How long do you last?

How long do you last in average?

  • Under 1 minute

  • 1-3 minutes

  • 3-6 minutes

  • 6-15 minutes

  • 15-20 minutes

  • over 20 minutes


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WandErection

Cunning Linguist
Jul 11, 2006
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I recently learned that men, on average, report lasting 5.4 minutes having sex until they cum.

I was a little surprised, as I always thought about it as something you can more or less control. Curious as to where this group sits...
 
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Big_Guy_Rye

Pragmatic Pariah
May 7, 2018
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Everywhere in BC
To make it more complete and better aligned with the booking time, you should include 30, 45, 60 and 60+ mins options as well.
Also for clarity, how long do you last on average, should say for straight/continuous banging.
Paying for MSOG should be a factor too.

The excitement of visiting a provider tends to have someone shoot too early.

I usually pay for the hour, and ask for MSOG extra if it's not a part of the main rate. I mean, sure you can whack off before seeing a provider, but seems kind of redundant, right?

Spend the first minutes having her work out that first shot, get the nerves out of the way, follow it up with a few minutes of pillow-talk, then go for the main event until the clock runs out. So 5-10 minutes on the first shot, then 30-50 minutes shooting out the second.

That said, even 15-30 minutes sessions, serve their purpose for one-pump chumps too...
 
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80watts

Banned
May 20, 2004
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Victoria
Well in the Harry Potter movies the Elder Wand lasted 8 moves (movies)...

With or without viagra (spells of little blue pills) ...
 

Larry's Torch

Banned
Apr 26, 2020
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I deal with DE (delayed ejaculation) so I'm in the 20 min + category. In relationships it can be pretty interesting, especially if your partner isn't used to it. Generally I've found that most women enjoy it for a bit, but then begin to think that they don't excite me enough in order for me to cum. This usually leads to some very frank conversations in order to explain WTF is going on. The majority of women have never heard of DE.
To be clear; I'm not "pounding away" for hours, I've learned a long time ago that's only viable in porn. Not too many women like continuous sex (however, in my last serious relationship she was). I'd say it's not exactly a blessing, but not a curse either.
In this industry/hobby I have always told the ladies about it and not to worry if i don't cum. I'm still enjoying myself. (y):love:
 

Once you go black

The artist formerly known as White Ninja
Nov 28, 2019
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According to studies ,
the average length of time for a sexual experience in long term couples , ( like husbands and wives )
Including foreplay and intercourse , beginning to end ,
Is 10 - 15 minutes .
 
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Tsubame

Active member
Jul 22, 2025
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I am unfortunately a natural Johnny-Cum-Early

I gave myself 6-15 as my hopefully most honest answer. I am all over the place though. When I had my first girlfriend, I lasted way longer on my first time than on my second. Maybe 20 minutes, then 1 minute or so.

These days I tend to pre-game, by gooning, and sometimes a little alcohol. The AMP girls seem to be masters of me finishing just before the 30 minute booking ends. Bless their souls.
 

GeeBeeP

On a secret journey through PleasureTown.
Dec 28, 2019
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I’m still lucky to go more than once. Depending on the girl and the situation my first is pretty quick, but I recover fast too, and subsequent shots are likely in the 15 min range.
 

bitchcuntypussy

Active member
Aug 9, 2005
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Average for me is probably 15-20 minutes. But sometimes the girl does some crazy move and I finish instantly. Then there's the opposite where the woman is bored or uninterested and banging her basically becomes a choir and it takes forever to finish.
 

phool

Well-known member
Sep 10, 2025
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I'm a one-and-done shooter so I've practiced holding out and it's literally the best. In a 2-hour booking, I'll fight off 10-12 70% orgasms before I cum hard at the end and it's way more fulfilling to me than busting and waiting on my body to recoup for a second go. Allows me to stay in the pocket with provider when they're enjoying it too, resulting in some great sex and a litany of orgasms (while I'm battling my own internally).
 

Mr. J

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Sep 12, 2019
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Varies for me. Some days I can go for a good long while, but other days I'm like a boy that found his dad's stash of Playboy magazines (fast finish).
 
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