Hello everyone, my wife is a SP

[Sphubby]

SpHubby

I hope all goes well for you here on Perb and think you can offer an interesting perspective on her work, your relationship and all those interesting dinner time discussions.

I've seen a few SP's over the years who acknowledged they have an SO. Some were like you that had a SO who was able to live and understand her work while not being intrusive. Others showed some character traits that did not have a positive effect upon her and her work.

I'm looking forward to hearing your insights.

I can give my perspective on her work if anyone is interested in hearing it. On the most part we keep our personal lives and her work separate, I am not the SO that interferes with her work and client SP relationships. She is a big girl who I trust completely to do the right thing. You won't find me lurking anywhere around a corner

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Well to start I also partake in the hobby occasionally but unfortunately won't be able to make any reviews on the women I see. My SO is also a SP so everyone would thinking I am shrill so i won't even go there. Maybe when the day comes I admit who it is I will be able to catch up on a few reviews.

I'm here because I occasionally see questions and threads concerning SP's and if they have a SO and what he thinks. I think I can give some comments when the opportunity presents itself to answer questions from my point of view, you might be surprised.

So to wrap it up, I'm not going to shrill, I will answer any questions you might have, I won't knock anyone for anything and to all the great guys that have come and seem my wife and written such nice reviews here, I am glad you enjoyed yourself, treat them all with kindness and respect, there is a good chance they are someone's SO, wife, mother, daughter or friend that deserves it, they try there best to make you feel comfortable, relaxed and spent every time you go and see them.

Keep up the good work and leave a little for me at night :clap2:

Ps. To the Mods, haven't seen anyone else do a profile like this so if it's out of line feel free to ban if you think its a bad idea, not trying to cause any problems.

Well hi Mr SP

Having successfully sussed out your secret identity, I'll say this! I've not met your wife yet, but we keep talking about it!

Maybe perhaps possibly you she and me could all ...get acquainted some time! :eyebrows:

 

[Sphubby]

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Lmfao. I wouldn't want to guess how many of you could say that to me

 

[morementum]

Sphubby is legit. Move on, nothing to see here. Not sure at full motivation for now joining but can simply say I am convinced by knowing who his wife is that he is legit.

Don't pm, don't dig with me. If you don't trust my word, I don't give a shit.

 

[1nitestan]

I'm waiting for the "Hello everyone, my mom/daughter is a SP" thread..

 

[girth-brooks]

I'm waiting for the "Hello everyone, my mom/daughter is a SP" thread..

Be careful what you wish for...

 

[Fullhouse]

Sphubby is legit. Move on, nothing to see here. Not sure at full motivation for now joining but can simply say I am convinced by knowing who his wife is that he is legit.
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So, are you the guy with the monster dick that gave her 3 orgasms in a row ???..

 

[sybian]

I've been quietly following this thread and was ready to call B.S,.....It seems I was wrong...Your a better man than me, and I am curious about your insights.

 

[summerbreeze]

re this thread

Any discussion or commentary which increases the membership of viewing SPs as people, humans with feelings, emotions, problems, livelihoods which contribute to personal well-being of their clients I would welcome heartily.

All to often I get the impression that a portion of the reviewers view SPs first a products before they view them as people.

Increasing the humanity factor here is much appreciated.

 

[Sphubby]

Well I have been keeping quiet the last 12 hrs or so trying to decide if I should close this thread and call it a mistake and move on to more productive endeavers but the last few posts have made me think possibly this topic could be of some use. Thanks summerbreeze for your words of encouragement and I am glad I was able to change sybian's mind. Also thanks to the SP's and others that spoke up.

My only goal like I have previously stated is to maybe provide some insight for the pooners that partake in the hobby to possibly make your dollar go farther and have a better relationship with your SP. I was thinking about starting a thread "ymmv, when and why does it come into play" Just some small pointers. Also like summerbreeze pointed out a personal spin on the SP's you spend time with.

Just some thoughts.

 

[badbadboy]

Well I have been keeping quiet the last 12 hrs or so trying to decide if I should close this thread and call it a mistake and move on to more productive endeavers but the last few posts have made me think possibly this topic could be of some use. Thanks summerbreeze for your words of encouragement and I am glad I was able to change sybian's mind. Also thanks to the SP's and others that spoke up.

My only goal like I have previously stated is to maybe provide some insight for the pooners that partake in the hobby to possibly make your dollar go farther and have a better relationship with your SP. I was thinking about starting a thread "ymmv, when and why does it come into play" Just some small pointers. Also like summerbreeze pointed out a personal spin on the SP's you spend time with.

Just some thoughts.

Like I already stated, I would be interested in hearing your views on the subject.

I don't know if you have read these threads but they may give you an idea about the discussions Perb has had re dating an SP

http://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?188691-*-*-would-you-date-an-sp-*-*&p=1430353&viewfull=1#post1430353

http://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?210051-A-question-for-the-gents&p=1577499&viewfull=1#post1577499

 

[Five-Guns-West]

You know what's a total turn off? Finding out the SP you're seeing has a husband or boyfriend. That's when I stop seeing her. Not that I'm ever in it for romance, but the notion that she has a significant other means that somewhere in her being, her heart is not on the job the way it needs to be.

 

[ddcanz]

You know what's a total turn off? Finding out the SP you're seeing has a husband or boyfriend. That's when I stop seeing her. Not that I'm ever in it for romance, but the notion that she has a significant other means that somewhere in her being, her heart is not on the job the way it needs to be.

wow! that's a very broad statement- I guess in your mind then all SPs should just be robots?
And I guess you have NEVER been in a relationship when you've seen an SP?
And an SP's "heart" needs to be completely into her job for her to perform? Like yours right now as you type this from your place of employment?
Just saying......

 

[badbadboy]

You know what's a total turn off? Finding out the SP you're seeing has a husband or boyfriend. That's when I stop seeing her. Not that I'm ever in it for romance, but the notion that she has a significant other means that somewhere in her being, her heart is not on the job the way it needs to be.

Not a Dating Site.

To think that SP's should not have other men in their lives that are not clients but BF's or SO's is pretty selfish thinking.

"her heart is not on the job they way it needs to be"

 

[Five-Guns-West]

Not a Dating Site.

To think that SP's should not have other men in their lives that are not clients but BF's or SO's is pretty selfish thinking.

"her heart is not on the job they way it needs to be"

Why should I be generous? I'm paying for a sexual service, and what I expect for my money is that her mind and heart are not somewhere else while I am there.

 

[escapefromstress]

You know what's a total turn off? Finding out the SP you're seeing has a husband or boyfriend. That's when I stop seeing her. Not that I'm ever in it for romance, but the notion that she has a significant other means that somewhere in her being, her heart is not on the job the way it needs to be.

That's a perfectly valid opinion imo, just as some SP's have a personal preference not to see clients who have SO's. You know what you're attracted to and why, and that's ok.

 

[clu]

You know what's a total turn off? Finding out the SP you're seeing has a husband or boyfriend. That's when I stop seeing her. Not that I'm ever in it for romance, but the notion that she has a significant other means that somewhere in her being, her heart is not on the job the way it needs to be.

Who says her heart isn't into it? It's sex and temporary companionship, not love. You may as well say a school teacher's heart can't be into helping your kids if he or she has their own children at home. In fact isn't the opposite true? Being a parent might help the teacher understand your own child's needs a little better.

 

[shyboy123]

You know what's a total turn off? Finding out the SP you're seeing has a husband or boyfriend. That's when I stop seeing her. Not that I'm ever in it for romance, but the notion that she has a significant other means that somewhere in her being, her heart is not on the job the way it needs to be.

I was totally pissed this one time when I hired a professional chef to come to my home for a dinner party and during the course of the evening he let slip he had done the very same thing the night before AND was booked for another party the following day!

 

[Five-Guns-West]

Who says her heart isn't into it? It's sex not love. You may as well say a school teacher's heart can't be into helping your kids if he or she has their own children at home. In fact isn't the opposite true? Being a parent might help the teacher understand your own child's needs a little better.

I'm sure there are exceptions out there. However the females I've known are emotionally devoted to their S.O.'s and that tethers them in intimate experiences with others even if that experience is basically physical. I find most women are different from men in that regard - it may sound chauvinistic, but I believe that for most women, the heart rules and sex is consequentially affected.