If you are griefing .. would you call an escort? Is it good luck or bad luck ,?

[Jsckmaster]

What do you guys think? Should you have sex during grief ?

 

[Lounge Lizard]

You probably meant grieving ("griefing" is something completely different). It's completely normal to want to seek companionship or attention during times of grief. However, your emotions and mindset are in the wrong place when it come grief and seeking an escort's companionship. The last thing an escort wants to deal with are someone else's personal issues, just as much as you would not want an escort to get emotionally upset at something completely unrelated to you while you are seeing her (believe me I've been in that position, it's really awkward). Be considerate to the escort, see her when you're actually horny, not when you're emotionally in the dumps. Also, if you're the one grieving, sorry for your loss.

 

[Correct]

Another possibility is finding a friendly one who is not judgmental, and booking two hours, walk together to a restaurant for a nice meal, and walk her back to her place, a hug and kiss goodbye.
Sometimes a kind stranger is the best person to have a nice meal and laugh with.
I've done it, very therapeutic!

 

[LADY-VIA]

Yes some do.. Ive had several clients over the years who have called me during periods of grieving. Ive had a few bawl their eyes out in my arms. Its natural to seek out companionship. Human Beings thrive off of it.

 

[Mr. J]

Speaking from personal experience, I did consider doing it after my long time girlfriend died nearly five years ago. Never went through with it because I felt I wasn't ready for any kind of intimacy (physical or otherwise).

 

[take8easy]

It's all about how you feel about it. If company of a lovely lady makes you get over 'grieving', then so be it. I wouldn't feel guilty about it if I ever did.

 

[haigum141]

Every time i broke up with an ex gf, i saw an SP either the next day or the same day

 

[poonerboi]

If you just need someone for company and not intimacy, try
https://rentafriend.com
I have used it before and it is legit.

 

[felixthecat]

What do you guys think? Should you have sex during grief ?

There are no rules. Whatever works for you, it's very individual. At the first stages of grief, you just need to survive the next day, one at a time. Technically, sex is a stress reliever, and only hurts if you judge yourself for whatever reasons (religious, sense of commitment etc.) If you believe you'll judge yourself, you probably will, don't force it and look for "appropriate" company instead.

 

[frisky business]

Ya dude, I agree with the PERB consensus on this.

And I'm sorry that you're hurting, man.

There are many senior ladies on here that have reputations for bigtime empathy and interpersonal connection.

Maybe spend some personal time with one of them? It could help you even if neither of you took your pants off.

 

[Jsckmaster]

Okay.. thanks for everyone input. Greatly appreciated