Japan

[grusse]

Thanks for the polite and mature replies of groundbreaking information.
Your a big help to us all.

You may want to check out Thailand OP, i hear they are hospitable. There was just a thread about it not that long ago.

some people are just impatient or immature Hank,could be lots of reasons for it, i.e. can't get laid, forgot the meds,who knows?don't sweat it.

 

[bcneil]

I was in Tokyo 10 years ago for work, for a whole month.
I wasn't a pooner yet. I wasn't able to get laid once the whole time.
But at the same time got lots of attention from women.
Lots of people wanted to get their picture taken with me, as I am tall.
Probably 30-40 people.
On a weekend I actually started drawing a crowd.

But I hear it is true, that pooning there is very challenging for foreigners. I'd assume expensive too as everything else there is

 

[87112]

White man in Asia, use that " white privilege" like there is no tomorrow is my advice.
Go to China, you can be Joe Smith # 54659956 million and people will think you are a TV star.

 

[eclipca]

Wow so not what I was hoping to hear. That's a shame its so difficult. Hopefully i can connect somehow... Will let you all know if I do.

 

[winky32]

difficult but not impossible.

There are some delivery health (outcall) agencies that deal with foreigners. Also a few soapland massage joints.

Many places will staight up reject you if you are caucasian oe Non Japanese. some places may let Japanese speaking Asian foreigners slide.

 

[johnsmit]

They must of watch shogun and did not like Richard Chamberlain.

 

[cktc9]

...missed this thread...

In Japan I was approached and offered "Massagi ?" while walking alone near the center of Shinjuku, but the area was rapidly looking Yakuza territory.
I wasn't looking for anything, and quickly turned around and got out of there...

There was a 2-sided reaction to white guys. Some women wanted you, but mostly "the white guy looking for sex" was considered a cliche, and you were ignored. Especially if you tried too hard...

I was with my Japanese immigrant wife, however, and way to many of her friends and relatives seemed to think I was open game. I got man-handled by many, from a 17 year old to 55 year old (the 17 year old's mom, no less...) One granny even tried to peek into the shower when I stayed at one relative's place. That wasn't too hard to do in the older homes, there's only a curtain.

Group nudity is "normal", and there was curiosity regarding ethnic "equipment size", especially at the onsen, and especially from the older women. A friend's 7 year old daughter wandered between the men's and women's change room talking to each parent, when I was still talking with her dad. She was staring eye-ball to balls...

One future neice-in-law made an offer I didn't refuse, and I got to check out the inside of a love-hotel. An experience all on its own. Cash, through a small locker-door in the wall near the door of the room, for 3 hrs with a very luxurious bed and shower area. But you gotta speak nihongo.

Strange place, really. Affairs are common, everyone is so busy with work and the required work socializing, that it's easy to play. Even here in Vancouver, some of her friends have gotten pretty frisky...

Depends on your circumstances, I guess.