This guy’s videos really hit home about a lot of gender inequalities in relationships. I suggest you follow and check it out! https://instagram.com/realzachthinkshare?igshid=NzZhOTFlYzFmZQ==
How to be a better man
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Fuck it, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....
Male and Female. For the women out there: Female and Male. Both have physical and mental differences.
When I was learning English in School, there were 3 genders/identifying a person/thing: He, She, It.
I never thought there were gender inequalities, until fucken idiots started talking about it, because they had nothing to fucken do. I'm so fucken sick about hearing about gender inequality, (edited ), without engaging the brain first and common sense.
If 2 people are in a relationship and they care for one another; maybe they should be kind to one another and communicate with each other honesty, create goals together and work toward those goals. Both have to be good listeners....
The thing about life is you can not over analyze it. That is what college/university courses are for. Equal signs ( = ) are for equations, and nothing in life really balances out...... It either negative or positive....
Its just life!!
PS. My fav Karma joke: Karma, you missed a few people.....
Male and Female. For the women out there: Female and Male. Both have physical and mental differences.
When I was learning English in School, there were 3 genders/identifying a person/thing: He, She, It.
I never thought there were gender inequalities, until fucken idiots started talking about it, because they had nothing to fucken do. I'm so fucken sick about hearing about gender inequality, (edited ), without engaging the brain first and common sense.
If 2 people are in a relationship and they care for one another; maybe they should be kind to one another and communicate with each other honesty, create goals together and work toward those goals. Both have to be good listeners....
The thing about life is you can not over analyze it. That is what college/university courses are for. Equal signs ( = ) are for equations, and nothing in life really balances out...... It either negative or positive....
Its just life!!
PS. My fav Karma joke: Karma, you missed a few people.....
I just want to make sure I have this right: there is no gender inequality because women have certain characteristics and men their general characteristics? We should just accept any perceived inequalities because of “nature?”
After going through a couple of videos most of them can be boiled down to: don't be a selfish dick in a partnership, and be a considerate human being. Is it really that hard?
I think it says more about the relationship of people attracted to these types of videos than anything else.
There is no gender inequality because he doesn’t like that there is. It’s not real. Forget science and human experience, it’s all just made up by idiots. 😂
Despite my better judgement, I’ll take the bait.
are they really gender based, or “relationship role” based? Seems like his examples on reducing emotional load can work for anyone and is really about being a communicative and considerate partner.
actually… just watched the raspberry video. the guy is off his rocker … if he wants to create an elaborate mental straight jacket to restrict his manly nature from committing micro-aggressions like gifting freshly picked fruit, well, he’s entitled to his opinion but I’ll pass on his advice
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To answer your question about how to be a better man, I believe it's important to strive to be the kindest person you can be. This is what I do as a wom
The concept of niceness is subjective and can vary from person to person. What one individual finds nice in a man might differ from someone else's perspective. Generally, a nice man is often considered kind, respectful, empathetic, considerate, and understanding. These qualities can include being polite, showing compassion, listening actively, and being supportive of others.
It's important to note that being nice should come from genuine intentions and not be a facade. Authentic kindness and respect for others are qualities that many people appreciate in any individual, regardless of gender. Ultimately, the "nicest" man is someone who treats others with kindness, empathy, and understanding, fostering positive and respectful relationships with those around him.
What do you think about my perspective on this? 🤔🙂😘
The concept of niceness is subjective and can vary from person to person. What one individual finds nice in a man might differ from someone else's perspective. Generally, a nice man is often considered kind, respectful, empathetic, considerate, and understanding. These qualities can include being polite, showing compassion, listening actively, and being supportive of others.
It's important to note that being nice should come from genuine intentions and not be a facade. Authentic kindness and respect for others are qualities that many people appreciate in any individual, regardless of gender. Ultimately, the "nicest" man is someone who treats others with kindness, empathy, and understanding, fostering positive and respectful relationships with those around him.
What do you think about my perspective on this? 🤔🙂😘
Acting nice in hope of a reward is not being nice at all, it is being manipulative.
You're absolutely right! If you understood that I meant it in a way to gain something from it, that's not what I intended to say. I completely agree with your perspective.
It will be a complete waste of time as women consider they are best/perfect already so there is no chance of any betterment lol
An awful lot of women don't want a good man. They don't want a nice man. They don't want a man who will treat them well.
They want an asshole.
They want an asshole.
People have different preferences when it comes to relationships. What qualities do you think are important in a partner?
I'm curious about your perspective. Can you share more about why you think some people feel that way about relationships?
I'm interested in understanding your viewpoint. Why do you believe some women might be attracted to certain qualities (asshole qualities) and how do these preferences differ between men and women in your opinion?
An asshole typically refer to negative traits such as rudeness, disrespect, selfishness, and a lack of empathy or consideration for others. People may use this term to describe someone who is arrogant, manipulative, or inconsiderate in their interactions with others.
Do you genuinely believe that these are the qualities women are seeking in their lives?
Or perhaps you fooled me, and you were just joking?
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maybe woman just want guys who are confident, and dont have a victimhood mentality like you clearly do lol
I did not write nor agree with the post you have referenced. One can generalize this to be fairly accurate.
Women are often attracted to narcissistic and dangerous men. Women will make excuses for their immorality by rationalising how they’re really just misunderstood good guys. Rationalised because it is rooted in the safety and financial benefits of such a relationship to the woman.
Ultimately most women get burned so hard they end up traumatised, before self victimising and declaring all men are trash to avoid ownership of their dating choices.
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It is what my grandmother used to warn my sisters; and by assholes I believe what was meant is abusive.
I have no clue if it is abusive men some women look for, or if abusive is a byproduct of the traits they seek.
At any rate, it is no joke that a lot of women do end up in abusive relationships.
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My folks never never gendered their teachings on my siblings and I, they taught empathy, kindness and how to be a better human being. To be compassionate and at the same time learning how to say no and respect boundaries. My ex mother in law use to ask me how I became such a wonderful young man and I would always answer, you'll have to blame my parents for that one.
