How to be a better man

[E.H.]

maybe woman just want guys who are confident, and dont have a victimhood mentality like you clearly do lol

Obvious shaming language.
Since when did crookedmember profess his victimhood?
Putting words into anothers' mouth.

Two of my three sisters ,took up with assholes.

1) Do not ever be the nice guy, who offers to do things for women.
Otherwise,women will view you as the low status,who does the ,"doing".
That,while regarding themselves as the higher status ones who get the,"who-ing".
Women will only choose mating partners who offer upward mobility(hypergamy),that a lower status man doesn't offer.

2)Women are not attracted to what they can have,so much as they are attracted to what they can't have.
Women do not favor the," eager to please nice guy",because they know they can have the ,"eager to please nice guy".
One of many reasons,why women favor the man who has no intention of earning their favor.

3)Women favor belligerant & disfunctional men,over reasoning & functional men.
Reason being,a women wants a dominant man to do their disfunctional bidding,at the expense of others,for which a reasoning & functional man would refuse to comply.

My policies towards women who take up with assholes:
1)They are the assholes brides,they belong to their assholes' tribes.
2)They picked their shit-sandwich off the shelf,they can chew it down by their ownselves ,likewise.
3)Women are brutally judgemental of men who make poor choices,so what comes around,will go around.

Do not ever let yourself be trad-con simp gamed:"High status them:they get provided with everything & held to account for nothing./Low status yourself,who gets provided with little (if anything),while being held to account for everything(including transgressions you had nothing to do with).
Case in point,the woman who chooses an asshole partner,then refuses to acknowledge ownership for her own choice,but instead holds the entire male gender to account,for the consequence of her own choice.

Engelbert Humperdink

 

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There is no gender inequality because he doesn’t like that there is. It’s not real. Forget science and human experience, it’s all just made up by idiots. 😂

Nope I'm just sick about hearing about gender inequality. If you think about it, gender inequality means that the genders are not equal... This is a true statement. But it is used in a reversed fashion to foster attention to certain situations. (Idiots twisting words for their own purpose). So when some idiot uses the term gender inequality in a relationship, I'm thinking its all bullshit.

So you are all for a man who claims to be a woman, can enter woman's sports competition, who then blows away the natural woman competitors (and breaking woman's world records) is equal to all natural women. It is not Fair.
This above situation is how stupid and idiotic people are going with these notions of gender equality.

A Male is not a Female. A Female is not a male. They are 2 different sexes of the human race. They are always going to be different as night and day. Yin and Yang.

When People talk of gender inequality, they talk as if all things should be equal in the same ways. This is not possible. There are always going to be differences between males and females. And you will never get Males and Females down to just 1 sex; it just not possible.

Now that doesn't mean women can't get equal pay for doing the same job. Every situation will be different, because there are always many variables involved.

What is the science behind gender inequality? What are the scientific papers that are about gender inequality. Do you mean there is a actual science behind gender inequality or do you mean; it about the statistics of gender inequality with pay, jobs, career, etc. The word that comes to mind with scientific papers is the word "competition"; there is a winner and a loser in a competition. How is the winner and loser equal?

When I die and a hundred years from now, my bones will be of a male and my DNA will be male. Yours bones Charlee, will be female bones and the bones will have Female DNA. So when that man who claims to be a woman dies; and a hundred years from now his bones will be male and his DNA will be male, but he might be missing his dick....Ahh.. how twisted reality gets....

So like most people in this thread have said, treat the other person in the relationship with kindness, and you'll get kindness back... Really that is the golden rule... Treat others how you want to be treated...

Relationships take time and hard work, to maintain a relationship. The given rate of divorce is over 50%. That is for marriage, it doesn't include how many relationships a person has failed in before that marriage. Oops I need to take a mulligan..

 

[mr.idoks]

Obvious shaming language.
Since when did crookedmember profess his victimhood?
Putting words into anothers' mouth.

Two of my three sisters ,took up with assholes.

1) Do not ever be the nice guy, who offers to do things for women.
Otherwise,women will view you as the low status,who does the ,"doing".
That,while regarding themselves as the higher status ones who get the,"who-ing".
Women will only choose mating partners who offer upward mobility(hypergamy),that a lower status man doesn't offer.

2)Women are not attracted to what they can have,so much as they are attracted to what they can't have.
Women do not favor the," eager to please nice guy",because they know they can have the ,"eager to please nice guy".
One of many reasons,why women favor the man who has no intention of earning their favor.

3)Women favor belligerant & disfunctional men,over reasoning & functional men.
Reason being,a women wants a dominant man to do their disfunctional bidding,at the expense of others,for which a reasoning & functional man would refuse to comply.

My policies towards women who take up with assholes:
1)They are the assholes brides,they belong to their assholes' tribes.
2)They picked their shit-sandwich off the shelf,they can chew it down by their ownselves ,likewise.
3)Women are brutally judgemental of men who make poor choices,so what comes around,will go around.

Do not ever let yourself be trad-con simp gamed:"High status them:they get provided with everything & held to account for nothing./Low status yourself,who gets provided with little (if anything),while being held to account for everything(including transgressions you had nothing to do with).
Case in point,the woman who chooses an asshole partner,then refuses to acknowledge ownership for her own choice,but instead holds the entire male gender to account,for the consequence of her own choice.

Engelbert Humperdink

hahah bro, I agree with alot of what your saying, trust me, I was "redpill" before I even knew what the redpill was, and before the redpill got popular, most guys who are experienced with woman just are naturally.

That is what I was implying. woman dont want needy guys, who are doormats, and desperate. they want guys who have options and give them little attention. Where we disagree is that I dont think that makes a guy an asshole, its just a confident guy with options, I know plenty of guys who are super succesful with woman who are extremely nice, but arent pushovers, arent simps, some girl probably just think they are assholes because they want to date the guy and the feelings not reciprocated.

not sure were you are going with point #3 though. being disagreeable, assertive, and dominant is extremely usefull in resource acquisition and in the business world. you can have those traits and still be extremely functional and reason driven. Please dpnt tell me your one of those guys who thinks men fit into either: "ugly & fat, but rich and smart" or "tall, jacked and handsome, but dumb and broke" cause thats clearly not the case, plenty of guys who are smart and succesful who are also good looking, tall and jacked, especially if you are a guy living in vancouver or toronto or any major city in north america you would see this is quite common.

we all know woman are just chasing after the top 1-10% if men, thats extremely obvious to every man on the planet haha. and you couple that with the fact that alot of woman confuse sexual attraction with relationship attraction. it leads to a very imbalanced sexual marketplace. but instead of complaining about it, get yourself into that top 1-10% of men.

when it comes down to it, maybe we just disagree on what an "asshole" is, cause I dont see a man who exercises his options as an asshole

 

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To answer your question about how to be a better man, I believe it's important to strive to be the kindest person you can be. This is what I do as a wom

The concept of niceness is subjective and can vary from person to person. What one individual finds nice in a man might differ from someone else's perspective. Generally, a nice man is often considered kind, respectful, empathetic, considerate, and understanding. These qualities can include being polite, showing compassion, listening actively, and being supportive of others.

It's important to note that being nice should come from genuine intentions and not be a facade. Authentic kindness and respect for others are qualities that many people appreciate in any individual, regardless of gender. Ultimately, the "nicest" man is someone who treats others with kindness, empathy, and understanding, fostering positive and respectful relationships with those around him.

What do you think about my perspective on this? 🤔🙂😘

Thank you for sharing your insight. I really needed this