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monger99

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In the times where I have visited SPs over the last 15-20 years, I have probably only ejaculated about 20-30% of the time. While the sessions are pleasurable, they really don't send me over the top. Has anyone else experienced this phenomenon?
 

pussy lover

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That is sometimes the case for me when a smell starts to appear from down there or I notice the girl is on her cycle. Total turn off.
 

johnywalker87

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In the times where I have visited SPs over the last 15-20 years, I have probably only ejaculated about 20-30% of the time. While the sessions are pleasurable, they really don't send me over the top. Has anyone else experienced this phenomenon?
Did you always manage to get an erection?
 

mackeral23

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I have no problem ejaculating even with a condom if I abstained from masturbation and porn for at least one week.
Your discipline is worth commending good sir.

I would say maybe 10% of the time this occurs to me. Amusingly it’s often with the ladies I would like the most to date as opposed to seeing in this context. And definitely also sometimes because I did not have the discipline or pre planning of Mr.Walker. If they’re unbelievably hot junior is going to make sure he achieves nirvana. If they’re pretty good or not quite what I was hoping, usually also no problem. But if we click and I like her then I want to perform and that seems to distract too much.
 

cg16

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I'm mostly an MP guy and I have pretty much 100% chance of finishing, long as it's offered. There's been a few times when I've done FS and have not finished either due to not being into the girl, or as mentioned above "getting a smell." I was doing a girl in doggy once and kept getting a constant whiff of sh*t. I faked an orgasim and high tailed it outta there. Probably one of the main reasons I mostly stick to MP's.
 

chubawamba

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If I can’t go for any reason while doing the deed, I usually end up playing with it or getting her to help while I touch her body or atleast have her pose for me.

After being in relationship where I don’t have to use condoms, the thought of a condom as well as the decrease sensation sucks.

You are not alone.

I also think it has to do with the intimacy and a connection, or thought of a SO.
Plus anything else on my mind can cause me not to go because I’m thinking about something else.

I really enjoy having a connection to who I’m doing the deed with. Even if it’s just paying for an extra half hour to chat and get to know one another.

Also, sometimes the the time limit annoys me. Lol

An hour is more than enough...as usually I only take about 20min if I’m with someone I like, but performance anxiety gets in the way.

Reaching the big O is not just about the physical sensation, I think it’s more psychological.

Also, watching a bit of porn before hand works for me.
 

take8easy

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You are not alone. It happens to me often enough. Personally speaking, it’s due to two reasons.
1. Condom syndrome
2(a). Frequent Manual operation of the machinery can cause it not work well during the deed. Boy gets used to be touched in a certain way and certain points which is nit the case many times.
2(b). Sometimes there is not enough load left inside to cause the volcano to erupt. i try to start save it four five days ahead but sometimes I get an unexpected chance to play but I had played the night before. It seems to be getting worse as I m aging.

But not being able to eat the dish doesn’t lessen the pleasure. Cooking itself is just as much fun! I can always go home and have the rest of the fun by yourself.
 

islander1-1

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Hmmm age for this function does not seem to be a factor so far. In the past 2 years of seeing SPs, I have failed only once, and still puzzled why. late 60s and my percentage rate is 98.
 

monger99

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I appreciate everyone's perspective. It is nice to know that there are others who have experienced this. It can be a bit of a let down, especially when you find yourself explaining the situation to the SP. Many really take it to heart and are almost offended when you don't finish.
 

chubawamba

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As T8E and others have commented, you are definitely not alone.
It's happened to me a couple of times. The last was with my ATF and I put it down to fighting off an orgasm for too long. By that I mean I suppress the feeling when I'm about to cum to prolong the session. On a couple of occasions after multiple suppressions I just couldn't cum. For the record, the lady I was with totally understood what had happened.
I hate holding off...it’s like you’re about to climax, then you resist and next you know you can’t go. Lol

That’s when I just take care of it. Haha
 

take8easy

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Personally speaking, attempts to delay an orgasm is sort of similar to “Justice delayed is justice denied.” I don’t know why.. for soy reason I chave not been able to ‘come’ to a conclusion.

Remember you not coming does not and shouldn’t affect anything as far as sp is cocerned. I mean they will not be disappointed in you.
 

monger99

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Personally speaking, attempts to delay an orgasm is sort of similar to “Justice delayed is justice denied.” I don’t know why.. for soy reason I chave not been able to ‘come’ to a conclusion.

Remember you not coming does not and shouldn’t affect anything as far as sp is cocerned. I mean they will not be disappointed in you.

Hi take8easy. It's not that they are disappointed in me. Many times they think it is something that they did or did not do. Often times, they internalize it.
 

coldcoffee

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There were only 2 times I recall having this problem:

The first, was during the summer and was really quite hot and I had gotten sweaty running to make it to the appointment on time. The sp was not too appreciative of this and was very hard to complete due to the heat but I managed to do it.

The second time was when there was a very different looking sp than I thought I would be getting and I just wasn't attracted to her and couldn't complete. However managed to complete via a hj thinking about someone else the entire time.
 

Amuse0ne

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In this game there is much emphasis on finishing guys are all about their orgasm is it really just the business of finishing? Personally I like to book with our lovely SP's for a least 90-120 minutes for a GFE date and I 'm willing to do without and save up my money for the privilege. In the end if I finish or not doesn't matter so much but the overall experience I had is what really matters. When I reflect on these dates it's not the orgasm that I think of it's everything else that happened, the connection, the intimacy, the open mouth kissing, the laughing together...
 
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