again youre wrong
btw im googling korean woman right now and im trying to be open minded.
its not happenin
How important are facial features to you? Does it make or break the deal for you?
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btw im googling korean woman right now and im trying to be open minded.
its not happenin
Dude, I did point out "to me", it doesn't take a scholar to read my post to figure out thats what I was saying...I was unhappy. Did I post a negative review about her ..... NO, did I mention the SP's name ... NO.
Settle down!
It took me a while but I have found someone I don't like ..... Even Methodman and Sperminator have more cred than you!
OH!, and Angie, I have never seen your face, but I read your posts, and I think you are a hottie...
Here is how one guy described the SP I was crazy about for a long long time. I copied and pasted it below.
The young woman that finally walks in is tallish, but otherwise an unspectacular girl-next-door type, broad-faced and somewhat doughy-looking, with narrow horizontal eye slits, almost non-existent boobs and baby fat around her tummy. Slutty make-up and stockings might work a minor miracle here in terms of sex appeal
But to me she was a little bit heaven and girl next door with the sexiness of a sly fox. Perfection. I will never really trust a members point scale for looks on this site unless it with my own eyes.
The young woman that finally walks in is tallish, but otherwise an unspectacular girl-next-door type, broad-faced and somewhat doughy-looking, with narrow horizontal eye slits, almost non-existent boobs and baby fat around her tummy. Slutty make-up and stockings might work a minor miracle here in terms of sex appeal
But to me she was a little bit heaven and girl next door with the sexiness of a sly fox. Perfection. I will never really trust a members point scale for looks on this site unless it with my own eyes.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I wish I didn't have to blur my face for work, but I have no desire to be famous that way. I think I'm amazing looking, but I know there may be people who may not like me, but so what, lol. The funny thing about looks is they are so subjective. I can meet someone who I may think is really plain looking, and as I get to know them, they grow, and become adorable. It can happen the other way too. You meet someone and think she is amazing looking, but 2 sentences into the conversation, and you're yawning. Then you notice that she really is not as cute as you thought.
Al, are you even reading what I'm writing?
- I never said anything about my opinion on "(you) won't pay to have sex with someone I find unattractive". Nothing.
- I never said anything about "mystery meat", Pickton or any of that stuff.
- My "reaction" doesn't have anything to do with you or anyone not finding an sp or me unattractive. I didn't even comment on that and I'm not sure how you got the impression I did.
But since you're attributing words I never said and opinions I never voiced that are not mine to begin with, this is what I think of a situation where you or another member does not find the sp attractive and decides to leave - Hopefully that will clear it up so we can move on to what I did comment on:
- I fully understand that men take a gamble, especially when the sp's face is left to the imagination. I don't see anything wrong with declining to go through with the appointment if a gentleman feels like he's not attracted to the sp and she is simply not what he was expecting or had imagined.
- What my "reaction" was:
* It was in response to your automatic assumptions that somehow if that happens (and the client is not attracted to a face he had imagined differently), the sp has been deceitful.
* It was in response to the fact that you had extrapolated all kinds of intentions and wrong doing out of the scenario - which did not make sense or seem fair/accurate/realistic to me.
* My "reaction" was to point out that maybe you were getting a little carried away and reading far more into something very simple.
- I really do not call it an "attack" to be asked some questions about your comments and reasoning. That's called discussion. An "attack" would have been very different than questioning the conclusions you had come to, which to me, seemed a little extreme and appeared not to be based on anything other than your imagination. If I'm wrong, then answering my questions will tell me why I'm wrong and/or perhaps make me realize I had misunderstood... or whatever else.
- Finally, my last comment referred to mainstream society's view of prostitutes (in general), nothing to do with murders or the other gory stuff. I was referring to your comment insinuating that an sp you would find unattractive would also, in your opinion, be likely to be diseased because she's somehow more vulnerable (desperate?) and likely to be pressured into having provided bbfs.
This view (of the "diseased" prostitute, because she's so desperate that she will do anything - and so is looked down upon...) is exactly the same kind of view held by society. The only difference is that you've applied an exception: you have excluded those sp's who, in your opinion, are attractive - And those are the only sp's to whom this kind of view does not apply to (those you consider to be attractive)...?
Isn't that what you said?
Am I getting it wrong or misunderstanding?
And another thing Bijou is my beautiful, sexy Bijou. To compare her to another girl is just silly, does not make any kind of sense and is kind of weird. Do you drink Al? Cause sometimes you don't make sense 
I love Asian women but I do understand the comment about Korean women, some of them can have very wide and flat faces, its kind of a turn off. Its just a facial structure you see occur more often in Korean women then any other women.
i met that asian chick from EBC at a gathering
you talked so highly of her
i was like really?
to each his own
but i guess your opinion matters more
wow That's a great response, Al.
You've managed to avoid explaining yourself or answering any of my question...how? By attacking with juvenile "you're ugly" "you're a bitch" insults!... Not once, but twice . Do you feel better now?
Once again, no, my post wasn't an attack. That was an explanation of my previous comments which appeared to have been misunderstood. I suggest you refer to your own posts for an example of an attack.
Since you make a point to let me know... I truly do not care if you don't want to see me, Al... Especially after witnessing your behavior and what you resort to when you can't find any arguments to back up your comment. (Even if I doubt this thread has anything to do with your decision to see me or not, and that this is a decision that was made long before today... but you're only too happy to use it in an effort to shut me up.) How honorable.
You have nothing but petty insults to give because you're unable to address or back up you're own judgmental views? Awesome, now that's character, Al. But hey, at least this has been very insightful. Good night to you.
And if that does not work for you, turn out the lights or pick up some extra brown paper bags the next time you go shopping.
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I have not mentioned and will not mention who the SP was who promted this post, so please do not PM me asking...
I need to say this though, as I think she knows that I am talking about her
I had an image in my head and she did not fit that image and when she didn't, I didn't know what to think, I had built up an image and she was not that ,but she was not in the wrong.
I need to say this though, as I think she knows that I am talking about her
I had an image in my head and she did not fit that image and when she didn't, I didn't know what to think, I had built up an image and she was not that ,but she was not in the wrong.
Paying a woman to have sex with you is pretty superficial. Based on that, the physical appearance is all that matters.
A deeper human experience is not going to happen if she doesn't want to have anything to do with you if you're not paying her.
Nina, just wanted to point out that I love reading your responses. You come off as a very classy and confident woman! xo
You can't really base it on the paid factor, since you would not have even met each other with out the advertising for paid services. Chances are a really good looking woman is attached (married or otherwise) and the fact she is an sp is an opportunity for other guys to legitimately lust after her, and have success. Otherwise, all they get to do is watch from afar. Seems like a win win.
But I agree with nina that there are a lot of reasons why someone sees sps and their looks are only one of those reasons. If looks are the only reason, then you have a lot to learn about sexuality. When you learn to use your entire body, beyond the eyeballs, then you are getting true value for $$.
