A nice thoughtful post. Thanks.I got into Stanford to complete both an undergraduate and a graduate degree (JD). I was not that brilliant, in fact I was not brilliant at all ......a couple of cuts above average.....just maybe reasonably bright.....but both the teaching and my fellow students made me far more intelligent coming out of college then coming in. And but for two tours of duty in South East Asia, I could never have dreamed of getting admitted to any top-ranked school let alone obtaining the financial assistance to finish two degrees.
At the end of the day, while the knowledge and analytical skills I obtained in the course of my studies were of great value to me both professionally and personally, the huge dividend I got going to a tier-one school was humility.
The teaching faculty was first rate in every way as were most of the other students; even the students who got in on the basis of something other than their academic achievements or intellectual abilities. Ironically, until I went to University I never realized how astoundingly ignorant I really was about most things outside a war zone and I still retain a compelling appreciation of my own ignorance and intellectual limitation.
All that said, there is a multitude of people out there that are far more intelligent and even knowledgeable than me who never stepped foot on a college campus; to their credit, they self-educated. I am not sure I could ever do that at least to any meaningful degree. The bottom line is I am not so much proud of my college education as I feel blessed in having the opportunity that I had.
It was truly like winning the lottery.
As a PostScript contributing to this forum has become an unintended therapy season for me as I am home alone on New Years Eve feeling sorry for myself. By throwing in my two cents, more out of boredom than anything else, I truly realize how lucky I am. On that basis I hope I provided some modest value to the discussion and to all the readers a happy and healthy new year.
Lots of us are alone on these special days. I've learned to make the most of it whenever I'm out. I extend myself to neighbors and other dog walkers.
To all, may you all have great health, prosperity and above all fun in the New Year