Any tips or tricks? I workout and am in alright shape for the most part but I almost always bust a nut after within 2 minutes penetration. Wish I could just hold out to 5-6 minutes.
How do you guys last longer?
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I'm sorry to hear that. So do you go for msog, or does that not work for you?
There were some thoughts along this line in another thread a while back. Here's something I wrote in response: https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/how-do-some-guys-do-multiple-shots.301801/page-2#post-2210153
Of course there is another alternative, but it's not necessarily great: get old. 🤣
Good luck!
You're gonna get lots of tips here from jerking off before your session to thinking about Roseanne Barr in a bikini to help you hold off.
The fact is some guys just have a hair trigger. It is often because you are excited/overstimulated from the start. Very common in young guys with over the top libido's.
It's not a big deal. The same thing used to happen to me in my youth. But then the 2nd and even 3rd round were much more prolonged. My solution was to stick to the ladies that offer MSOG. That way if you bust a nut within a minute or 2, there is always another SOG where you'll last a lot longer.
Truth be told, most women don't enjoy the guys who will pound on them for 20 - 30 minutes. Many women don't orgasm from intercourse and would rather have a man who can pleasure them orally and then fuck them for a few minutes til he comes.
Don't stress over it. Enjoy the sex.
Cheers
J
I resemble that remark!Of course there is another alternative, but it's not necessarily great: get old. 🤣
Good luck!
Maybe that's a solution. I guess I have to admit I am old(ish) but can still stay in the saddle most of the time.
I think the only solution is don't worry about the first pop and follow what JB posted above, do MSOG.
Position may help? For me, if a woman is riding me I can go until she gives. Rarely do I finish up that way. (I've had 2 favorite ladies need to take a break that way).Same with from behind. Go and go and go. But on top of her? 2 to 5 minutes so that is the "end of the road for me".
The best part of the trip is the journey, not the destination. I found I enjoy foreplay and edging much more than just going to pound town. The finish is also more intense. But yes, as stated above, this comes with age, which I prefer to call experience. It also helps to be with a lady who appreciates being appreciated and will return the favor. I too was a three pump chump in my younger years. It took a wonderful patient lady to show me the error of my ways.
If I try to just pound away (regardless of position) it's going to be 2-3 minutes tops before I'm tapping out. There's a time and place for this kind of sex and it can be incredibly hot if it's one of those sessions where the chemistry is super high and you're just all over each other.
For better stamina I found that slow and steady seems to work much better for me and typically allows more time for her to provides some additional stimulation to help us both reach the summit. In both my regular sex life and in seeing SP's I have found that using this method has been far more successful and enjoyable for all parties involved.
I've also found that there are very few ladies out there that will object to stopping if you find yourself getting overstimulated, especially if you are more than happy to continue taking care of them by other means while you give junior a quick break.
For better stamina I found that slow and steady seems to work much better for me and typically allows more time for her to provides some additional stimulation to help us both reach the summit. In both my regular sex life and in seeing SP's I have found that using this method has been far more successful and enjoyable for all parties involved.
I've also found that there are very few ladies out there that will object to stopping if you find yourself getting overstimulated, especially if you are more than happy to continue taking care of them by other means while you give junior a quick break.
Lol. I don’t think you can trust any random strangers here to give you any medical advice.
I can send you a pic of my ex. One look at that, and you'll last til labour day.
Restaurant analogy springs to mind. While the main course is great the starters are soooo mouth-wateringly good and can bring you to the edge time and time again.
How do I last longer..... It happens as you get older. At my age I am glad there is still light at the end of the tunnel.
Learn edging.
Ask to slow down a bit, recover, repeat.
When you're peeing, try and stop your flow. Hold it, pee, hold it, pee...
With an erection, practice making your penis bounce on it's own.
Those control techniques can also help your stamina as now you have a bit of control what's going on down there.
Ask to slow down a bit, recover, repeat.
When you're peeing, try and stop your flow. Hold it, pee, hold it, pee...
With an erection, practice making your penis bounce on it's own.
Those control techniques can also help your stamina as now you have a bit of control what's going on down there.
I have the opposite problem and don't have any advice. I'd give my right nut to be able to pop within the hour. Definitely msog is the way to go and just enjoy your time "dining at the "Y" until you are ready to go again.
Think of it this way it's your duty to keep going and satisfy the lady after you have satisfied yourself. There is no greater pleasure. I always found cowgirl the best for being able to hold it but everybody's different so that might not work for you. Also if you are conditioned to stop right after it could be from pleasuring yourself too often so refrain from that 2-3 days before an appointment.
I'm nearly 50 and I still don't last long in penetration. It doesn't bother me much, though, as my wife prefers shorter penetration sessions (after spending longer periods of time with other forms of play).Of course there is another alternative, but it's not necessarily great: get old. 🤣
