thanks everyone for the opinions and information. If were to ever be in the unlikely spot of buying a lady something provocative again, I think I would say, instead of $500 on Honey Birdette, how about we hit Victoria Secret, spend 200 and I will give you the 300 remaining. I am willing to bet there's not a single lady who doesn't take the less expensive undies and the cash.
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Most of what you see on line is a smoke show. It is uncomfortable & not worth it. It’s only put on to be about a 10 minute outfit. Then take it off.
Men don’t actually care either about any brand names. As long as you look nice & perform well, that’s literally all that matters. Men don’t care about their own clothes either. Expensive attire gets thrown on the ground all the time.
Yes and no. I certainly don’t care about 90% of what I wear. It’s utility. However, my suits and few high end shirts I enjoy wearing-I take extremely good care of. And I’m quite particular on purchase paying very close attention to stitching quality-with a close eye on buttons.
As to lingerie-man I’m a sucker for stockings, garters, no panties and gorgeous bra sets. It is true I have never, will never notice the quality of such garments😂. At the end of the day, as per a previous reply to the OP-this is all very personal and how it makes the wearer feel.
Whoa there Ms Lady L. Some of us (ahem) gents do care about what we wear, who made it, and no, it does not end up on the ground.
Years back in one of my LTR's that turned into a medium TR but that is another story, I was introduced to the garment/fashion industry. She pointed out to me how the vast majority of men present themselves in public, and it does not take much of a drive, walk, whatever around the Vancouver area streets to see how the brotherhood is dressed. She went through my closet like a hot knife through butter but the thing that stung the most was "where are your shoes" as she perused the 2 pairs of loafers, couple of runners and my cowboy boot collection .... Anyway, several grand later, my wardrobe was cleansed and refreshed and I was looking better than I had had in decades. I thank her for this mid course correction and now I at least look at the label before it is draped upon this body!!
Re how we look at our women, yeah, you got that. Look nice, perform well, fantastic. I always make a lot of allowances for wonderful mammaries but that is just me.
Uh no.you sell to the highest bid from maniacs
When dating, this is one of my
Always my favorite 1st date request...rarely turned down.
Booked with an SP and got the typical "What should I wear?" so I told her "whatever you're comfortable in"
Show up at her door and she's wearing a white t-shirt -- no bra -- and red bikini panties.
I nearly came in my pants.
That, ladies, is fucking sexy. And while I appreciate the effort to find, purchase, and wear 'sexy' lingerie, sometimes just mixing it up and wearing a t-shirt, or a man's button down shirt, or even a hoodie, will just make such an impression as its unexpected, and is closer to 'reality' that guys will encounter out there than we will ever encounter lingerie.
Why do you think summer dresses are so hot for us?
Finally, as your typical sausage-fingered clumsy male, I hate trying to get that fucking tiny, delicate, complicated outfit off of you when all my braincells have gone off-line and my cock has taken over fundamental decision-making tasks.
Show up at her door and she's wearing a white t-shirt -- no bra -- and red bikini panties.
I nearly came in my pants.
That, ladies, is fucking sexy. And while I appreciate the effort to find, purchase, and wear 'sexy' lingerie, sometimes just mixing it up and wearing a t-shirt, or a man's button down shirt, or even a hoodie, will just make such an impression as its unexpected, and is closer to 'reality' that guys will encounter out there than we will ever encounter lingerie.
Why do you think summer dresses are so hot for us?
Finally, as your typical sausage-fingered clumsy male, I hate trying to get that fucking tiny, delicate, complicated outfit off of you when all my braincells have gone off-line and my cock has taken over fundamental decision-making tasks.
I wear lingerie for myself mostly which is why I like high end lingerie. I need it to last more than a few wears
I wholeheartedly agree with this. I'm a simpler is better kind of guy, but that being said I have and will continue to buy lingerie for my partners if they like it. The way they feel when they wear something that they enjoy is something that is well worth the time and expense.
Definite difference between wearing something for yourself and wearing something for someone else. If she asks me what I want her to wear, the answer is something comfortable or nothing at all.
I find wearing outfits that could fit a certain scene in everyday life drives me crazier when it comes to the turn on factors. If a lady I book is completely naked right away it takes away from the mystery and fun of stripping away the clothes. Nothing like grabbing a beautiful bum in tight jeans or a skirt.
I want that feeling like I just scored with a dressed to impress beauty from a night on the town or hooking up with a hottie sporting her gym outfit for a workout in the bedroom. It could be that feeling of being with a gf where you start making out while watching a movie and it turns into bedroom passionate fun. Settings like this make it feel more connected to reality instead of this wham bam thank you mam experience.
For me that feeling of pulling down an outfit to see what lingerie she styled herself with on that day takes it to a higher level then that mechanical on off switch feeling. Its like when I ride the bus or walk the town and notice a beauty of a view. I cant help but fantasize what undergarments they are wearing.
Is it a pinked laced bra and thong set?
The mystery is what gets my turn on motors running.
My last session started with a solo washup shower. She was walking around naked before I even finished my shower. It was a turn on view for sure but I missed that feeling of going from clothes to naked in a more passionate sensual way. Its like a switch was flicked and she was naked.
My layered outfit fantasies get derailed when the lady takes the lead without any suggestions. I think I should have a go at outfit suggestions in the future with the right ladies.
Cant wait until I can set up rooms for incall fantasies. Gym, office and so on.
Please wear the right attire.
I want that feeling like I just scored with a dressed to impress beauty from a night on the town or hooking up with a hottie sporting her gym outfit for a workout in the bedroom. It could be that feeling of being with a gf where you start making out while watching a movie and it turns into bedroom passionate fun. Settings like this make it feel more connected to reality instead of this wham bam thank you mam experience.
For me that feeling of pulling down an outfit to see what lingerie she styled herself with on that day takes it to a higher level then that mechanical on off switch feeling. Its like when I ride the bus or walk the town and notice a beauty of a view. I cant help but fantasize what undergarments they are wearing.
Is it a pinked laced bra and thong set?
The mystery is what gets my turn on motors running.
My last session started with a solo washup shower. She was walking around naked before I even finished my shower. It was a turn on view for sure but I missed that feeling of going from clothes to naked in a more passionate sensual way. Its like a switch was flicked and she was naked.
My layered outfit fantasies get derailed when the lady takes the lead without any suggestions. I think I should have a go at outfit suggestions in the future with the right ladies.
Cant wait until I can set up rooms for incall fantasies. Gym, office and so on.
Please wear the right attire.
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I went by Victoria's Secret on Burrard on the way to the office. It looks like it is gone.
They've relocated to Pacific Center. Uniqlo is looking at that freed up site now.I went by Victoria's Secret on Burrard on the way to the office. It looks like it is gone.
Some lingerie is in fact A SCAM! Having to purchase the top and bottoms separately is such a 🤕 and the intricate, high end designs are $$$ and you have to be SO CAREFUL handling them. Partner throws it in the wash unknowingly and they’re no longer the same. I do find lingerie very sexy though and I love wearing it! I love seeing clients face when they walk in the door 😚 some lingerie looks so sexy I arguably like my body better with it on 🤭 my trick now is to have a few pieces that can be kept on, like a garter. They’re great to grip onto from the back 😼
I’m so glad I barely need to wear bras anymore. Pretty much free the nip unless it would be inappropriate like at my day job or any other professional settings. As for panties, sigh I would love to go commando but this WAP is always in the back of my mind 🥲
I recommend CK (as if you haven’t tried them yet) but they’re by far the most breathable panties I’ve owned. Most of my regular undies are CK. They’ve lasted me long too
