My first girlfriend who was then 23 reported having had 8 partners before me. Which at the time I thought was a lot. I have since caught up.
There are some stats available for older women (though maybe younger women are more promiscuous these days):Man, have times changed! I think I lost my virginity when I was 20, and I felt as if I was the last of my friends to do so. I would be VERY surprised if the average 22 year old in the olden days would have had eight partners. But what do I know?
I came across an interesting article today.....
very well said, awesome!
Im guessing 50 is without being a service provider? If so, then my perception of how many partners girls my age have is fucked.
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do you know of many male virgins around your age?
From the stupid shit you post I would think your perception of 99% of daily life is fucked.
there's quite a few older male virgins out there. they just lie about it.
Maybe Rare but not unique and the reason never to ask anyone how many. A few years ago a 28 y/o woman who i had done a favour for invited me (aged much older than her) to her housewarming. I arrived and found to my surprise that I was the only person invited. Before the evening was over we had sex. (at her invitation) Next week I invited her to diner and she said yes - I arrived at her place to pick her up - she said come up and once inside she said not interested in diner she just wanted sex. [she was not a sp and no money involved at any time ] Ideal situation was developing except for some stupid reason I asked her how many guys she had slept with before me. Her answer - she stopped counting at age of 21 when the number reached 65. --- but the answer so disturbed me I never saw her again, but I have never asked that question again.
When I was a teen, I observed how easily guys could pick up girls, have sex with them, drop them and move on to the next one, so I figured I'd do the same. Between age 17 - 23 I kept a list, and had seduced over 100 guys (casual sex, not work) when I quit counting. Made a choice to remain celibate for 12 long years between divorces, then started working as a SP at age 45.
How's that for unique? lol
Most girls only have the shields up when approached by complete losers like you. Women have a sixth sense for creepy, arrogant, pathetic etc. etc. etc.
When I was a teen, I observed how easily guys could pick up girls, have sex with them, drop them and move on to the next one, so I figured I'd do the same. Between age 17 - 23 I kept a list, and had seduced over 100 guys (casual sex, not work) when I quit counting. Made a choice to remain celibate for 12 long years between divorces, then started working as a SP at age 45.
How's that for unique? lol
I think what she is trying to say BHB, is that Ms. Sarah witnessed how men did not get all into "the emotional" part of the relationship, but more the "pleasure" of it. Where as when a woman "gives her body/virginity to a man" she feels an "emotional" connection. Make sense?
Great strategy. Ask gay guys how hard it is to find someone willing to have sex - any kind of sex - pretty much whenever you want. Like I said, unless you plan to or want to have sex with men or with goats, I would suggest you reconsider your attitude, stop looking down on girls for doing what you're complaining they won't and re-think your beliefs about women with sexual experience! Because you're just shooting yourself in the foot. I said nothing about the importance to the guy, legitimate or not. I only stated what I thought the answer a typical 20's something female would give when asked that kind of question.
BAhaha!! Me too! I had an ex, after two weeks of dating, demand to know what my number was. I could see him freaking out when he started towards the, "more than 40?!", so I told him I lost count at that point (I had, but it was much higher). He made a big stink about how he thought he'd be with someone without such a big number, and he had kept himself "pure" (his number was 20. Apparently, there is a magic number) out of respect for the woman he thought he'd be settling down with.
Just to point out here, because I have dealt with the whole "giving it up to anyone" BS firsthand: There is no point in my sexual past (and I only started in the business in January) where I felt like I was duped into "giving it up". I like sex. It's fun, and it's supposed to be fun. I've always been fascinated with it. Why is it only considered having something valuable to "give up" if it's a woman, but if it's a man, he's just horny? That's total bullshit.
Obviously insecure boys will be insecure and any guy who thinks his insecurities should determine whether or not they pursue anything with a young woman they otherwise would see as compatible is doing said young woman a big favor by saving her months or possibly years of having to put up with all of his insecurities as if they were truly her problem. Because a guy who can't even see his insecurities for what they are and instead of working on overcoming them, expects others to treat them as important 'standards' or expectations they're expected to want to meet in order to get his approval. Im sorry but it is NOT in ANY way 'kind of like wanting to know if he ever hit his past girlfriend'. It's sex not physical abuse!!! And if a friend told me he or she thought someone who had been married, had gone through bankruptcy or any other legal activities people engage in every single day was not suitable because of it, then I would tell them the same exact thing as I did for the OP's question. I mean, how freaking shallow and judgemental can you get? People like that deserve to be alone or to find equally shallow, judgemental, square, unimaginative, conformist and painfully boring from lack of experiences or mistakes learned the hard way... Careful what you wish for sometimes...
