I can't beleive he asked WTF
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I've had a couple first-timers who have thought about this for a long time and have patiently selected who they would see, where and the atmosphere. They were very very nice and insisted they had only been with their wife or no one at all in the previous years.
However, the answer is always no. For my safety, their safety and their SO's safety, the answer will always be a polite no when asked once. Asked twice, it will be a firm No, and asked thrice I'll be out the door.
However, the answer is always no. For my safety, their safety and their SO's safety, the answer will always be a polite no when asked once. Asked twice, it will be a firm No, and asked thrice I'll be out the door.
How is this done in the porn industry, where bbfs is the norm? Isn't there a bit of a porn industry in Vancouver? How do they handle the risks?
My thoughts are that, if the risks can be effectively managed, there would likely be a market for this (if there were a safe way to do this, I would be interested)
My thoughts are that, if the risks can be effectively managed, there would likely be a market for this (if there were a safe way to do this, I would be interested)
Have you seen BangBros newish series called FuckTeamFive? Usually its 3 known pornstars who go around and find one or two completely random strangers to fuck. It's all done bareback, and I'm positive - these guys aren't tested before each scene.
And still to this day - HIV is still predominant amongst blacks and gays, the widespread pandemic simply hasn't happened. HepB is 100 times more infectious, and is easily preventable, and hardly anyone cares to talk about it.
Then we have the pope running around to the poorer HIV rampant countries promoting non-condom usage. Like really, some people, even the pope, have to give their heads a shake.
And still to this day - HIV is still predominant amongst blacks and gays, the widespread pandemic simply hasn't happened. HepB is 100 times more infectious, and is easily preventable, and hardly anyone cares to talk about it.
Then we have the pope running around to the poorer HIV rampant countries promoting non-condom usage. Like really, some people, even the pope, have to give their heads a shake.
Not true - AIM testing is generally done once a month, and only those who are properly AIM tested do so bareback - unless of course, you're on FuckTeamFive. LOL.
Safety first.
I have had the same experience with a certain client. He would not only ask but try & remove the condom through out the service, it drove me nuts! I was working at an agency at the time and he kept coming in to see me, it was brutal! I hated every minute of the session and 20 minutes into the session I got up and walked out. I then refused to see him again.
He still came in everyday to try and force me to see him again, I still declined.
I never understood it, the whole session I was terrified and you could tell I was having a terrible time. I was stiff and awkward from constantly having to look over my shoulder.
I love being an SP and usually have fun doing it. When my clients stick to my restrictions I can guarantee both of us will leave the session feeling great but when they push me with my restrictions it makes me nervous and annoyed, which reflects on the session in a big way!
I have had the same experience with a certain client. He would not only ask but try & remove the condom through out the service, it drove me nuts! I was working at an agency at the time and he kept coming in to see me, it was brutal! I hated every minute of the session and 20 minutes into the session I got up and walked out. I then refused to see him again.
He still came in everyday to try and force me to see him again, I still declined.
I never understood it, the whole session I was terrified and you could tell I was having a terrible time. I was stiff and awkward from constantly having to look over my shoulder.
I love being an SP and usually have fun doing it. When my clients stick to my restrictions I can guarantee both of us will leave the session feeling great but when they push me with my restrictions it makes me nervous and annoyed, which reflects on the session in a big way!
A hat just seems so silly to me and very unnatural. I would have no problem offering service without a hat.I got a call from a regular last nite, asking since he was a regular would I consider doing my services with no hat on
Without a condom? No freakin way but a hat? Count me in.
Just a note that there is the occasional SP out there that does BB. It is not for me though, rather play safe and will NEVER ask a girl to go BB. I have heard guys say that such and such SP offered him BB, and after the same SP is mentioned a few times you can only assume that the report is true.
NO, I don't have any names or contacts.
NO, I don't have any names or contacts.
I second that!!! Bare back is more enjoyable for guys but it's just prudent to practice safe sex and safe sex is better than no sex at all. If it were me, I'd of booted his ass out!!!
Like I said it would NEVER be an option, it just shocked me that he would even ask
It is kinda scary to hear that you ladies are being asked this as well.
And especially your experience Rachelleox.
An hour of my time, that could end my life
NO AMOUNT OF MONEY IS WORTH IT.
It is kinda scary to hear that you ladies are being asked this as well.
And especially your experience Rachelleox.
An hour of my time, that could end my life
NO AMOUNT OF MONEY IS WORTH IT.
There are many people who actually think that as long as there is no CIP, it should be okay. They truly believe this, and it might be worthwhile to have some brochures with a reality check from the Health Nurse to educate them lol. Ignorance comes on both sides, clients and sps. It is similar to those who don't swallow because they somehow think it is safer than swallowing. Once there is CIM, it really isn't going to make a difference any more if she swallows or not. By that time, it is too late to think about safety or health issues lol.
Frankly, unless she charges extra, I cannot see any incentive whatsoever for an sp to provide this other than the fact that she might have the same client repeat more often? It certainly can't make much difference or be an incentive simply because it feels better for him, unless you factor in that he might be finished quicker.
Frankly, unless she charges extra, I cannot see any incentive whatsoever for an sp to provide this other than the fact that she might have the same client repeat more often? It certainly can't make much difference or be an incentive simply because it feels better for him, unless you factor in that he might be finished quicker.
I know some SP provide bbfs to long term customers but I bet none are going to answer this thread and say they do.
This thread will probably get locked up - but yah, even I have been offered it once by a well-reviewed and popular SP the first time we met, for the second date. I never did it, but honestly I don't think it's too hard to find - and I don't mean going to east-hastings either.
