Impossible case PUA, looking to embark on a new adventure

[Impossiblecasestudent]

Greetings fellows I am 29 years old and I have been doing day game for 10 years starting when I was 19. I was heavily interested in pick up artistry for the longest time, met many wing men from the community and studied pretty much every routine out there

Only to be told, I have a boyfriend husband or I am not currently looking to date right now. My motivation for doing cold approaches began to Wayne. Once I would see other guys who are new to it surpass me within a few short months.

I was always told I was doing something wrong not negging the girl hard enough, not standing at 45° and not confident enough. But no matter what I did, I always get punched in the face with “I have a boyfriend”.

I have autism and ugly face, and I am freakishly tall. i’ve now completely given up on pursuing relationships, and wants to embark on the payed professional route. Instead of chasing woman on the weekends, I am committed to working more on my business. Because I know my approaches will be met with disinterest every time.

I’m not sure where I’m going with this post but I am interested in learning more about the community maybe meeting some of you guys sharing experiences learning the ropes, etc.

 

[HunkyBill]

PUA? What's that? It's not in our acronym thread: https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/escort-abbreviations-acronyms-terminology-used-on-ads.223932/

 

[taster]

PUA? What's that? It's not in our acronym thread: https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/escort-abbreviations-acronyms-terminology-used-on-ads.223932/

pick up artistry

 

[Newuser505]

You throw enough money on the table and the girls wont care if youre a lizard.

 

[HunkyBill]

pick up artistry

Ah. Thanks. It seems the Gen Z and TikTok crowd love to hijack words and create new acronyms us oldies can't understand and assume everyone understands their language, lol.

 

[HunkyBill]

You throw enough money on the table and the girls wont care if youre a lizard.

Bravo. This is an undeniably fact UNLESS you have a terrible hygiene.

 

[success13]

lol no one is going to meet you to teach you the ropes. Just read the 100s of threads on here and you’ll learn plenty

 

[VinVan]

Greetings fellows I am 29 years old and I have been doing day game for 10 years starting when I was 19. I was heavily interested in pick up artistry for the longest time, met many wing men from the community and studied pretty much every routine out there

Only to be told, I have a boyfriend husband or I am not currently looking to date right now. My motivation for doing cold approaches began to Wayne. Once I would see other guys who are new to it surpass me within a few short months.

I was always told I was doing something wrong not negging the girl hard enough, not standing at 45° and not confident enough. But no matter what I did, I always get punched in the face with “I have a boyfriend”.

I have autism and ugly face, and I am freakishly tall. i’ve now completely given up on pursuing relationships, and wants to embark on the payed professional route. Instead of chasing woman on the weekends, I am committed to working more on my business. Because I know my approaches will be met with disinterest every time.

I’m not sure where I’m going with this post but I am interested in learning more about the community maybe meeting some of you guys sharing experiences learning the ropes, etc.

My dear fellow Perbite.

I have deep empathy for your plight. We are dealt the cards of our journey thru this life. It is not fair. Some are blessed with a chiseled face or the makings of whatever is the beauty standards of the day. And others a deficit of whatever the the currency of the moment.

I am a few years your senior, but here is what I have learned from my time on this planet. All of this bullshit of Pick-up culture is a false prophet, promising happiness as surely as a McDonald’s ad telling fulfillment by eating one of their shitty burgers.

Be patient. Hew to your inherent goodness. Worship not false prophets. Take the comfort of SPs, but know they are not the balm to the emptiness you feel in your heart. They can, however, be a bridge to some measure of true happiness.

I met a man recently in his 60s. He has a mental disability. He led a life bereft of love, a life partner, and any measure of true happiness. But recently he met a woman who was his matching puzzle piece. His secret? Giving up worshiping what how others thought he should be and just focusing on the best version of himself.

So I would encourage you to keep investing in your inherent goodness and have faith that it is the magnet that will attract your opposite polarity.

Best of luck on your journey.

 

[Forum mod]

We are not going to allow any real discussion of PUA topics here, they are very offensive to nearly all women and many men, and part of the entire incel, treat women like objects BS.

Feel for this OP, but we are not a mentorship organization matching tragic fellows to mentors. Take this private if you want to chat, it won't be allowed in the open on the board.