Care to explain how you ever feel not rushed, since you are paying for her time and therefore you are always on the clock? I'm sure you are great company...but as you said it's her business.
Well, look at it like this
If you went to a spa and had a one hour massage, you wouldn't be checking your watch every 10 minutes wondering how much time you had left to enjoy it, you'd probably just relax and let the experience happen. When it's done, it's done. For me, going to an SP is the equivalent of going to the spa. I know it is only going to last so long but for the majority of the experience, such things like time, space and the outside world are the furthest thing from my mind, I am here to enjoy myself. the best sessions are thge ones that don't feel like sessions. Having that on the clock feeling takes away from the experience.
I am typically very laid-back about time, but I do take issue with the expectation that quality service = extra time. Not that I don't sometimes do it, but I reserve the right to a hard "time's up." Very seldom will those words cross my lips, but there are many reasons why I may need things to end at the scheduled time, and none of them justify someone complaining on a review board that their session ended only 5min after it was supposed to.
I could need to text my safety, have a personal appointment, a work one (they are never back-to-back or anywhere close, but I do like to take a decent amount of time preparing), I could be asserting my boundaries with someone who I can tell has been trying to push them, I could have studying to get done. Hell, I could just be holding back a wicked fart.
The point is, my time is my time, and so long as something I have done has not cost someone theirs, it is my prerogative to extend it to someone else. Not doing so should not affect the perception of my quality of service I provide when I am on yours.
Not that I think that this is your intention in saying this, but I have noticed this attitude from others, and it vexes me so.
No, I don't feel quality services requires or entitle me to extra time, it's just a happenstance. EG my last session I was with the lady and we were chatting and cuddling and fooling around when she sat up suddenly and wondered what time it was and we saw we were 15 minutes over time. In less than 10 minutes I was out the door. Not rushed by any means, but I felt the best thing was to make a hasty exit, as not to take advantage of her kindness. Plus, I had to get back home for a family dinner. We pooners do have to keep schedules, too.
In my opinion, if your appointments are consistently going over-time by up to 30 minutes, I think you might be missing cues from the lady that it's time to get dressed and leave. I say this because I've found it's very common that when clients are basking in the "afterglow" of a session, they are often oblivious to all the hints I'm giving. It doesn't mean I didn't have a great time, or that I didn't enjoy "good company" as you say.
What cues are you speaking of? Do you mean if the music stop?. Well, the ladies I see don't put music on usually, or if they do, the volume is too low for me to hear. I used to like music during my sessions but I find most ladies either have music that I do not like or they like the same music I do but it is the type that does not lend to a sexy mood. I'd rather have none.
If you mean them putting clothes on, well that's a bit of a no brainer but I can tell you with me, it has been 50/50 as to who gets up to get dressed first. I enjoy my experiences and often wish they could be longer but like I said, I have my life, too. But things happen and we all get lost in the moment sometimes. That's all I was saying
