In that case, you need to spring for them to get a BJ from one of the lovely SP's around here. That would surely peak their interest.
I'm baffled by men who don't care about meeting women or having sex
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More and more young guys have low T levels and virtually no libido. No exercise and poor diet as eell as bad sleep habits are a big factor. This is a generational thing imo and it's going in the wrong direction.
yea thanks babe but point here is that even though some women dont mind the tamponess in men, the guys r just indifferent towards women.no worries there ,most women love a good "Tampon" especially if he is not gay makes him like a BGF only better!!!
IMHO I thank god the whole world is not made up of human beings with all the same proclivities.... variety is my spice of like !!!
My bank account is crying out for me to have a low testosterone level. Lol!!
There's something called the "good ol' days effect", where people always think the current (and usually, the immediate junior to their own generation) is doomed, spoiled and headed to hell in a handbasket (do people still say that??).
Look it up, it's interesting
I, for one, am thankful for the next generation because I am slowly being outdated by technology.. I just found out via a go worker that Tinder requires a subscription. He looked at me as if I am a dinosaur (I'm mid 30's dammit!!).
But all the people I know, have a pretty high sex drive.. Maybe it's related my industry??
There's a trend in Japan in the last number of years. These guys are referred to as Herbivore Men. Maybe its a trend that's spreading to other countries.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herbivore_men
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herbivore_men
After 30, the attractivness rating of both men and women decline steadiily. By that time they're usually divorced with a kid or two in tow, you know, all the things you want to have in a partner to build a life with.Does anyone else know people like this? Maybe you can help me make sense of it, haha.
Then there's Vancouver, where someone might commit themselves to being a lifelong bachelor/ette after one too many flake outs, put downs, or poorly assessed sugar daddying. People in this city are too self involved to care about relationships, or have been burned too many times because of the previous statement to want to try again.
There are reasons why most of us are here.
Another factor that comes into play is that society is changing. 25 to 30 years ago there were subtle but strong influences by the community and church to socialize more and nudge singles into dating, then marriage and kids. If you did not follow the preconceived path, you were considered antisocial. But now the influence by the community and church has greatly diminished; less of a herd mentality. People are more open and free to pursue their own lifestyles, which i think is just fine.
That's a sobering assessment of Vancouver in today's day and age.
I'm still not quite sure of the relation between the addiction to arousal and the educational development of a male. I agree that arousal addiction is real but I don't know where to find correlation between that and say, grades (although my limited experience with guy who jerks off to 'girlsdoporn' twice a day may prove me wrong). I also hate that any numbers of ADHD is being used at all because it's a relatively new diagnosis that's being the rage these days, where as there's likely to be tons of undiagnosed cases in the past. I would throw anything I hear about ADHD in that context out the window.
We have to be careful not to lump in the 'herbivore men' with the kind of guys that OP is talking about. Between him and the guys that yvr_hacker is talking about (or even self-proclaimed by JonnyBoi), there are 'otherwise' perfectly capable males who decline intimacy for various reasons. The 'herbivore men' seem to lack ambition and drive in comparison with the average male, in their cases I would say the lack of wanting intimacy is a symptom of a 'herbivore man' and not a cause.
There's nothing baffling about this at all. You said it yourself that these men aren't what women consider attractive. Throw in their age and decades of rejection and loneliness, why would they even bother to keep on trying?
But again we don't know their whole story. Maybe they go to see SP's and tallied up over hundreds of women. Maybe they've tried dating sites/social functions and just can't get a date. Maybe they have low sex drives. Maybe they are possibly gay.
You as a pooner should know anyone can have a private life. They could be Perb members for all we know!
But again we don't know their whole story. Maybe they go to see SP's and tallied up over hundreds of women. Maybe they've tried dating sites/social functions and just can't get a date. Maybe they have low sex drives. Maybe they are possibly gay.
You as a pooner should know anyone can have a private life. They could be Perb members for all we know!
I really don't get it either to be honest.
I have a few friends, never dated one is a father, but, never was really involved with the mother of his child or the kid, always lived alone.
I go drinking with them on occasion were all older ok in our sixties
they envy me
I sit there all afternoon in a bar, my phone constantly chirps, my wife where am I my kids whats up,
funnier still when my sp texts me and I have two women texting me, and there sitting there and their phone never beeps,
they do envy me,
but they are unable to do anything about, they like there freedom to much, can't live with anyone
neither one of them could even look after a dog, I wouldn't leave my dog with them.
you know I think that is it,
I love my dog he is my best friend, I would do anything for him and its a big responsibility, as well as having family wife, and even an sp your friends with,
its all a responsibility, that can weigh heavy on you at times.
to be perfectly honest, if you can't even have or be responsible to look after a dog, that is why you live alone and not involved with anyone,
some people are just fucking ass holes no one wants to be around them
others, don't want any responsibilities, enjoy there freedom to much or see everyone else as the ass hole.
I have a few friends, never dated one is a father, but, never was really involved with the mother of his child or the kid, always lived alone.
I go drinking with them on occasion were all older ok in our sixties
they envy me
I sit there all afternoon in a bar, my phone constantly chirps, my wife where am I my kids whats up,
funnier still when my sp texts me and I have two women texting me, and there sitting there and their phone never beeps,
they do envy me,
but they are unable to do anything about, they like there freedom to much, can't live with anyone
neither one of them could even look after a dog, I wouldn't leave my dog with them.
you know I think that is it,
I love my dog he is my best friend, I would do anything for him and its a big responsibility, as well as having family wife, and even an sp your friends with,
its all a responsibility, that can weigh heavy on you at times.
to be perfectly honest, if you can't even have or be responsible to look after a dog, that is why you live alone and not involved with anyone,
some people are just fucking ass holes no one wants to be around them
others, don't want any responsibilities, enjoy there freedom to much or see everyone else as the ass hole.
My comment about it being generational and going in the wrong direction was strictly related to this thread.My bank account is crying out for me to have a low testosterone level. Lol!!
There's something called the "good ol' days effect", where people always think the current (and usually, the immediate junior to their own generation) is doomed, spoiled and headed to hell in a handbasket (do people still say that??).
Look it up, it's interesting
I, for one, am thankful for the next generation because I am slowly being outdated by technology.. I just found out via a go worker that Tinder requires a subscription. He looked at me as if I am a dinosaur (I'm mid 30's dammit!!).
But all the people I know, have a pretty high sex drive.. Maybe it's related my industry??
There are too many soft, doughy, fast food eating, exercise hating young guys who have zero sex drive. Viagra isn't just for the 50+ crowd anymore.
thinking about this,
I believe it has a lot to do with intimacy issues or love issues,
people don't know how to love, or are afraid of to much intimacy,
I mean people are annoying being involved with some one is a pain. a real pain in the ass actually, being responsible for some one or even a pet, ditto
but there are moments of blissful intimacy very deep personal emotional intimacy, or even sexual intimacy at times,, that make it all worth wild.
I would venture to guess, that people don't know how to love or afraid of intimacy,
some psychological fuck up somewhere.
I believe it has a lot to do with intimacy issues or love issues,
people don't know how to love, or are afraid of to much intimacy,
I mean people are annoying being involved with some one is a pain. a real pain in the ass actually, being responsible for some one or even a pet, ditto
but there are moments of blissful intimacy very deep personal emotional intimacy, or even sexual intimacy at times,, that make it all worth wild.
I would venture to guess, that people don't know how to love or afraid of intimacy,
some psychological fuck up somewhere.
It's definitely a cultural thing here....In places like Cairns/Melbourne or Toronto/GTA people are way more open to talk to. Maybe it's the weather but everyone seems to be staying in their cliquessounds like internet dating 101 in Vancouver , All I have heard since moving back to to vancouver in 2010 is how this city sucks for dating
the older guys are dating the young chicks and the cougars can either date the pups or be alone
But then have always found it is easier to meet men if you go to where they are looking for women .... ei here
screw the prescription. there's sources online where you can get liquid cialis, viagra or levitra. 25-30 doses of 50mg for $30-40 US. why get ripped off by the pharma companies.
as for the dating question. put me in the category of having no interest in dating women from the lower mainland. to expensive, to self absorbed to be bothered with. if i have the urge SP's fill the need. I could date locally if i wanted to as looks and shape are not a problem. i do date if i go out of town, especially to the states. american women are much more down to earth. was in orlando a couple months ago. first night there had 3 potential ladies. picked one and ended up seeing her for the whole week i was there. had lots of fun. of course there's a hell of a lot more to do in orlando then in lame vancouver.
