How many ladies in your lifetime?

[Wakeup]

Hundreds , really like Costa Rica, been 18 - 19 trips and have many paid Gf there . It's a great spot, this year may be a bust though.

 

[westwoody]

Curious as why you chose to ‘settle down’ to the same two after such an early adventurous streak?

The prime motivator for many guys, me included, is the thrill of the chase.
Seeking out the hidden gem, the novelty of "the new girl in town", always wanting something better.

After a time you have done all you ever want to. You see an ad and think, yeah she's hot but I've seen better.
Add to that the ladies of today rarely match the epic standards of yore, think 90s porn stars.
Providers now are far more businesslike and mechanical than in the past.

Nothing beats the comfort level dealing with someone who knows exactly what the other wants. How far they'll go.
Someone you have known long enough to trust in your home. Someone you can actually socialise with and have real conversation with.
You will never get that from a random LL ad.

 

[grizzly]

The prime motivator for many guys, me included, is the thrill of the chase.
Seeking out the hidden gem, the novelty of "the new girl in town", always wanting something better.

After a time you have done all you ever want to. You see an ad and think, yeah she's hot but I've seen better.
Add to that the ladies of today rarely match the epic standards of yore, think 90s porn stars.
Providers now are far more businesslike and mechanical than in the past.

Nothing beats the comfort level dealing with someone who knows exactly what the other wants. How far they'll go.
Someone you have known long enough to trust in your home. Someone you can actually socialise with and have real conversation with.
You will never get that from a random LL ad.

I can attest to this, having partaking in this industry since the mid 80's, I have seen hundreds of ladies, but only a few still stand out in my mind. Ironically, the ones who I still remember from years ago aren't etched in my mind because of their performance in bed, but because of how personable they were. It took me a lot of years to realize that I wasn't looking for the next porn star. A real connection meant so much more.

 

[Theguyfromvictoria]

The prime motivator for many guys, me included, is the thrill of the chase.
Seeking out the hidden gem, the novelty of "the new girl in town", always wanting something better.

After a time you have done all you ever want to. You see an ad and think, yeah she's hot but I've seen better.
Add to that the ladies of today rarely match the epic standards of yore, think 90s porn stars.
Providers now are far more businesslike and mechanical than in the past.

Nothing beats the comfort level dealing with someone who knows exactly what the other wants. How far they'll go.
Someone you have known long enough to trust in your home. Someone you can actually socialise with and have real conversation with.
You will never get that from a random LL ad.

Well said. Thanks for the that.
Totally makes sense.

 

[TenderLover]

Perfect number.... it's a shame it probably won't stay at this number

I totally agree with you..
Perfect number but I want to continue on and looking for number 70.
Currently I have been repeating with 3SPs but always looking & hoping for
a that perfect experience.

 

[maniacalone]

This question gets posted quite often.
For the last few years it’s just been the same two. Before that I lost count around 600-700.

All different? You don't count the same sp twice do you?

 

[80watts]

A Lady by definition does not do the things an escort/hooker/prostitute does. Calling her a lady is a misnomer.... A nicer way of saying she's a sex worker. Its an illusion, meant to lull you along.... but any john dick and harry knows that......
Some sex workers I met, were very nice and good people....
Its all about how you see and judge the world... for what names you use.
I find the slutty ones are the most fun......???

 

[westwoody]

All different? You don't count the same sp twice do you?

Of course all different. I did not count same twice.

For many years saw a regular and a random on weekends. Adds up over a long time at 30-40/year.

 

[Mr. J]

Not a staggering number. About a dozen different women in my lifetime so far, and that number can only go up.

 

[D12]

All in my number is roughly 200

 

[Antonm8]

lol

 

[Metaxa]

Wilt Chamberlain is the record holder with 20,000. In his own mind at least.

 

[johnnydepth]

Wilt Chamberlain is the record holder with 20,000. In his own mind at least.

Hmm... That's more than one per day throughout his life.

 

[jgg]

Since 1989, too many to count. Like westwoody, just one or two. One that we travel together.

 

[lenny]

These past few months many if not most of us have had a lot of spare time. I have had some time to myself to reflect on my time on this planet. I still have not found the "Meaning of life" But I did have time to actually compile a list of all the ladies I have had the good fortune to have sex with. This includes GFs, wives, escorts, SWs, swingers, friends and casual acquaintances... Total 59 to date and working on seeing #60 sometime soon.

Do BJs, smooching & cuddling count?

How about katoeys, dolls & relatives

 

[dickdoes]

Probably 100. Of that five LTR’s. maybe 20% good encounters. Takes ten to find a good one.

 

[islander1-1]

Do BJs, smooching & cuddling count?

How about katoeys, dolls & relatives

IMHO BJs count, Smooching-no, Cuddling-no Katoeys (shemales) - Maybe, dolls-no, relatives--WTF??

 

[take8easy]

Outside of marriage almost exactly 107 working girls. (Yes, I keep a date-wise journal).

Around six amateurs, girl friends, extra marital affairs etc.

 

[lenny]

IMHO BJs count, Smooching-no, Cuddling-no Katoeys (shemales) - Maybe, dolls-no, relatives--WTF??

In that case i'd say somewhere between 50 and 200.

In Vancouver dozens.
In Thailand dozens.
In Singapore dozens.

Including at least 2 ladyboys.
Excluding many kiss only "dates" in Canada.

Post #4058.
Joined 2004.

 

[Metaxa]

Hmm... That's more than one per day throughout his life.

Yep. That claim has always been treated with scepticism