How much sex is too much sex?

[georgebushmoron]

OK guys be real here.... how much sex is too much sex?
I only desire sex maybe once every 3 days. I'm quite happy with once every 5 days. My SP-GF gets upset unless she gives it to me at least once every other day. The last time I told her that I didn't want that, and that I appreciated just hanging with her and kissing and stuff, but not sex. Anyhow, when I get too much sex, no matter how good it is, it loses that special something. I told her that sex for me should just come naturally as a consequence of the day/feelings, not the result of physical compulsion. I guess she might be worried that if she doesn't give it to me enough, I'll go elsewhere (which is untrue as far as I'm concerned).

Now I know we're basically all pooners here, so I guess maybe the assumption is that we are craving sex all the time. I enjoy sex but not so much the physicality of it.... when I've had purely physical sex, no matter how wild or good, it still leaves me feeling unsatisfied. A lot of guys say they "need" sex, that there is this physical compulsion much like a dog has to hunt when it sees prey. I don't believe this is true.... I tend to think that guys who believe this are simply not able to tune in sufficiently to other outlets for intimacy. Perhaps I am wrong, and if so, I mean no insult if you feel it applies to you as a guy who "needs" sex.

I wonder if I'm not with the mainstream of guys, so I thought I'd ask you all.

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Personally I'm happy with 2 times a day during weekdays and 3-4 on weekends HOWEVER (lol) my gf is only good for once a day. Then there's blowjob week when she thinks that its too gross and messy and there's no action at all with the exception of the odd blowjob if i grovel enough!

 

[LeBeau]

I love to fuck

If I had a GF, I'd want it everyday and several times on the weekend.

 

[n2supersymmetry]

it varies with the seasons ... spring and summer I get frisky everyday but fall and winter maybe every 3 days like GMB. Though there are the odd days that I can't get enough of it and can go for hours.
On average, once a day would be nice and if she can get me to cum even better though not necessary.

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

Actually an intersting topic GBM !

I don't mean that in a sarcastic way either.
A good question to ponder. For me I'll answer your second paragraph the
part about the physicality of it and the intimacy part of it.

With some girls I feel the need for a good banging and with others I more
like the intimacy stuff, the closeness and passion.
I've still not figured out why this is but I suppose it just comes down to
the mood and maybe how hot she looks or who knows, but a large part of
that also comes from how the girl responds to me.

Even when you are with one girl for sometime you might want just a good
screwing and then other times I feel the need for genuine closeness
and passion accompanied with some slow love making.
It can be part of what both parties are after of course and maybe its just
part of what makes us human as to how we respond to our SO, GF or
SP, not to mention how we respond to ourselves in a sense.

Back to the first question I like to have it 2 times a week on average,
but the pooning pot just doesn't allow for that!

...........QM'r

 

[georgebushmoron]

depends on who it's with. right now 3-4 times a week works for me. if the GF needs it more then give me a call....LOL

hey now, you already got too much!

 

[Gentleman First]

I like sex a lot....actually maybe too much

If in a relationship....when it starts I cannot get enough.
5, 6, 7 times a day is just borderline enough.
After time it seems to taper off some.
At say the year mark I can handle just 2 or 3 times a day.
Yes I am sometimes a joker on here....but i sincerely mean this.
I have never been in a relationship and able to handle say skipping a day or more.
It seems the more sex I get, the more I want.
But as a single guy I sometimes go a week or more woth none, and although the first say 4 days after i last had sex is hard, then it gets easier as time passes....is that normal?

But as soon as i get laid again the drive is back and i am just like a kid in a candy shop and always want more.

 

[georgebushmoron]

But as a single guy I sometimes go a week or more woth none, and although the first say 4 days after i last had sex is hard, then it gets easier as time passes....is that normal?

That sounds perfectly normal. But I'd say the rest is a tad on the high side.... I'd never heard such frequency before. It was actually shocking.

So anyhow, it seems I have a lower sex drive than anyone who has posted here. Perhaps I'm abnormal and my GF would be suspicious I'm getting it elsewhere. Maybe I've had too much sex (for me) in the past and it doesn't mean a hell of a lot to me like it used to.

 

[Gentleman First]

That sounds perfectly normal. But I'd say the rest is a tad on the high side.... I'd never heard such frequency before. It was actually shocking.

So anyhow, it seems I have a lower sex drive than anyone who has posted here. Perhaps I'm abnormal and my GF would be suspicious I'm getting it elsewhere. Maybe I've had too much sex (for me) in the past and it doesn't mean a hell of a lot to me like it used to.

Before my Sweetheart passed away we had an incredible sex life.
At first she was the aggressor more than me.
But over time I learned to be able to do it 6 to 10 times per day to keep her happy.
Seems now I cannot go backards though.
But like I said if I have gone 4 days or so with none, its like its okay to not get any then.
But the first few days after i have shagged are hell if i cannot just keep doing it.
And after say a couple weeks if i have had a long dry spell, it really does not seem to matter any more.
But then inevitably i make a call and book something, and it starts the cycle again.
Ya, I agree maybe I am a little weird....just how I am is all.

 

[hardup]

Too much sex???????????????
There's no such thing.........you really are a moron

I dated a bonafide nympho once and I thought after a while she was goin' to kill me but when we split I REALLY missed her.

 

[georgebushmoron]

Too much sex???????????????
There's no such thing.........you really are a moron

I dated a bonafide nympho once and I thought after a while she was goin' to kill me but when we split I REALLY missed her.

well good for you.... anyhow i asked your opinion, that doesn't include being called names. Your handle suits you though, it's a good alternative to "desperate".

 

[hardup]

Muffin..................did I hurt your feelings


Don't take it to heart afterall I didn't name you.......you did


But seriously, try wrapping a tensor bandage around your cranium and that may force the blood to places that could make some use of it.......... perhaps then you could get it up every other day

 

[wolverine]

So anyhow, it seems I have a lower sex drive than anyone who has posted here. Perhaps I'm abnormal and my GF would be suspicious I'm getting it elsewhere. Maybe I've had too much sex (for me) in the past and it doesn't mean a hell of a lot to me like it used to.

Nah, not abnormal. If your sex drive is lower now, it could be because you're getting older and the testosterone is not flowing as freely through your body as when you were a randy 18-year-old. The too-much-sex thing could be another factor - been there, done that and done her, what else is there? Exercise and diet are other factors.

As for me, I needed to fuck at least once a day when I was a teenager. But as I got older, that desire gradually grew less and less until where I'm now at the point of just once every 4-5 days. Sometimes that can stretch into a week or two, depending on how I'm feeling physically and emotionally. I know that if I hold off on even masturbation for 2 or 3 weeks, any arousal after that will result in a cock that's so hard that the skin is stretched to the bursting point and all it takes is a gust of wind to set it off!

And I echo QMer's comments...some girls I want to just bang and leave, with others I want something more intimate. Depends on her personality and our personal chemistry.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

Too much sex is what my ex was getting 'cause I only wanted it twice a week.
Man was I fuckin' pissed when I found out.

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

And I echo QMer's comments...some girls I want to just bang and leave, with others I want something more intimate. Depends on her personality and our personal chemistry.

I know what you mean about abstaining for awhile as well, some times it
just takes sheer will power, no wanking and no sex for a little while like
a week, and then all it takes is a slight breeze and and the fucker has a
mind of its own.

On yer quote above a good example would be the two reviews I did of
recent. Angel and Mimi. Now Angel inspired me to go hell bent for leather
a real tiger. With Mimi it was a slow, intimate and sensual experience.

Both top notch, the best of both worlds to be sure.

This might make for a good poll, which type of sex do you like?
Hard and fast, or slow and intimate? With an option that it depends on
how you react to the lady involved and how she inspires you.


.........QM'r

 

[curvy_nympho]

Is a girl allowed to reply to this question?

I can never get enough sex! When I am dating someone, I wear him out usually.

I am always ready for more more more. With being single, I use the vibrator(s) twice a day and sometimes a whole lot more.

I have never dated anyone who can match my sex drive.


Bella

 

[Randy Whorewald]

I can never get enough sex! When I am dating someone, I wear him out usually.

I am always ready for more more more. With being single, I use the vibrator(s) twice a day and sometimes a whole lot more.

I have never dated anyone who can match my sex drive.


Bella

I guess you're in the right business then Bella.

As for myself I like to have it 3-4 times per week.

 

[georgebushmoron]

Personally, I either like to just lie back watch TV and get an hour long bj (provided it's good, otherwise I wouldn't bother).... or .... bang the girl porn star style (pussy, anal, 69, DATY, bbbj, CIM, in no particular order each time). Rarely I like the slow and passionate stuff unless I really like her. I don't like average sex.... maybe I get bored too easily, variety of girls doesn't do it anymore, and I'd rather hold out for the good stuff.

 

[LonelyGhost]

OK guys be real here.... how much sex is too much sex?

I figure when I'm screamin' 'don't touch it! don't touch it!' that its a good
time to cut back a little ...

otherwise,

when in fucks name can anyone have too much sex????

 

[The Lizard King]

If it's casual sex, shit, I could fuck a different girl 5 - 7 days a week. Mind you, if that's the case they tend to be uncontrolled, unplanned encounters which could result in the repulsive "sex smell".

If it's a new GF 5 times a week. A 3 month old relationship, still 5 times a week but I'm fantasizing that I'm banging another chick 1 or 2 of those times. A 6 month old relationship 3 times a week and definitely fantasizing about banging another chick 2 of those times. At one year, I'm not banging my GF at all but I am working my way around the office or closest Earl's 2 or 3 times a week!