Keeping Track Of Time??

[xRiCeYx]

Dear fellow Perbs...

When you book a 30/45/60 mins session with a SP...How do you keep track of time? Or does the SP keep track of time and tell you when time is nearing to a end?

Do you set your phone alarm to 5 mins before session time ends? Any info would be appreciated

 

[VanessaofBC]

Personally I dislike setting an alarm because it can go off at the most inopportune moment. I have never had a client do that either.

I tend not to be much of a clock watcher and find respectful clients are mindful of their time and are not always pushing it to the last second.

I do have a small clock off to the side. I may glance at it occasionally to make sure things are moving along accordingly.

 

[BORKO]

I tell them to give me a 5 or 10 minute warning so I can finish off. And occasionally I ask how I'm doing for time.

 

[Feenix]

Shortly after I came to Vancouver, a well know SP of that day told me that an hour of her time did not necessarily mean an hour. To her it meant an SOG.

IMHO, we all have internal clocks, and we all have a sense of how much time we have spent to that moment. Most reputable providers will politely tell you time is running out, or have a sense that you are cumming to an end. And some will have a clock readily visible for both of you to see. You will understand she is beginning to wind down your session with her.

I have only had one provider say she was not in a rush to leave. Unfortunately, that day I was pressed for time, and ended the session on time. :crazy:

Don't be a jerk, and I am not suggesting you are, and push her until she puts her foot down and says, "Get out". I like to be considerate of my date, look at my watch and decide for both of us that my time is running out, just to let her know I am aware of it.

you will find that the actual time "ie. 30mins, 45 mins, etc. is not really adhered to by many, shorter appointments like 30 min or 45 min generally mean 1 sog and once you get that off after a reasonable amount of time has passed things will generally unwind and you might actually be out the door in less time than the actual supposed session time

this is not a stopwatch timed event, the session times seem to be more like rough guidelines where if you make a 45 min appt you should expect to be out of there in 45 minutes or less if the deed is done. some girls make a point of keeping things going until the full time but you will find many will move things along after your sog is done and a few minutes of recovery time and then your shower

 

[tantalizeme]

Dear fellow Perbs...

When you book a 30/45/60 mins session with a SP...How do you keep track of time? Or does the SP keep track of time and tell you when time is nearing to a end?

Do you set your phone alarm to 5 mins before session time ends? Any info would be appreciated

Hey brother,

You ask good questions—hope you'll soon be ready to do reviews as well.

Certainly, time is of the essence, perhaps more so in this hobby than in most endeavors. As a pooner, you want to make the most of your paid-up time, and that requires a sense of timing about when to come—and confidently resisting attempts at rushing and getting shortchanged on time.

I find, massage spas usually have wall clocks, and so do some rooms in micros. If they don't, I look at my wristwatch before I take it off and make a mental note about when I need to finish. I keep my watch handy and check the time if necessary.

These days, exactly observing my time limit rarely becomes an issue with the micro SPs I see, except when they have a back-to-back booking. My preferred method of keeping track of time has been to bring a CD player and play a CD which is exactly 1 hr long.

I know by now what the last few songs are, so that's my clue when to finish off. Anyway, beats me how anyone can want to have sex without background music.

 

[odonnell]

I think most men know themselves and the services they want well enough to estimate how much time they need and book accordingly. Having a clock where the client can see it to glance at when the session starts is a good idea. Then trust that the SP is going to move things along as necessary in order to fit in all the things the client has discussed with her in advance. Unless the session is massage where usually the full time is given, most mature thinking men take the time to mean "up to" the paid for time. If he is content sooner and is not the chatty type and wants to get on with his day, then he has his shower and should not be acting like he must get his money's worth as if he is buying a pound of lunch meat.

 

[Crumb]

being a relative noob to this, the few that I've been wtih, I've had the good fortune of not booking with clock watchers
I've noticed that when the session begins, they'll start a playlist of music and since they've put the playlist together, the session will end when the music does.
I've never been rushed out the door (thank you ladies), casual chit chat while dressing and such. When I'm out the door and I look at my own clock, it's usually a good 15-20 min passed the appointed time.

of course, if you ever go to a nevada brothel, they have intercoms and someone on the other end is keeping time and will let ya know when you're time is up.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

i take the approach that the lady is providing me with a service, and keeping track of the time is part of that service

i normally wear a wrist watch, but i take it off for sex so it doesn't get caught in her hair or otherwise scratch her

 

[New]

I always book an hour. Even if I don't intend to stay for the full hour. Just better not to rush it but saying that I don't mind spending the extra for that. Usually sp say shower time don't count but if I make an appointment for 8 to 9. Then I make sure I'm out by 9. Even if I was late and only had 30 mins left I pay for the full hour and leave after 30 mins. If the sp is someone I like spending time with then normally I would stay and talk until my full hour is up. Only sp I do that with is the one I've seen for a while and i know that they like doing the same. Tells me she's not pressed for time, stay, no rush or isn't doing anything after my appointment etc.

 

[AA_Train]

It is 100% the SPs responsibility to keep track of time. Its her time her business, therefore her responsibility. Now, that doesn't mean I am not mindful of the time nor do I abuse the privilege by trying to scam free time but if I feel I am on the clock, it takes away from my enjoyment of the session. I usually book 2 hour sessions and on average most go over 15-30 minutes. Its neither of our intent for it to do so but when one is in the presence of good company, there is no rush for your time together to end

 

[summerbreeze]

I once got to know one of the asian mamasans quite well and she asked me this question

I suggested (silly me) that she record several playlists of music which ended in 45m or 60m

several so that the girls did not get sick of the same songs, she immediately got me to do this for her and this became her timing system as well as her own personal collection of music

she put a cd player in each room and the girl would start it after the shower

they knew more or less how much time was left by which song was playing and speeded up the tempo to suit

worked quite well and the customers did not have the concept of time in their face so to speak

 

[Blonde Brynn]

It is 100% the SPs responsibility to keep track of time. Its her time her business, therefore her responsibility. Now, that doesn't mean I am not mindful of the time nor do I abuse the privilege by trying to scam free time but if I feel I am on the clock, it takes away from my enjoyment of the session. I usually book 2 hour sessions and on average most go over 15-30 minutes. Its neither of our intent for it to do so but when one is in the presence of good company, there is no rush for your time together to end

I am typically very laid-back about time, but I do take issue with the expectation that quality service = extra time. Not that I don't sometimes do it, but I reserve the right to a hard "time's up." Very seldom will those words cross my lips, but there are many reasons why I may need things to end at the scheduled time, and none of them justify someone complaining on a review board that their session ended only 5min after it was supposed to.

I could need to text my safety, have a personal appointment, a work one (they are never back-to-back or anywhere close, but I do like to take a decent amount of time preparing), I could be asserting my boundaries with someone who I can tell has been trying to push them, I could have studying to get done. Hell, I could just be holding back a wicked fart.

The point is, my time is my time, and so long as something I have done has not cost someone theirs, it is my prerogative to extend it to someone else. Not doing so should not affect the perception of my quality of service I provide when I am on yours.

Not that I think that this is your intention in saying this, but I have noticed this attitude from others, and it vexes me so.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Hell, I could just be holding back a wicked fart.

...oh mah gawd, ma'am...

 

[*emmanuelle]

It is 100% the SPs responsibility to keep track of time. Its her time her business, therefore her responsibility. Now, that doesn't mean I am not mindful of the time nor do I abuse the privilege by trying to scam free time but if I feel I am on the clock, it takes away from my enjoyment of the session. I usually book 2 hour sessions and on average most go over 15-30 minutes. Its neither of our intent for it to do so but when one is in the presence of good company, there is no rush for your time together to end

In my opinion, if your appointments are consistently going over-time by up to 30 minutes, I think you might be missing cues from the lady that it's time to get dressed and leave. I say this because I've found it's very common that when clients are basking in the "afterglow" of a session, they are often oblivious to all the hints I'm giving. It doesn't mean I didn't have a great time, or that I didn't enjoy "good company" as you say.

 

[Blonde Brynn]

In my opinion, if your appointments are consistently going over-time by up to 30 minutes, I think you might be missing cues from the lady that it's time to get dressed and leave. I say this because I've found it's very common that when clients are basking in the "afterglow" of a session, they are often oblivious to all the hints I'm giving. It doesn't mean I didn't have a great time, or that I didn't enjoy "good company" as you say.

Oh mah gawd, this is my life. Even when they are getting dressed, they can be oblivious. How in the hell does it take 5 minutes to put on a single sock!?!

 

[*emmanuelle]

Oh mah gawd, this is my life. Even when they are getting dressed, they can be oblivious. How in the hell does it take 5 minutes to put on a single sock!?!

I usually have to stay standing up, or putter around doing little things to signify that it's dressing time.
Sometimes if I sit back down on the bed (just for a second!), the guy is like Oh, it's sitting time again! then stops getting dressed, plops back down on bed and continues his monologue about his boat/golf game/what have you.

 

[Cami Parker]

I'll usually set a "10 minute warning" alarm, so we can get to wherever were going before our time is up.... That being said, yore not going to get shoved out the door at 60 minutes on the dot.... You can you know, have a shower ad a glass of water? Lol unless my girlfriend whom I share space with has an appointment shortly after mine, I'm generally not super pressed for time...

I tell them to give me a 5 or 10 minute warning so I can finish off. And occasionally I ask how I'm doing for time.

 

[Cami Parker]

Well said Miss Lady :clap2::cheer2::clap2:

I am typically very laid-back about time, but I do take issue with the expectation that quality service = extra time. Not that I don't sometimes do it, but I reserve the right to a hard "time's up." Very seldom will those words cross my lips, but there are many reasons why I may need things to end at the scheduled time, and none of them justify someone complaining on a review board that their session ended only 5min after it was supposed to.

I could need to text my safety, have a personal appointment, a work one (they are never back-to-back or anywhere close, but I do like to take a decent amount of time preparing), I could be asserting my boundaries with someone who I can tell has been trying to push them, I could have studying to get done. Hell, I could just be holding back a wicked fart.

The point is, my time is my time, and so long as something I have done has not cost someone theirs, it is my prerogative to extend it to someone else. Not doing so should not affect the perception of my quality of service I provide when I am on yours.

Not that I think that this is your intention in saying this, but I have noticed this attitude from others, and it vexes me so.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Care to explain how you ever feel not rushed, since you are paying for her time and therefore you are always on the clock? I'm sure you are great company...but as you said it's her business.

For some reason reading these comments back I have to ask.....

Has anyone ever been to Fantacity? Or any type of Asian style karaoke where the group of you rent a private room for a certain length of time, so you can sing Karaoke?

What happens when your time is up there? The hostess are very polite, knocking on the door asking if you would like to extend your time.

 

[badbadboy]

Dear fellow Perbs...

When you book a 30/45/60 mins session with a SP...How do you keep track of time? Or does the SP keep track of time and tell you when time is nearing to a end?

Do you set your phone alarm to 5 mins before session time ends? Any info would be appreciated

I count to myself

one thousand one

one thousand two

one thousand three

If I book for an hour, I say it 3600 times and it keeps me focused ound:

Seriously, though, I do ask when I am having a two hour date "how are we doing for time" just as a courtesy.

I have only gone significantly overtime a couple of times but IMHO we were both having a lot of fun so a tip was totally required and accepted.