when seeing an SP, I think I would need to see the same SP more than once to start feeling comfortable, an hour is not enough for me to get to know the SP, I treat SP's like I would treat an actual person I meet for the first time which is what kinda stops me from going all out on a session cause it takes me a while until I start to really open up to people.

 

[Vman]

Hmmmm...... I prefer the following instead:

For the feminists:

 

[PuntMeister]

I am quite happy if an SP judges me by my looks, personality, manners, grooming, nipples, ass, naughty bits, warmth, skill, attitude, world view, etc. I respectfully do the same, so why should I expect any different treatment? But being a sensitive new age guy though, I try hard to only speak the good stuff, and it's kinda nice to hear the same :thumb:

 

[sybian]

I've been told that I look a little a young Redford by a few women, SP's included...I look in the mirror and don't see it myself, even though I've done some magazine adds for Wrangler and Stetson.
I know that I'm polite and respectful in any ladies company, and YMMV if she likes the way she's treated and I'm hygenic. I'm very concious of that when introducing myself.
I geuss I do have the authentic Cowboy thing going for me....and some girls love that, but i've never known any different ,because how I look is just something that I live with every day.
I suppose if I find them very attractive, I'm willing to go the extra mile to get their fondness and attention,....so why wouldn't they do the same?
I find respect ,and good manners goes an awful long way when spending time with any young lady.
I may be simplifieing it ...but it works for me.

 

[Volpina Vance]

To a robot SP looks are not important. Why would you think human SP's are any different then you average man when it comes to being attracted to good looks.
Sure some may said they don't care but I'm not buying it.

Just one moment: The average escort discussed on this board is not the average man. My personal take is that overall, looks seem to matter less to women than men. How much less looks matter, or whether that’s true, doesn’t seem like it can be quantified satisfactorily (although a person can always find stories like these).

Hey ladies! Do you ever judge your clients on physical features and does this affect your services towards them? I've heard of the term YMMV does this apply on looks or would you say it's more for their personality?

I sometimes feel self conscious when I awkwardly walk into an escorts place, I'm still a newbie at it as I haven't pooned that much yet, but when I do I get really nervous because I always feel like the woman I'm about to make sweet love to is a lot more mature than me and that maybe they look at me like a little kid, so I get all intimidated. All the escorts I have been with, they tell me "wow you look really young" I mean I know this is technically a good compliment, but at the same time it makes me feel kinda nervous lol. I always think one day I'll encounter one who will ask for my ID or something, and I'll pull out a Hawaiian drivers license like McLovin. I guess what I am trying to say, all the SP's I have been with so far range from mediocre to excellent in terms of services, but I have never truly experienced a real girlfriend experience, maybe cause I've never had one yet so I'm not sure what it's truly like, I just base my standards on romantic films.

When I’m to meet a client, my hopes and energy are centred on an emotionally enjoyable time together. I know that my physical appearance, to whatever degree, plays a part for [him]… but having hosted professional athletes, very successful individuals, men just out of their teens, and wise old ones, I repeat that the client I consider wonderful is simply one who is clean and respectful. The variable of a client’s attractiveness does not correlate with my enjoyment of our time together. Nor does his age, so don't worry! As to what does affect my service toward him - the client does. Although I strive to be an excellent host to everybody, and that’s a very important part of my ethic, I feel happiest with those by whom I feel most respected. These most likely are the people who have some intuition or experience with practicing empathy.

To answer your question, Vman, I firmly believe that how you act will have a far greater bearing on your experience with an escort than how you look.

I am an introverted person and still experience social anxiety in some situations. I hope I can say I relate to your feelings of awkwardness when you meet an escort! I was riddled with nerves as well before seeing my first client, and sometimes before meeting a client I still get as nervous as I would for a date or job interview. However, there has been a constant in these situations that I now know I can trust: those jitters are just stage fright, and they will calm down - usually when I see the person’s face.

I actually attribute a vast decrease in my levels of shyness to becoming an escort. When I started out, I could empathize very strongly with the nervousness of the clients meeting me for the first time. Helping them to feel comfortable took up any attention I could have allocated to my own nervousness. This also inherently made me more in control of the situation.

My advice regarding your nervousness and your questions above is to think of the escort’s comfort, and focus completely on her comfort during the first five minutes of your meeting. I know this might feel a little funny applied, and for part of that time you may be in the shower, but perform the task to the best of your ability. It really won't hurt anybody, and it may help. <3

I just wanted to add something taken from Eat, Pray, Love (so prepare for some sappiness) that may also make you feel differently about meeting an escort: Your escort wants you to be happy. She genuinely wants you to be happy. Why would she not? You can rely on her. She is your friend.

 

[Cami Parker]

To be honest, everyone has something special and uniqueley attractive about them, which is easy to focus on if you know what you're looking for. That's why I can say I'm genuinely attracted to all my clients. Some people have really warm smiles, some people have beautiful twinkly eyes, some people have really nice hair, some people are super intelligent, some are very sexually confident and some people can make me laugh until soda comes out my nose. These are all very attractive qualities, and just a few examples off a very long list. As long as you go to a good SP who offers a true GFE and is just as concerned with her own enjoyment of the session as yours, you will have a great time.

Hey ladies! Do you ever judge your clients on physical features and does this affect your services towards them? I've heard of the term YMMV does this apply on looks or would you say it's more for their personality?

I sometimes feel self conscious when I awkwardly walk into an escorts place, I'm still a newbie at it as I haven't pooned that much yet, but when I do I get really nervous because I always feel like the woman I'm about to make sweet love to is a lot more mature than me and that maybe they look at me like a little kid, so I get all intimidated. All the escorts I have been with, they tell me "wow you look really young" I mean I know this is technically a good compliment, but at the same time it makes me feel kinda nervous lol. I always think one day I'll encounter one who will ask for my ID or something, and I'll pull out a Hawaiian drivers license like McLovin. I guess what I am trying to say, all the SP's I have been with so far range from mediocre to excellent in terms of services, but I have never truly experienced a real girlfriend experience, maybe cause I've never had one yet so I'm not sure what it's truly like, I just base my standards on romantic films.

 

[Aellyn Rose]

Absolutely agree. No body is perfect and women are far less visual than men anyways.
I do however look for clues that the client is taking the meeting seriously in the way he dressed or presents himself.
Other than that, I focus on personality in our initial chat. Does the gentleman make me feel at ease, does he take the time to establish some kind of a connection, does he check his phone non-stop during our meeting, etc.

 

[Lo-ki]

"does he check his phone non-stop during our meeting"

Really...hmmm.... never heard of that one...usually it's the other way around.

 

[Aellyn Rose]

Then I'm ready to meet 99.9% of guys

 

[Cami Parker]

That is so crazy rude!! If someone is paying for your time they definitely deserve your 109% undecided attention!

"does he check his phone non-stop during our meeting"

Really...hmmm.... never heard of that one...usually it's the other way around.

 

[Volpina Vance]

"Undecided attention" is quite clever. I will use this in future.