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I have had female friends, smart and accomplished women, from talented artists to one who was a handful of years from being Doogie Howser http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doogie_Howser,_M.D. who subscribe to the idea of "playing dumb"

The got-my-Ph.D-as-a-baby friend wouldn't even tell men she had a job, while another would lie about who did the remarkable paintings on her walls (it was her). It's like reverse-lying on your resume. :confused:

If a man is less attracted to you because of what makes you unique, interesting, and remarkable, it's not a man you want to attract.

However, I can understand their pain. As a misguided and sadly socially-confused youth, I joined the debate team because I thought it would make me more popular. With the average peer, holy shit did it ever have the opposite effect, but at least now they found me intimidating (I don't care if you like me as long as you're not trying to hit me), and the tournaments got me away from my incessantly nagging sisters. Plus you get to meet your own kind...the little splinters off the herd mentality that I prefer the company of anyways. However, within a socially inept group of teen nerds there isn't a lot of sexual activity (in my experience). I wanted to get laid, badly, since 14, and thought I saw an opportunity at the awards ceremony with some really cute guy who came with a friend and was kind of following me around.

He even sat beside me, which was awesome. Then came the awards and all was lost. He heard my name announced as one of the people who was up for team & speaker awards and he sat upright and stopped being so chatty. By the time 2nd place was announced, he was gone. Vanished. So I won a #1 base metal disc on a poly ribbon and a plastic trophy that have since been lost, but gave up the opportunity to spend sexy-time with a cute jerk.


Honestly for the best.
 

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With regard to that "really cute guy who came with a friend", he was probably only fourteen himself and not nearly as sophisticated as you, probably completely untutored re sexual activity and, as a result, lacked the confidence to further the relationship with you in any concrete way.
 

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I have had female friends, smart and accomplished women, from talented artists to one who was a handful of years from being Doogie Howser http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doogie_Howser,_M.D. who subscribe to the idea of "playing dumb"

The got-my-Ph.D-as-a-baby friend wouldn't even tell men she had a job, while another would lie about who did the remarkable paintings on her walls (it was her). It's like reverse-lying on your resume. :confused:

If a man is less attracted to you because of what makes you unique, interesting, and remarkable, it's not a man you want to attract.

However, I can understand their pain. As a misguided and sadly socially-confused youth, I joined the debate team because I thought it would make me more popular. With the average peer, holy shit did it ever have the opposite effect, but at least now they found me intimidating (I don't care if you like me as long as you're not trying to hit me), and the tournaments got me away from my incessantly nagging sisters. Plus you get to meet your own kind...the little splinters off the herd mentality that I prefer the company of anyways. However, within a socially inept group of teen nerds there isn't a lot of sexual activity (in my experience). I wanted to get laid, badly, since 14, and thought I saw an opportunity at the awards ceremony with some really cute guy who came with a friend and was kind of following me around.

He even sat beside me, which was awesome. Then came the awards and all was lost. He heard my name announced as one of the people who was up for team & speaker awards and he sat upright and stopped being so chatty. By the time 2nd place was announced, he was gone. Vanished. So I won a #1 base metal disc on a poly ribbon and a plastic trophy that have since been lost, but gave up the opportunity to spend sexy-time with a cute jerk.


Honestly for the best.
There is no substitute for intelligence. That's the real connection for me. You may have lost a male bimbo but as you said that's a good thing.
 

CLUB78

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This can't be all to your story tell me more !

Talented people keep their cards close their chest mainly because they can't stand the attention and may believe people won't understand so why bother .

Some people just have different personalities: mine is INTP like these people, apparently, although how do the deceased fill out questionnaires? http://www.celebritytypes.com/intp.php
 
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CLUB78

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With regard to that "really cute guy who came with a friend", he was probably only fourteen himself and not nearly as sophisticated as you, probably completely untutored re sexual activity and, as a result, lacked the confidence to further the relationship with you in any concrete way.

No, it was totally because I won 1st place in the tournament. I could see him becoming more uncomfortable as they were reading off the names. Of course, maybe he just didn't want to be seen with some one carrying around a 2 foot freaking trophy.

I think I still had Barbies at 14...super sophisticated as I was : D
 

CLUB78

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There is no substitute for intelligence. That's the real connection for me. You may have lost a male bimbo but as you said that's a good thing.
He seemed a nice enough guy and was polite to everyone. Now I feel bad for him...what the hell.

I have no problem with less intelligent people, as long as they are well-mannered. Smart and well-mannered is ideal of course.
 

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Agreed!!! If I find smart sexy, why wouldn't everyone else? For me personally, I'm proud of being more than just a cute busty blonde... I love my education and my life experiences and gave no issues flaunting them...

He seemed a nice enough guy and was polite to everyone. Now I feel bad for him...what the hell.

I have no problem with less intelligent people, as long as they are well-mannered. Smart and well-mannered is ideal of course.
 
He seemed a nice enough guy and was polite to everyone. Now I feel bad for him...what the hell.

I have no problem with less intelligent people, as long as they are well-mannered. Smart and well-mannered is ideal of course.
Yes and yes ! Just wanted to say welcome Elenaroxanne I wish you all the best here on perb ( and everywhere else too!)
 
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