How to lose a date with me 101

Johnywalker42

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Ugh. Sounds like you made the right choice!

With booze, you lose. I’m 555 days alcohol free myself 😌 don’t miss the breath, being stuck places or hangovers.
Goodjob. I agree, life is waaaay better without it, the worst things that have happened in my life were due to drinking, no brainer to stay away from it.
 

Johnywalker42

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I am not entirely sure if you agree or disagree with my points here. I discovered escorting after I had been going clubbing and had nearly no luck picking girls up, and I am happier this way.

Before I discovered escorting, the only ways I knew that I could get to have sex with a lady were, one, I try my best to impress a girl, hook up with her and dump her, move onto the next. Two, dating apps. Three, going to clubs and bars, or parties. I soon realized lying to get into girl's pants won't work for me, for moral reasons. I am not comfortable lying frequently about myself to impress girls and get laid, because I get along with girls well as their friends, and I have the tendency to care for women I'm close to. Dating apps don't work for me, that's just how it is, I don't know the game. As for clubs and bars, it's not the environment I felt comfortable in. I prefer chatting with women in a quiet and cozy café, get to know her and let her get to know me. In a club I always felt somewhat awkward and it was really difficult to have an actual conversation with girls, which is how I impress women, by chatting with them, if they give me the chance.

I navigated my way from clubs, dating apps to seeing escorts. And I am happier now. I don't have to pretend and lie about myself to get laid, and then hurt someone's feelings when I want to move onto the next. I don't have to force myself to be in uncomfortable situations like clubs to get laid. I don't have to waste my time on dating apps. I am more confident, content, calm, and as a side bonus, I quit alcohol and weed. I only did those things to fit in and get girls, now I am sober, sexually satisfied, and I think I dodged a bullet by staying away from parties and hard drugs. And there's a myth that escorts are less risky because they are aware of their health and test themselves regularly. It's a win for me.
Well said buddy
 

Perbasaurus

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the only way i've ever been able to drop weight/stay in shape is by not drinking

if i do drink, all of that shit goes out the window.

as far as the guy in the screenshot, they're about as dumb as a brick

holy hell, i really hope he does not represent the intelligence of the average person trying to book time with you
 
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CapnMaynards

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I don't understand the disrespect.

When you're contacting an SP you're not hitting up a booty call, you're conducting business. Imagine if these bozos talked to all contractors this way? Imagine trying to get a quote for a new driveway and opening with "hey bb u busy?" at 2am?

When I book I lay out business first: Everything she needs to know about me and roughly what I'm looking for, in accordance with her ad. If she is receptive to me, then I go into further detail laying out all of my ideas for the session to get her input and if we come to an agreement I confirm the booking.

The last thing I want is to get all hyped up about an SP then fucking botch it with a text message and get blacklisted.
 

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I don't understand the disrespect.

When you're contacting an SP you're not hitting up a booty call, you're conducting business. Imagine if these bozos talked to all contractors this way? Imagine trying to get a quote for a new driveway and opening with "hey bb u busy?" at 2am?

When I book I lay out business first: Everything she needs to know about me and roughly what I'm looking for, in accordance with her ad. If she is receptive to me, then I go into further detail laying out all of my ideas for the session to get her input and if we come to an agreement I confirm the booking.

The last thing I want is to get all hyped up about an SP then fucking botch it with a text message and get blacklisted.
You are 1 in million
 

vulkanis

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This is sad to hear. I wish there was a greater push to fully legalize this and enact some smart policies/laws to help everyone. Maybe push those numbers up higher in your (and other SPs) favor.

Also, of note, I'm not alcohol free, but the last year+ has really reduced my need to drink alcohol. I do it socially, and without social interaction I haven't felt the need to do it. And I really don't miss it at all! Maybe one at dinner once a week or so, but I can totally see myself maintaining this level even after the pandemic is over. Feel so much better too!

yeah about 1 in 100 turn into bookings, but yeah that 1% is absofuckinglutely magical and makes it all worth it.
 
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We don’t want legalisation, we want decrim!
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Also congrats on cutting down your alcohol use!
This is sad to hear. I wish there was a greater push to fully legalize this and enact some smart policies/laws to help everyone. Maybe push those numbers up higher in your (and other SPs) favor.

Also, of note, I'm not alcohol free, but the last year+ has really reduced my need to drink alcohol. I do it socially, and without social interaction I haven't felt the need to do it. And I really don't miss it at all! Maybe one at dinner once a week or so, but I can totally see myself maintaining this level even after the pandemic is over. Feel so much better too!
 

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Do I understand this right?

Criminalized = The government has made it their business
Legalized = The government has made it their business
Decriminalized = The government can go fuck itself
nail. hammer. head.
the government doesn't belong in a sexual scenario between consenting adults.
 
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