I am not entirely sure if you agree or disagree with my points here. I discovered escorting after I had been going clubbing and had nearly no luck picking girls up, and I am happier this way.
Before I discovered escorting, the only ways I knew that I could get to have sex with a lady were, one, I try my best to impress a girl, hook up with her and dump her, move onto the next. Two, dating apps. Three, going to clubs and bars, or parties. I soon realized lying to get into girl's pants won't work for me, for moral reasons. I am not comfortable lying frequently about myself to impress girls and get laid, because I get along with girls well as their friends, and I have the tendency to care for women I'm close to. Dating apps don't work for me, that's just how it is, I don't know the game. As for clubs and bars, it's not the environment I felt comfortable in. I prefer chatting with women in a quiet and cozy café, get to know her and let her get to know me. In a club I always felt somewhat awkward and it was really difficult to have an actual conversation with girls, which is how I impress women, by chatting with them, if they give me the chance.
I navigated my way from clubs, dating apps to seeing escorts. And I am happier now. I don't have to pretend and lie about myself to get laid, and then hurt someone's feelings when I want to move onto the next. I don't have to force myself to be in uncomfortable situations like clubs to get laid. I don't have to waste my time on dating apps. I am more confident, content, calm, and as a side bonus, I quit alcohol and weed. I only did those things to fit in and get girls, now I am sober, sexually satisfied, and I think I dodged a bullet by staying away from parties and hard drugs. And there's a myth that escorts are less risky because they are aware of their health and test themselves regularly. It's a win for me.