How many guys has your gf had sex with before you?

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I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here and try and read between the lines. It's possible that what you're saying is: getting the answer to that question helps you determine if the young lady is promiscuous or not, based on an approximate number you've come up with. So if her number is low, and she is presently choosing you, then it may say something positive about you. If her number is high, that tells you that maybe you're not that special, i.e.. maybe she sleeps with lots of guys and you're just another one.

In a rather immature way, you are asking yourself if the two of you have compatible sexual values. It's not really about the number, but rather the values behind the activity.

Either that or it's part of a rather neanderthal belief that "getting" a virgin (or almost virgin) is a feather in your cap (i.e. more rewarding)...

Not sure why you had to read between the lines, my point was pretty clear to begin with. I'm not saying its more rewarding to be with a girl that has a low number, it means you aren't with a girl who is willing to give it out to anyone. Also tells you the amount of experience you should expect from a girl. It would be weird if the girl has been with 15 guys and i've been with 0, it obviously wouldnt last.
 
Not sure why you had to read between the lines, my point was pretty clear to begin with. I'm not saying its more rewarding to be with a girl that has a low number, it means you aren't with a girl who is willing to give it out to anyone. Also tells you the amount of experience you should expect from a girl. It would be weird if the girl has been with 15 guys and i've been with 0, it obviously wouldnt last.

So just to clear the air here, because I think we are all dying to know. How many ladies have you been with BHB????

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Feenix

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My partner, with whom I have been for ten years, hinted early in our relationship that she had been pretty promiscuous. I did not ask her how many that meant because I felt it was none of my business.

If she asked me I would probably lie, and not count my paid partners.

And, as several have asked, what difference does it make how many cocks she has sucked and fucked as long as you enjoy her sucking and fucking yours?

How many men freely admit to their lover how many he has slept with? My bet... not many.
 

JustJason

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I like talking about sex with my gf's. I don't need a specific number, but instead enjoy the openness and conversation about it. And I don't even pretend to understand "slut shaming", if anything I would see it as more "rewarding" to know your partner has been around the block a few times, knows exactly what they like/dislike, and have applied all those experiences when they choose to be with you. Hell at 22 yrs old, if she hasn't gone out and got laid a bunch how can she be ready to settle with anyone yet anyways?
 

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or wife if you are married

curious to know what the average number is. What do you guys think the average for a 22 year old girl is? (non-escort)
Not sure why you had to read between the lines, my point was pretty clear to begin with. I'm not saying its more rewarding to be with a girl that has a low number, it means you aren't with a girl who is willing to give it out to anyone. Also tells you the amount of experience you should expect from a girl. It would be weird if the girl has been with 15 guys and i've been with 0, it obviously wouldnt last.
Actually, no, I'm going to have to say that it wasn't pretty clear at all. That's why people have been asking why you'd want to know...and commenting on why they'd want to know or not... :confused:

However, as we go along in this thread, yes, you are beginning to make your point somewhat more clear.
 

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If sex is a priority in the relationship, sexual history is going to come up sooner or later.

I made the mistake of marrying someone who didn't like sex. I thought he was shy or had a lot of self control, because we decided to wait until our wedding night to have sex. Imagine my dismay when wedding night was 'wham, bam, thank you maam', and it went downhill from there. He didn't like sex and it wasn't a priority to him, whereas it was one of the top 3 reasons I wanted to get married again! We never talked about it until it was much too late. :(
I think the history is less important than talking about sex itself. The only thing history really tells you is how much experience your partner has and even then that info is extremely unreliable. Talking about how much sex you want/like, how you like it and what turns you on are far more important topics overall and are more likely to get you useful information that can be used to figure out if you're sexually compatible.
 

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Personally, I stopped counting a long time ago. it's easier that way. :)

Your turn.:)
I stopped counting once I started seeing escorts. I know there have been approximately 77 lay females (pun intended) prior to my paying to play. There have been somewhere slightly north of the 200 mark paid companions.

Okay, Vanessa! Your turn! :fear:
 

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Average for a 22 year old girl? Probably around 8?

or wife if you are married

curious to know what the average number is. What do you guys think the average for a 22 year old girl is? (non-escort)
 

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Toby figures there are some kind of stats out there with this information. There isn't.
Children lie!

I helped coach boys hockey one year with a buddy. When you listen to the shit these 12 year olds talk about, everyone of them claims to have had sex with a dozen girls.
Even the pimply losers that you know never talked to a girl.

Any girl that for some reason dates Toby will see how insecure and jealous he is in general. If he asks something like this.......................she will try to make up whatever answer she thinks will keep him calm.
Maybe if she is really smart, she will purposely give horrible blowjobs to prove "she's still learning"
 

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There is no substitution for experience. I'll take a girl with history over a few experiences any day. There is just something that gets me going for a girl who loves to go to pound town... just saying lol.
 
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Personally, I stopped counting a long time ago. it's easier that way. :)



0 if you dont count escorts

Average for a 22 year old girl? Probably around 8?
holy shit someone please tell me this isnt true lol

Toby figures there are some kind of stats out there with this information. There isn't.
Children lie!

I helped coach boys hockey one year with a buddy. When you listen to the shit these 12 year olds talk about, everyone of them claims to have had sex with a dozen girls.
Even the pimply losers that you know never talked to a girl.

Any girl that for some reason dates Toby will see how insecure and jealous he is in general. If he asks something like this.......................she will try to make up whatever answer she thinks will keep him calm.
Maybe if she is really smart, she will purposely give horrible blowjobs to prove "she's still learning"
well there's stats for average age people lose their virginity (15/16) so i was hoping there would something similar. Or people would at least share their experiences instead of flaming me
 
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