Part of it may because of the length of the appointment. One of the reasons that I've always liked multi-hour sessions is the tub and shower play that we have time for. Soap and Water are a great lubricant and the players can be sure that all of the naughty parts are very clean. BTW intercourse in a tub is a bad idea.
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yeah I was wondering when this thread would come up again.
you know I think the men that don't shower,
are kind of on a power trip, look she sucked my dirty cock, and they are most likely laughing about it, or there to stupid about such things,
it doesn't matter they will never learn
you know I think the men that don't shower,
are kind of on a power trip, look she sucked my dirty cock, and they are most likely laughing about it, or there to stupid about such things,
it doesn't matter they will never learn
Personally, I shower just before visiting an SP. Sometimes it's as little as 30 minutes since I hopped out of the shower. And I can do a much better job with my hand wand, than most fixed-head showers can.
I realize I might be an exception, but when I explain this to an SP and she still wants me to have a shower it does seem like a time waster, although I understand the motivation.
I do have trust issues, too and hate it when I've already disrobed when the request is made and I either have to pick up everything, including a coat, and drag it into the bathroom, showing I might not trust the lady, or leave everything and worry my money, ID, phone or CC's might be taken, or just snooped on. This is especially worrying if you've never met, and have no way of knowing if anyone else is in the place.
I realize I might be an exception, but when I explain this to an SP and she still wants me to have a shower it does seem like a time waster, although I understand the motivation.
I do have trust issues, too and hate it when I've already disrobed when the request is made and I either have to pick up everything, including a coat, and drag it into the bathroom, showing I might not trust the lady, or leave everything and worry my money, ID, phone or CC's might be taken, or just snooped on. This is especially worrying if you've never met, and have no way of knowing if anyone else is in the place.
I usually shower before I arrive at the Sps place but have no problem when asked to shower again before we begin, it makes our time together more enjoyable so we can have more fun.
It just annoys me how some Sps won't join you in the shower, or when the shower time is included in the session so you just lost 5-10 mins there especially if you only booked a 30 min session. But a lot of the good Sps don't include shower time in session.
It just annoys me how some Sps won't join you in the shower, or when the shower time is included in the session so you just lost 5-10 mins there especially if you only booked a 30 min session. But a lot of the good Sps don't include shower time in session.
Honestly I can relate to all these replys such as the trust issue when I hit the shower I handed the lady my donation in a sealed envelope that the bank gave me and I counted it 3 times and when I came out I was told it was short less then 5% of the required amount so to diffuse the situation I went to my clothing that appeared to be disturbed from the way I left it and got the supposedly missing amount meanwhile as the recently highly reviewed higher rate lady bantered on about how confused she was counting such a large amount that she regularly get for her donation and I spent the rest of the evening second guessing myself if this really happened lol Then the hygiene issue when the lady came to the door kissing and petting her new puppy and came out of the shower to see her puppy humping and chewing my shoes then it starts jumping up on me starts licking my feet and legs.After it try's to jump into bed with us and starts yapping so she try's to stop it by petting it and it starts to shit + piss on the floor leaving a horrible smell and she gets up to clean up the mess and then proceeds to return to the bed without even washing her hands instant mood killer so ladies I agree with you it's such a simple thing to go clean up as requested there is no excuse to not shower because of a trust issue but as other have said just do your due dilligence if u have a phobia about trust it happens
Oh, yes. The Klingons around Uranus! Give the whole area a good scrubbing. I prefer it when the lady joins me in the shower and gives me a good scrubdown. So much more fun!As a "Trekker", I prefer to call those "klingons"
these replies make me wonder about those guys that as soon as they walk in, before saying hello & looking at the sp or paying her, they head straight for the shower lol! I wonder if any SPs have had men that have "stolen" a shower haha, like if they take a long shower without paying, and then just leave! omg that would be crazy but i've never heard of that happening haha but its a suspicion of mine
I believe that the proper hygiene etiquette for me the client is to show up:
-freshly showered
-shaved face.
-teeth brushed and to always use mouth wash.
-underarm deodorant applied
When I get to the incall I have absolutely no problem taking another shower so that the SP is even more comfortable and knows that I am fresh.
-freshly showered
-shaved face.
-teeth brushed and to always use mouth wash.
-underarm deodorant applied
When I get to the incall I have absolutely no problem taking another shower so that the SP is even more comfortable and knows that I am fresh.
I always think it's a good idea to let the lady know you want her to shower with you. I LIKE joining my guests in the shower, but not on a day where I have spent 90 minutes getting my hair properly straightened & curled so it has that sleek shiny look everyone likes instead of wild flamboyant natural curl, not to mention the super-glam makeup! I always say if my mascara isn't running down my face, my job's not finished, but it shouldn't be from getting into the shower 15 minutes into the date!
Be a two shower guy like me. One ALWAYS before I go (head to toe) and one more upon arrival. It's just soap and water people!
I think you have solved your own problem the answer being if your customer he/she does not want to shower you do not service them.
The thing is in the sex service industry you have a tendency to have as part of your customer base men who other women would find repulsive. who have poor social skills part of poor social skills which is poor hygine. For example
there are a number of men that simply do not clip there finger nails or toe nails . Becase their fathers did not clip there finger nails . Yet they dont realize it that a man may look at a hand with dirty finger nails and think nothing of it but a woman will look at that and think "I dont want that shit inside me"
Unfortunatley there is a segment of our socity who thinks that just becase they have paid for a service . They now have ownership of the person giving that service . Like you are some sort of rented tool . This thinking is not uniqe to the sex service industry but seems to happen with all service based work .
Working at a retail job For the first time it shocked me That what was considerd ok was touching or grabbing of the staff for atttention . Some people would act like 3 year olds trying to get the attention of the parent .This was not uniqe to me the same thing would happen to all the staff . .
For example
I would be walking out the door after my shift was over a man would POKE his finger right in my arm Asuming this was Ok .
POKE " hey how come your store is chargeing $ 20 more than x store for this product ?
me-
Sir my shift is over and I do not control store prices .
Customer - Starts yelling at me well you better tell your manager about that . The price you have is to expensive If you want my busness your going to have to lower your prices . POKE POKE POKE sticking his finger in my sholder with each word said. That type of thing was pretty common.
Cashers would get the worst of it though
One time I saw a casher had gotten a cut forehead and was bleeding. The customer was upset about the gst price for the product he was trying to buy and could not afford it . Yes the "customer " got banned from the store but the casher ended up with a a scar for life on her forehead.
For some people the moment you put on that big box store uniform . You stoped being a human being .
I felt like just kicking the crap out these assholes sometimes .
Please also realise if you want exclusive private shopper services . do not go to and expect to get it at a big box retail discount store. If you want service like that expect to pay for it with higher prices and higher staff pay.
Do not expect exclusive service just by walking into a big box discount store from a person getting minimum wage.
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No no, they shower. Sometimes they come in smelling delicious because they showered at home. Sometimes, they shower here. And yet both of these examples have dropped their drawers and had it be smeg city. I guess I could, upon discovery, react, but I imagine it would be a very hurtful experience to have your SP look up at you in your most vulnerable moment, and exclaim "Gross! Clean your junk!"
Also, that is a very hefty assumption to make. Most of my clients are well to do men, with little time or want for a full time relationship, or they have unhappy/unfulfilling relationships and are looking for sexual release. To say that it's only men who are physically yucky or aren't capable of getting women is as ignorant as saying that women only get into sex work because they're too stupid to do anything else. Poor hygiene to the point of it being noticeable upon first glance (insisting a client to put condoms on his fingers because of long nails, open sores on non sexual areas due to diabetes, complete lack of dental care - yes. I'm serious) is something I haven't experienced since first starting in the business. Usually the regulars who can afford to see SPs have a handle on their hygiene, because they have a handle on the rest of their lives, and it's required. Bad hygiene wouldn't be tolerated in the boardroom/court/office/mediation etc. because people there wouldn't take you seriously either. However, I also very much doubt that colleagues in the boardroom/court/office/mediation would ever get a chance to sniff around your meat and potatoes to give you an honest opinion, so life success doesn't necessarily equate success for this topic
ound:My opinion has always been that an SP has an extremely tough job.
You have basically no clue who is coming to your door and you are always expected to perform regardless of the fact that you possibly have zero attraction for a client due to the fact that a client could be excessively overweight, unattractive or old enough to be your grandfather
Then there are clients that can be socially awkward or just plain weird that would be a total mood killer.
Then there are also men who are disrespectful to women and treat them like an object instead of a person.
I would absolutely agree that poor hygiene would definitely be one of the biggest turn offs that would completely destroy a session.
You women definitely have my respect for putting up with this shit. :nod:
You have basically no clue who is coming to your door and you are always expected to perform regardless of the fact that you possibly have zero attraction for a client due to the fact that a client could be excessively overweight, unattractive or old enough to be your grandfather
Then there are clients that can be socially awkward or just plain weird that would be a total mood killer.
Then there are also men who are disrespectful to women and treat them like an object instead of a person.
I would absolutely agree that poor hygiene would definitely be one of the biggest turn offs that would completely destroy a session.
You women definitely have my respect for putting up with this shit. :nod:
Kinda makes me wonder how did people put up with sex, or SPs put up with clients, in the wild west days where cowboys or mountain folks barely took a bath once a month and yet they expected to get laid whenever he got some money and came to town...lol
Ive wondered about that myself. I'm just not a very good actor so when I don't like someone they are usually aware of it.
As far as the showering goes, I take a shower when I arrive and make sure to finish in time for another before leaving. And don't visit any place where thats not available. At times I've actually spent more time total in the shower than in the SP's bed.
maybe they didn't have escorts and only had sex for 5 minutes, wham bam and go! no touching anywhere else lol
