Issue with Indian pooners?

[poopquiz]

Okay reading this thread is just so eye opening at how other races perceive EI people (or EI men particularly). Straight up racist comments made by several people. To be clear, I’m not saying that you are a racist, but I’m saying the comments you made had strong racist undertones. Now you are all going to come in and whitesplain to me how it’s not racist (hot tip: you don’t get to decide that).

On the other hand, some very insightful comments by @Bombshellblonde are very appreciated from a provider’s perspective, and also thanks to @laddi_daddi for your very even headed response to some of the stereotypes being thrown around. The way @Asian Fever handles issues like this is also top tier.

Very interesting discussion nonetheless gents! I am EI but have the privilege of “forgetting” how people perceive us, living in an ethnically diverse part of the city (with no major ethnicity being dominant), and my wife is Caucasian and my daughter is mixed, but presents “white”. It’s a different experience from a first gen immigrant wearing a turban and carrying an accent.

 

[lukom]

Providers not wanting to see an ethnic group is their choice but is debatable especially when we talk about accepting sex work as a legit profession but this is not the topic here.

How certain stereotypes are being quoted here as facts is just hilarious but frustrating at the same time. Like 90 % Indian people haggle!

I work in a field with almost negligible Indian clients and my clientele is mostly Caucasian people. They ask for discounts all the time, they complain about the prices, and sometimes they even refuse to pay after the job has been completed. Some pay from a friend's credit card and then the friend disputes the transaction later on. To counteract this we decline to accept any card transaction without the PIN anymore, otherwise the credit card companies refund the money to the complaining party.

Should we generalize this and say that all Caucasian people are cheats and crooks? Nah, I guess generalizations are valid only for certain race groups and not others.

You're fully correct on that matter. So many people bitching about newcomers abusing getting things for free (as they put it), but the majority of people on welfare are caucasian and in some cases these are people whose family have been on welfare going back to their parents and even their grandparents.

 

[Sophia Fae YVR]

My heart hurts reading some of the comments on this thread. I know some (white) providers who state race preferences on their ads and it just feels so gross... I’m white, so I can’t imagine being on the receiving end of that fuckery...

My own personal way of doing business, is as long as a client follows my protocols and is respectful/hygienic, I’m going to do my best to give the best possible service. Haggling prices and trying to push boundaries is not going to get you a good time with me, and that sort of behaviour is what I don’t tolerate.. Not a persons skin colour or cultural background.

Some of my best clients are of Indian descent, these people are missing out by refusing to see them.. More for me I guess!

 

[lukom]

Anyhow to change the subject here. I remember when I was a dumb Kid in high school and we'd read the escort ads in the paper. I remember the first reading "No Greek" and not knowing what it meant I showed to two of my classmates who were Greek and cracked and cracked a juvenile joke, "even girls taking money for sex won't take you!" One looked shocked, "Wow that's racist, what did Greeks ever do this girl?!"" The other guy looked at and noticed another ad that read "No Greek. No black men", and he was like "it's cause our dicks are too big they don't want Greeks or Black men!"

I just remembered this reading through the thread lol

 

[Riza]

The common reason I have heard from EI women, for not seeing EI men, is the "realistic chance of seeing someone you know in real life." Of course, this only answers the OP question partially, as he is asking about women of ANY race, who says "No East Indian, please."

I actually asked an SP about this some time ago – she mentioned casually that being of brown skin herself, EI clients tended to get overly attached to her because of the rarity of finding someone of her skin tone in the industry; apparently, such infatuation led to creepy behaviour in the past.

These are the reasons that Bianca has this restriction.

It's cultural, not racial.

A lot of EI folks are just conditioned to bargain (as in many Middle Eastern cultures).

1. You should give me a discount, I'll send you more business.
2. Do you have a discount for someone over 50?
3. I'm going to be a very good long-term customer, what kind of deal can you give me?

Wont even sugarcoat it but i would say 90% of "them" always haggle pricing. Not just in this industry but literally in every aspect in life. Ive seen and experienced it. Racist? I wouldnt think so but yeah. Ive noticed more and more providers saying no to black or ei, luckily im neither. Just my thoughts

It's not the race itself, it is the culture. Sadly, many of 'my people' treat women as second class citizen.

Bargaining is part of our culture and many of 'my people' try to do that with SP's as well.

Hygiene: We are having a rainy November, aren't we?

And these are the reason we have a disproportionate number of blocked or banned EI guys. We also have many VIP brown guys. We don't ban/block because you are EI, we do when you start to negotiate or have done something that one of the girls have complained about. Our phone girls have very little patience for negotiating and are quick on the block button. We have banned/blocked of all ethnic backgrounds so no one is singled out. Actually enthnic background doesn't come up when booking unless for a girl that has a particular restriction like Bianca. We will just confirm that you are not EI if booking for her.

Some of the girls have complained that some EI guests can be over aggressive and can cause harm. This is not limited to EI but again seems to be disproportionately a problem with EI and Persian guests.

I myself love EI guests. Anyone that knows me know that I don't put up with any crap from anyone including guests. If they get out of control or aggressive I am very quick to put them in their place. You don't want to piss of the little Filipina or you might find your family jewels tightly gripped in my little filipino hands. To be honest they seem to enjoy a woman that takes charge and doesn't let them get away with shit, they are coming to me for a change lol. (don't get me wrong, I am not saying EI women are submissive)

Ok I think I have said enough to get myself into trouble so I will leave it at this.

Have a great weekend everyone and stay safe.

 

[Sexy007]

I would like to say that there are cultures, like Persian, Labanese, Egyptians and few others who like EI and have brown skin and their culture is very different ...just for FYI.

 

[Forum mod]

This topic has been done to death. Ladies can make whatever rules they like for seeing whomever they please. This isn't Walmart. Thread closed.