Just got off the phone with a very upset SP. Seems like some gentlemen here feel it is ok to share private and personal information through the PM system & via emails. I will have you know it is not acceptable in any way to share private & personal information with each other through PRIVATE MESSAGES such as:
Where an sp works during the day, or what their "vanilla" job or personal business is
If they have children
What their address is
Who their personal friends are
What their real name is
The only information I feel would be deemed acceptable is how the sp.'s services were and if you were to repeat. That would be the extent I myself would find appropriate. Remember it is not only your lives at stake, it is the personal lives of us ladies, some have children or are working professionals in a corporate setting, if some of us choose to keep our identity private, there must be a valid reason for that as much as you all would prefer to keep your hobbies private, and that should be respected at all times! If a lady should trust you enough to share this information with you, that would be in confidence and not something to be open to discussion with anyone other than the sp in a private setting. Honour that trust and do not violate it by sharing with others on the board or through the Private Message system.
Please ladies, I welcome you to comment on this since I may have overlooked some things you may find important as well. I feel very protective of ladies when anyone chooses to violate their wishes and behave in such a manner. I will not be disclosing the identity of this lady, only that I instructed her to report those involved to the admin which she has already done, and those who she wishes to have no further contact with are instructed to not talk to her or ABOUT her in any way, if they fail to comply she can talk to a lawyer to find out what the next course of action will be.
Where an sp works during the day, or what their "vanilla" job or personal business is
If they have children
What their address is
Who their personal friends are
What their real name is
The only information I feel would be deemed acceptable is how the sp.'s services were and if you were to repeat. That would be the extent I myself would find appropriate. Remember it is not only your lives at stake, it is the personal lives of us ladies, some have children or are working professionals in a corporate setting, if some of us choose to keep our identity private, there must be a valid reason for that as much as you all would prefer to keep your hobbies private, and that should be respected at all times! If a lady should trust you enough to share this information with you, that would be in confidence and not something to be open to discussion with anyone other than the sp in a private setting. Honour that trust and do not violate it by sharing with others on the board or through the Private Message system.
Please ladies, I welcome you to comment on this since I may have overlooked some things you may find important as well. I feel very protective of ladies when anyone chooses to violate their wishes and behave in such a manner. I will not be disclosing the identity of this lady, only that I instructed her to report those involved to the admin which she has already done, and those who she wishes to have no further contact with are instructed to not talk to her or ABOUT her in any way, if they fail to comply she can talk to a lawyer to find out what the next course of action will be.