I find it interesting that people wait decades to say something.
why wait decades, and a lot of these people were young, so the question has to be asked, parents, where were they did they talk to them, did they know there young adult was in
a risky situation,
in a way I get it, my father a rapist, in jail dysfunctional family, it took decades for me to some how come to grips with it, and talk.
but other then this message board where everyone is anonymous, maybe two other people I have told, and my sp.
just very very close trust worth people or some one I would never see again.
its a very personal thing,
so I wonder, it is just a case of jumping on the band wagon. supporting other people, and yourself. coming out, in a way it is,
but to me these things are extremely personally
and some are just stupid, like ben Affleck grabs your boob and you don't stop right then and there and go what the fuck are you doing.
someone resigned because they touched someone's knee thirty years ago.
some one you says molested you etc sexually harnessed you but you continue to have a relationship with them, and then decades latter, you question and come out
what he did to you.
so was it really sexual assault, or just fucking annoying shit, you put up with to save your career.
I remember one actress like forever ago, saying she would fuck any producer or director to land a job, and she kind of hinted
everyone was doing it, but most producers were gay so it didn't do her any good.
so im wondering is,, the standard somehow different now, the moral code is somehow is different then it was decades ago.
one lady in our work place the rumor is she fucked her way to the top.
not sure if its true or not, but sex has always been used as a bargaining tool. those willing to use it and those that don't
im wondering is the game changing, our moral standards changing
were out to get entitled celebrities;;
its funny,
annoying shit you have to put up with to save your job or get a job,
so how is that different then my sp, putting up with me,
something happens to you but you somehow deal with it, then ten years latter you, go oh ya this producer touched me, but if I said anything
I would be black listed,
so ten years from now is my sp, going to come out and say you know this fucking jerk I put up with for a dozen years years.
