it was really rather enjoyable.

[sevenofnine]

i saw my sp this week and it was rather nice,

a lot has been said about this hobby i have written much myself.
i think it is rarely touched on,
how important the match is

i guess it doesn't matter if you never repeat or hardly ever do, or maybe if you have never found that match that is why you don't repeat

is the lady i see the best sp, no come on not at all.
but she is the best sp for me

its funny but i would if i had to go by just her ad and a picture her menue and stats, i would never even pick her,
she has nothing that she needs to be ashamed of or embarressed its just well when your thinking of these things,
take her age, my age pick would be late twenty early thirty she is mature
her menue is rather conservative i would lean to more pse.
her body is good but there are better.

its funny if i had to poon once a year i would not pick her, she doesn't have a big wow factor,
but if i had to pick some one to see week after week for the duration, i would pick her hands down,
and i pretty much have i guess
you know the wow factor in my experiance just seems to fade rather quickly

but the way she giggles when i pull her panties down, i never seem to get tired of.
the best moment with her is sometimes after the deed is done,
she is very soft and open and sensual her skin just seems to take on a glow, its magical.

i hear guys there comments the sex is boring i would rather stay at home and jerk off or the girl is hitting me up for money
or i think she is the classic crack whore and im uncomfortable with her.

a big part of this when you repeat is the lady her self her personal life,
i know its none of our business but when you repeat it just comes out.
like the guy that made the comment the lady i see does charity work, so i don't mind paying her.

at the end of the day when your a regular with a lady you are supporting her,
so everything comes into play, not just the sex, do you guys look at life the same
way
are you guys on the same page are you at the same place in life

i just think a lot of this hobby is about bbbj or age or greek or facials.
and its so unimportant
but your level of satisfaction your enjoyment goes way up when you find the right lady for you,

it does get complicated in an emotional sort of way, and a lot has been written about that to.
and you know emotions feelings are nice, enjoyable but not a big deal you shouldn't be here if your lookng for a spouse or a mate,

 

[Flanders]

Wow. I'm sure this lady would be flattered to read your kind and generous words...



In case you are wondering, yes, that is sarcasm....

 

[sevenofnine]

oh my god
what have i done, my sp thought she was twenty years old
and nobody does bare back blow jobs

i just burst her bubble
yeah she is really that dumb
and thought greek was a salad.

 

[sevenofnine]

Wow. I'm sure this lady would be flattered to read your kind and generous words...



In case you are wondering, yes, that is sarcasm....

if she doesn't like it,


women are in this for money bottom line.

i spend between six and a thousand dollars on her, i have a standing appointment

if she doesn't like it i can take my weekly appointment else where
im sure there is a women out there some where that would be happy to have my weekly appointment

the bottome line is money,
she wants it and i chose to spend it on her,

when there are lots of other women who would be happy to have it.
i think that says it what i think of her,

 

[sevenofnine]

im not angry im just stating a fact,
not at all angry,
and she is not anywhere near a fat old cow, she is rather nice,
just not twenty and not a playboy centerfold, and doesn't do greek or bbbj.s

how can you avoid or forget the fact that i pay her over six everytime i see her,


she wants money that is why she sees me,
this is based on money

were friends were close very close
but we both have a life and friends and stuff going on.
this is her job,
for me its i have worked all my life over forty years i just enjoy getting out and away and the fun of it.

i have lots of interests and hobbies and a full life.
but none of them include getting naked and intimate with a good looking women
i work downtown i see women all the time its summer time short dresses etc,
i want some of that, its rather simple


i kind of think there are two ways a guy can approach this,
i want a friend that we can get together and hang out and get naked
or i don't at all want a friend i want a women i can just fuck, and she has to be perfect she has to wow me. or do bbbj or greek or whatever or im not interested
the guys that claim this is boring or i would rather just sit at home and masturbate, i think they just haven't found the right women, they want that friend but haven't found it. or they have and she rips them off,

guys that want the thrill there planning there next threesome or orgy. and maybe not concerned if its male male female


the lady i see do you really think she doesn't know what this is about and well that she is not twenty and doesn't do greek,
she sees all the ads of the younger girls and everyone doing greek and bbbjs. she doesn't

she went from high volume to low volume lost alot of clients some by her choice some wanting a new younger model
she has been in this over twenty years
do you really think i can tell her what goes through a mans head that she doesn't know,
maybe just the male take on it the male perspective and as a sp a women she has hers but honestly
she is so stupid she doesn't know how this works.
come on

 

[Dickson]

Sevenofnine good for you! You go get her and enjoy the moment because in the end that is all we got is moments. Dam you are getting a hell of a deal for a few thousand she will hang and be your friend. You do what works for you and her. There are times when I want what you want and times I want the wild sex. The beauty of the hobby is you can get what you want. We have the freedom to do as we wish when we wish. As long as no one gets hurt.

I say go for it and enjoy. Nice to hear your story. I look for that as well. I am inbetween SPs right now but I have some reliable ladies when I need some one in a fix. But always in the market for the next super SP.

Life is good we are only here for a good time so enjoy. A man once told me if you know how to make your money then you should know how to spend it. It is your money you made you spend in a matter that make you happen and the hell with everyone else. You seem like a real decent guy. That SP is lucky to hook up with you.

 

[Dickson]

Completely disagree.
It's perhaps easy to forget there is a person behind the mask of the fantasy when you visit an SP. Yes its your money and yes you pay for a service and should receive such.
But its not a sex robot you've purchased and I'm sorry but (genuine) friendship and love isn't for sale. It's impossible to commoditise and simple time spent isn't a guarantee either.

The money you pay isn't what forges a friendship, chemistry or whatever. Even in the long term. To believe it so is delusion and kind of disrespectful imho.


Btw, of course she knows where she stands in relation to new girls but the point is, if you really care then unless you are worried about her for some reason there's absolutely no need to bring it up and to rub it in.

When a woman you care about asks if she looks fat in something, do you tell her "jesus you heffer, get a bigger size next time, it looks like you've stuffed gello in there"?
Reap what you sow.

BobbyDazzler I guess it is how you defind friend or love. But it is a fantasy! So too each his own. It might not be genuine but what is genuine? My lawyer thinks he is my friend but is he really if the money was cut off. We use the terms very losely. I love Banana cream pie. But do I really love it?

You are right money does not forge friendships or chemistry if anything it destroys it more than builds it. But when you got nothing else it is the next big thing. Is it that wrong? Going to Disneyland and going on the pirate adventure does not make you a pirate but it is a good time.

Not sure where you and sevenofnine are going with the second part of the discussion. Never did follow that part.

 

[the old maxx50]

I don't se any of the girl i know in this business as just there for the money .. even though i know that i can only have sex if i pay for it .. But i see them social all the time .. and in that situation we are friend .. as good a friend or better then what i have had in my life .. In fact i would say they are better because we can be very open and honest with each other about most thing in each of our lives .. I know i can talk to them about sex and relationships . past experiences .. and they talk to me about it too .. . They Know that i will do my best to be there if they need help in some way .. and I am a shoulder they can cry on too..

I know we are not boy friend and girl friends . but they know how i feel about them i would happily live with any of them .. even those i am not there chose in sexual partners . I know it is strange and not some thing i could imagine years ago .. .But I see it is very common among some of us and looking around at others lives .. there are any number of different kinds of friendships and relationships ..

Of course money is a big factor always will be .. not just for paying for sex . but just paying for the every day things of life .. which we all need

Now if we did not need money to get by ..I doubt if half the women would be with the guys they are with .. and there sure would not be many escorts .. I am not sure what use guys that want it would do..