I'm a male 57 years old with some extra pounds on. I prefer the massage side of the hobby more than full service lately, but have started to wonder if my age and larger girth are still ok with those providing the service. There are a lot like me in size and age who do not want to give up the pampering, but starting to wonder if it is something that perhaps providers may not be as comfortable with.
How old is too old?
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I think that is just you feeling some kind of complex. Not many of us guys are great looking. We all have some extra pounds, esp in the area between the heart and genitals. Many of us hobbyists are over 50, and I mean your typical 50 plus males: grey hair or no hair, flabby guts, out of shape, diabetic, suffering from ED and hypertension.
In my three years in this hobby NOT ONCE has an SP asked me my body shape. Some have asked me my age, ethnicity etc, but NEVER my body shape. So stop feeling sorry yourself. Only thing that matters is how you feel and how you want to feel. As long as your wallet has some greens, reds and browns, SP's would be glad to see you.
We middle aged men have most money and stable lives. We are the ones who want to relive our youth and our fantasy of being with young or younger girls. So check out the mirror only to groom yourself not to disgust at your looks.
T8E
Well said T8, I am 61....6'1 240 (260 after a long cruise ) ED borderline diabetes and hypertension......in fantasy land where we all are...I am 6'2 210....healthy as hell...and financially set for anything I desire.....
I think most are just fine with you. They are more attuned to attitude and grooming. We can't all be Greek Statues. So... too old? Never.
Hallelujah !!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless Them all for that!!!!!!!!!
I am glad you brought it up. To best of my recall, I have not seen any ad saying, No One Over 50 Please! But many of them do say that they prefer older gentlemen.
So, there you go, another reason for us older guys to huff and puff our way to:
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SPs who have an age or weight cap will have it listed on their website, so as long as you don't see anything written about that, you should be fine!
From what I can tell, the vast majority (though not all) providers are okay with old and/or overweight clients. Just do your research
From what I can tell, the vast majority (though not all) providers are okay with old and/or overweight clients. Just do your research
I've seen a few ads with age restrictions and even if they are not overtly stated it's apparent from reading some reviews that a woman's reluctance to provide a GFE type session becomes evident after funds have changed hands.
Out of shape older men drawn to ads that have barely legal in the headline or narrow their search criteria to 18-20 on LL are setting themselves up for a disappointing session or are fine with having sex with a teen who closes her eyes and tries to let her mind wander elsewhere.
I think most men realize that and your average 55-60 year old is happily rewarded for their choice of a late 20s to early 30s or older woman (real age probably mid 30 to 40) over a teenage club hopping cutie.
There are exceptions but your average early 20s and younger woman is not the best choice for a 55 year old who looks every bit his age.
Missed the gym this morning. ..have the urge to go now.
Some ladies have weight restrictions. And age restrictions. And race restrictions. Money doesn't dictate everything. Clients have to make sure they're doing their research.
Don't worry about it OP.
I am young (35) and I am also overweight.. If anything, this hobby reminds me to work out and have better cardio because then that will mean more fun and mileage lol.
Most SPs care about your attitude (showing respect, asking before doing certain things, donations in the first 2mins, etc) and hygiene/grooming over many things.
Though my age gap with the ladies are much shorter than yours - I already feel uncomfortable with most girls under 25 because I feel they don't even know who they are mentally and sexually yet. It's awkward for me to kind of be there to help them "grow up". Lol (the Angels are a rare exception, but they hire ladies with a good head on their shoulders and can carry good conversations.. And not just kids that talk about snapchat/Instagram and going "yaaaaasss".. *shudders*)
Most of the ladies that are on here who posts frequently would suit your bill.
Like I and many other people have mentioned before; the ladies that are working for over an year and has any sort of following all have great understanding of the human condition and are often the most kind, gentle, and loving human beings I've came across..
Most of us go back not just for the "main event" but for the conversations and the companionship.. Just don't fall in love too quickly, LOL.
Cheers.
I am young (35) and I am also overweight.. If anything, this hobby reminds me to work out and have better cardio because then that will mean more fun and mileage lol.
Most SPs care about your attitude (showing respect, asking before doing certain things, donations in the first 2mins, etc) and hygiene/grooming over many things.
Though my age gap with the ladies are much shorter than yours - I already feel uncomfortable with most girls under 25 because I feel they don't even know who they are mentally and sexually yet. It's awkward for me to kind of be there to help them "grow up". Lol (the Angels are a rare exception, but they hire ladies with a good head on their shoulders and can carry good conversations.. And not just kids that talk about snapchat/Instagram and going "yaaaaasss".. *shudders*)
Most of the ladies that are on here who posts frequently would suit your bill.
Like I and many other people have mentioned before; the ladies that are working for over an year and has any sort of following all have great understanding of the human condition and are often the most kind, gentle, and loving human beings I've came across..
Most of us go back not just for the "main event" but for the conversations and the companionship.. Just don't fall in love too quickly, LOL.
Cheers.
I am late thirties now as well and due to my profession and personality I am pretty much mentally forever in my 20's so I never had trouble finding chemistry with younger girls. It is not something I actively seek though, I much prefer the company of 25-35 age group where we have much more in common and ladies in that age group are much more experienced and have qualities that turn me on way more than a 20 year old tight body does.
I do make an effort to be my best though. I have been looking after myself ever since I started seeing sp's. Someone I saw multiple times, recently commented "wow you are looking noticeably more attractive since the first time I saw you" which made my day. there is no rule that says you should stop trying to look and be your best when you are older. George Clooney is 56. Hit the gym, go to a spa and look after yourself.
I do make an effort to be my best though. I have been looking after myself ever since I started seeing sp's. Someone I saw multiple times, recently commented "wow you are looking noticeably more attractive since the first time I saw you" which made my day. there is no rule that says you should stop trying to look and be your best when you are older. George Clooney is 56. Hit the gym, go to a spa and look after yourself.
As I mentioned in another thread, my nom de plume is no longer appropriate, but it is still possible to enjoy oneself, given the right partner. Just had contact today with someone I met a year ago - we must have had some of that elusive stuff called "chemistry". Sounds like she remembers me positively, and I was asking for a reference - not another date. I concur that being a gentleman and doing ones best to be well groomed may work to one's advantage.
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Take8easy – no complex or anything like that, just curious as to the thoughts of others. Have to agree with those who said that grooming, hygiene and attitude are the most important aspects of this.
Have to agree with Elmore too, not really interested in the 19 year old any more, just don’t connect with them as well. A mature woman can be so sexy in so many ways, and experience is worth so much.
Thanks for the feedback, makes me feel better to know I am not the only one with a few extra years that is a part of the hobby still.
Have to agree with Elmore too, not really interested in the 19 year old any more, just don’t connect with them as well. A mature woman can be so sexy in so many ways, and experience is worth so much.
Thanks for the feedback, makes me feel better to know I am not the only one with a few extra years that is a part of the hobby still.
I am 71, and probably one of the senior members here, both in chronological age and length of membership. I have only had one lady react negatively to my age. Afte talking to her agency, she relented and, after the deed, told me she was surprised she enjoyed herself.
My preference has been to older ladies. But, recently I met one in her early 20's with whom I get along really well. It just goes to show ya, Age is mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.
My preference has been to older ladies. But, recently I met one in her early 20's with whom I get along really well. It just goes to show ya, Age is mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.
I do find my age gives me pause periodically. Early 60's, decent shape, no diabetes or ed issues, only med I take is a 81g (baby) aspirin. I'm happy and content, I'm fortunate that way and if the chemistry is good no performance issues at all. Still as I say it does give me pause once in awhile.
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My pooner friends range in age from 38 to 68. Most guys are in their 50s with a few in their forties and sixties. We all are well respected and welcomed with open arms by the ladies, especially if they have seen us before or know who we are. Reps get passed around. Don't have as much stamina as I used to but I make up for it with skill and finesse laboriously taught to me by many ladies along the way. LOL. I have seen girls from 19 to late 50s, and I have had fun with all ages. The sweet spot for me seems to be from late twenties to mid 40's. These girls know what they need, know how to get it and will get the very best out of you in the process and making your day a very happy one. I have never had better (or more) sex in my entire life than I have had in my 60s.
When I read reviews and ads I do try to get a sense of whether my age (58) or weight will be considered in the service I am likely to get. To date i have been pleasantly surprised by the professional attitude and service I have received. Sweet VIPs agency in Victoria is really well run and they will point one in the right direction if they have concerns about such issues.
