How long do you wait?

[MixedDude]

I'm going to pose a question to the Perbiverse:

You're in a specific area of town and get the urge. You know there's a provider close by because you have communicated but never booked.

You reach out and get a response that she's available anytime and ask if you can come down at that moment.

You reach the location and message that you are there, cash in hand.

Silence for the next 16 minutes.

How long do you wait?

This is a well reviewed but travelling provider.

 

[burntcard]

I'm going to pose a question to the Perbiverse:

You're in a specific area of town and get the urge. You know there's a provider close by because you have communicated but never booked.

You reach out and get a response that she's available anytime and ask if you can come down at that moment.

You reach the location and message that you are there, cash in hand.

Silence for the next 16 minutes.

How long do you wait?

This is a well reviewed but travelling provider.

Hmmm…. If you and the sp agreed on a specific time. Then I’d give them 10min max (15min if it’s a repeat sp), otherwise move on.

By the sounds of it, you message and expect the sp to be able to welcome you immediately. That might spook the sp.

I would have just said that I could be in their area in 20-30min.
It’s courteous & the sp has time to get ready.

 

[MixedDude]

Hmmm…. If you and the sp agreed on a specific time. Then I’d give them 10min max (15min if it’s a repeat sp), otherwise move on.

By the sounds of it, you message and expect the sp to be able to welcome you immediately. That might spook the sp.

I would have just said that I could be in their area in 20-30min.
It’s courteous & the sp has time to get ready.

Definitely didn't expect to be welcomed immediately. Was told to message when I had arrived and I had prepositioned her that I was in the area (we had prior communications before).

Now I am at home lol. I gave it until about 6:55 after messaging that I was there at 6:25 but got nothing back in terms of communication.

 

[happymoments]

Definitely didn't expect to be welcomed immediately. Was told to message when I had arrived and I had prepositioned her that I was in the area (we had prior communications before).

Now I am at home lol. I gave it until about 6:55 after messaging that I was there at 6:25 but got nothing back in terms of communication.

hmmm weird.. i guess i'm much more relaxed on time and would've given approx 30 mins bcuz things happen in life but i'm more chill about things. Especially if you're there early or too early and it doesnt work out for them. But I also have a contingency plan in case things dont work out...

I always feel like pre booking helps with their schedule, and rushing them or last min never puts them at ease but again probably just didnt work out so RIP. Feels like wasted time, but then again, that's what life and money is for anyways, wasting (or investing) away .

 

[burntcard]

Definitely didn't expect to be welcomed immediately. Was told to message when I had arrived and I had prepositioned her that I was in the area (we had prior communications before).

Now I am at home lol. I gave it until about 6:55 after messaging that I was there at 6:25 but got nothing back in terms of communication.

Huh… that is weird.
I guess something came up.

well, I hope next time works out better

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Have had this happen many times over the years.
If its a regular I cut them slack. Text something along the lines of I guess we had a misunderstanding and next time blah blah.
ALWAYS there is a sincere apology coming back even if its in 'english as second language'.
If its a new to me SP, 15 min if no reply. If the reply is "wait a bit more honey" another 10-15, then if the same again, fuck em.
But its your call in the end, well reviewed or not, you're the one standing out in the street.

 

[MixedDude]

Resolved. Gonna try to reschedule for the weekend. All's well that ends well.

 

[westwoody]

If its a new to me SP, 15 min if no reply. If the reply is "wait a bit more honey" another 10-15, then if the same again, fuck em.

Same, 15 for someone new.
If they tell me to wait a second time I leave.

Time management is an issue for all kinds of people. We have employees who are 1 or 2 minutes late every day for example.

 

[cruefan]

If there is proper communication once I get to the incall I would wait 20 minutes past my appointment time.

If there is no communication after the start time of the appointment 15 minutes tops.

 

[angry anderson]

If you get bumped it is because she decided to take another customer and she is fucking someone else on your time slot. No other reason.

 

[westwoody]

If you get bumped it is because she decided to take another customer and she is fucking someone else on your time slot. No other reason.

Harsh but true- one sp actually bragged about doing this on perb.

 

[lukom]

It depends on how long I booked for and if I have much time. I like to book SP's in Central areas where there are other SP's nearby if the one I booked with flakes out.

 

[cruefan]

If you get bumped it is because she decided to take another customer and she is fucking someone else on your time slot. No other reason.

This is 100% true and it often happens with providers that overbook clients and have zero to no respect for them or their time.

 

[cruefan]

It depends on how long I booked for and if I have much time. I like to book SP's in Central areas where there are other SP's nearby if the one I booked with flakes out.

A back up plan is always smart.

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

How long do you wait?

If you're expecting instant service, it would behoove you to wait as long as it takes.... She's probably servicing another guy as you're sitting in your car waiting. After that, she needs to shower, and clean herself out real good, then re-apply the make-up and do some kegels before her next client. Do you really want her to skip her 'in-between, self-care' time so you can jump in now now now?

If you planned this hours/days/weeks in advance, and she still not ready on the schedule time, that's a different story. Give her 5-10mins, and re-text. If no reply, then walk....

 

[islander1-1]

I am a very patient man.... I sit in my car and say to myself... "All good things come to those that wait." The only really bad one I remember is one evening while staying over in Victoria I text one of my faves... Yes Sure.... Give me 1/2 an hour. I tell her I am taking public transit so the ETA is not predictable. I get on the bus and head for her place. I arrive in about 1/2 hr. Ring the buzzer..... "Your too early" I wander down the street look though a few antique shops, text her asking her to text me when she is ready... Radio silence. It's late November, It starts to rain, the shops close I huddle in a bus stop shelter. 2 hrs have gone by I finally give up and kiss this lady goodbye... Not gonna see her again. What beats me she has always been the most reliable and well respected escorts in Victoria.
I suppose this happens to most of us once or twice. When it does it often makes me wonder is it me or is it her or is it just a missunderstanding.