How to stay hard long

[Jamxie]

Question for my brothers out there

i am reading stories of your guys being able to fuck and have the session for 40-50 minutes.
Whereas i come in like 10 minutes for my first short and can rarely go for 2nd within 1 hour.
So, I usually masturbate before going, that helps but i wonder i should try something else ?


help your brother out!

 

[Twopopshakur]

Question for my brothers out there

i am reading stories of your guys being able to fuck and have the session for 40-50 minutes.
Whereas i come in like 10 minutes for my first short and can rarely go for 2nd within 1 hour.
So, I usually masturbate before going, that helps but i wonder i should try something else ?


help your brother out!

If you feel like youre about to pop could always stop and do some daty or slow it down or change position, beetroot helps with blood flow, I find 69 to be really good way to get hard again you smell feramones from that kitty and the bj does the rest.

 

[erickxc]

Exercise and i think about my best friend opening his mouth

 

[Deshlong]

Edging yourself jerk and stop yourself right before cumming a bunch of times to build up your stamina. Also for me personally I find afternoons I can last even longer.
Yes 69 is great and to choose a girl with a great bj for round 2. Sometimes if the girl is legendary with a bbbj as soon as the rubber goes on it just can’t compare or replace the sloppiness of bbbj.

 

[raulg]

It’s all in your mind. You’ll need to learn to tame the beast. Concentrate on the journey and not the destination.

As you’re going with the flow and you feel the build-up coming, change your thought to something else. It could be a lamp stand or fan or AC in the room. It could be a water bottle or a box of tissues. Change your thought to something else rather than you’re gonna explode. This will slow you down and allow you to calm down.

Switch positions or pleasure her to change the focus on your build-up. You’ll get back to it soon.

Sometimes, it’s the stories we tell ourselves. If you keep telling yourself that you won’t last more than 10 minutes, that’s exactly what will happen. Tell yourself that you’re a stallion.

In the long run, cardio exercises help with building endurance and stamina. And water is your friend. Lay off or limit alcohol or sugary drinks.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I would also like to point out, some (most?) men love to exaggerate and embellish. So take any reviews you're reading with a grain of salt lol 💕

there’s some pretty good advice here.

 

[Forum mod]

Let's keep the medical and drugs out of this thread, follow the rules please.

 

[Billiam]

Question for my brothers out there

i am reading stories of your guys being able to fuck and have the session for 40-50 minutes.
Whereas i come in like 10 minutes for my first short and can rarely go for 2nd within 1 hour.
So, I usually masturbate before going, that helps but i wonder i should try something else ?


help your brother out!

A) Don't believe everything you read.
B) You've used the term 'brother' repeatedly yet are a member of less than 2 weeks with zero reviews - not the type of 'brother' I'd be inclined to help out at this point.
IMHO

 

[Pornholio]

Kegels and Gym. Switching to Daty as others have said, just stopping and switching positions. Non drugs but more like supplements if allowed to say (if not @Forum mod can edit) I use some peptides called melantonin 2 (side effect gives you a bit of a tan) and pt-141. Also I found when taking a certain Sarm LGD-4033 really increased libido. This is all fitness industry stuff, so added benefit of staying in shape is the sex drive and lasting power. Non RX supplements

 

[orangejim]

My advice is to silently play a mind game that requires just enough concentration to temper the urge to discharge, but not enough to detach you from pleasing sensations. Try mentally reciting the starting line-ups from seventies baseball teams.

C - Thurman Munson. 1B - Chris Chambliss. 2B - Willie Randolph. SS - Bucky Dent. 3B - Craig Nettles. RF - Reggie Jackson. CF - Mickey Rivers. LF - Lou Piniella. DH - Roy White. Start with the Yankees, then do the Cincinnati Reds, Oakland A's, LA Dodgers, and, depending on the length of your session, the Baltimore Orioles (although the Mets are an acceptable substitution here).

It's free, natural and effective, with only minor side effects. And I absolutely guarantee that by the time you get to Boog Powell or Rusty Staub you will feel free to toss seed.

 

[ddude1]

Second the gym comment. Keep your body healthy, exercise frequently as arteries go to your cock too, so keep them clean and your dick will reward you with better performance. Also, practice “edging”, where you come close to orgasm then pull back. This practice allows you to develop control. When I’m firing on all cylinders, I can actually have sex for 30-45 minutes straight. My weakness is good blowjobs though, and I do have to often remind girls who have great head game to “slow down” or switch things up to prevent from blowing early.

 

[ddude1]

My advice is to silently play a mind game that requires just enough concentration to temper the urge to discharge, but not enough to detach you from pleasing sensations. Try mentally reciting the starting line-ups from seventies baseball teams.

C - Thurman Munson. 1B - Chris Chambliss. 2B - Willie Randolph. SS - Bucky Dent. 3B - Craig Nettles. RF - Reggie Jackson. CF - Mickey Rivers. LF - Lou Piniella. DH - Roy White. Start with the Yankees, then do the Cincinnati Reds, Oakland A's, LA Dodgers, and, depending on the length of your session, the Baltimore Orioles (although the Mets are an acceptable substitution here).

It's free, natural and effective, with only minor side effects. And I absolutely guarantee that by the time you get to Boog Powell or Rusty Staub you will feel free to toss seed.

Generally agree with this strategy too, but I find the only drawback to this is that you are having to deliberately mentally distract yourself, and think about something else, as opposed to enjoying the woman in front of you, or the sexual act itself

 

[Miss Hunter]

EDGING

 

[Jamxie]

Thank you all for sharing all this information.
I am physically fit , i won’t say i am jacked but i have been going to gym from past 2-3 years (I am in my mid 20’s) . Not fully regular but i have less then 20% body fat. Have good stamina.
I have tried edging and i am able to do it too.
But but the big if is i am only able to do with my girlfriends (i need to sex multiple times with a women to be able to adapt to edging) . In those cases I can do 30-40 minutes per session easily.
But trust me whenever i go for a sp , i am done in 10 minutes, and i can rarely go for second .
Whereas when making out with my gf i can go for second like instantly

 

[Asian Fever]

Most guys don't go non stop in longer sessions. Foreplay/makeout.. and chatting/socializing etc... it's not typically something out of a movie... not that you can't do it, but that's just not typical.

 

[se7landrover97]

Perhaps, it has something to do with your familiarity or emotional attachment and connection or chemistry with your partner. In my case, if I feel the person or has some form of affection, I last really very long to the point that I can tell myself when to come. It's like you want her to enjoy as much as you do so there is this thinking in your brain that you want her to like you more and her enjoyment is far more important then yours in a way, so to speak. If I don't have that feeling etc about someone, I come so fast and just want to get it over with. 🤣 Hope I am making sense.

 

[Harmony-bc]

There is no need to impress most working girls. We won’t judge you coming fast or taking forever. Some working girls will probably start wishing you to be faster if you take the whole hour of straight fucking. Some might end a little bruised and sore and not see you again. Others might love it. Edging like others have suggested. But also don’t worry about it and just have fun.

 

[dirtyteacher]

reminds me of the old Woody Allen bit where he uses baseball to prolong the moment, except he gets so into his imaginary ballgame, he doesn't notice his partner has finished and gone to take a shower.

 

[dirtyteacher]

actually though, I suffer from the a quick trigger myself, so I am always on the lookout for a provider who doesn't charge $80 for a second shot.

 

[Larges]

What a lovely post and thread after a while! SPs and everyone sharing to help each other, kinda what community is for!