Have your ever dated an sp.

Deepstrokes

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Have you ever ran into an sp in a public place or event?

Friday night I was attending a wedding when I ran into a well known Winnipeg sp. Just before the dinner started I noticed her sitting at a table with a few older couples and thought that she mite be sitting with her parents. She was wearing a little black dress, and looked very hot. Later in the evening I noticed her again sitting by herself playing with her phone.So I made my way over and asked her if she would like to dance. She quickly put her phone in her purse, jumped up and grabbed my hand and lead me to the dance floor.

We spent the next 20-30 minutes on the dance floor until she asked if we could get a drink. As we made our way back from the bar to her table I noticed one of the older gentlemen sitting by himself. When we reached the table he asked me if he could have a moment with the young lady. I made my way back to my table and noticed a heated debate between my dance partner and the older gentlemen. The debate ended and she made her way over to my table. We chatted for the next 15-20 or minutes and decided to hit the dance floor again where we spent the next 30-40 minutes, and then picked up another drink and headed outside to cool off.

While chatting and cooling off she asked if I could give her a ride home. Feeling some chemistry I agreed and she was off to get her purse. She return in a few minutes later wearing my suit jacket and telling me I owed her big time for retrieving it for me. On the walk to my vehicle she held my hand and thanked me for a great time.

We chatted on the way home but she never mentioned work. When we pulled up in front of her residence she invited me in to listen to some music, have a drink and continue our conversation. We spent the next hour chatting, exchanged phone numbers and then I left.

Saturday she sent me a text asking if I would like to do something that nite. I replied with what about dinner, she replied with how about a movie and I will pay. Okay well that nice a women that wants to pay for my movie. After the movie she asked if we could go back to her place to so she could change her clothes. She then suggested that we grab and coffee and go for a walk. The nite end back at her place with lots of DFK, and some mutual groping.

Sunday morning I get an email asking if I would be interested in going to the zoo for the day. I returned the email saying I was off to church, would she like to come. She returns with not this time, but maybe next Sunday as I wouldn't know what to wear. Sunday afternoon we are at the zoo, not my thang but she seemed very happy. Dinner, another long walk, and we ended up back her place again. However this time within minutes of entering her place we where naked and and having some amazing sex. A couple hours later while cuddling in her bed, I noticed that she was crying and I asked what was wrong. I know this is going to come to an end, it always does. I have try to work at a regular job but I always come back to this because of the money and then my relationship ends.

I guess I have a lot to think about.
 

Jethro Bodine

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It totally depends on a few variables.
By dating do you mean an occasional movie or dinner followed by a romp in the sack?
Is there any expectation of exclusivity?
Is the hope that dating will trun into something longer term?

I ask because based on MY personal experience the answer is it usually doesn't work out.
Back in 2003 - 2004 I began a relationship with an SP who I began seeing shortly after my divorce. It started as a business arrangement like any other but within a few months she told me she was having feelings for me. I told her that while I appreciated that, I could not be in a relationship with someone who basically made her living screwing other men. I know this might sound harsh and judgemental but I'm being bluntly honest. She told me that she had been thinking for some time of leaving the profession, going back to school and getting a "regular" job. Over the period of a couple of months we had many conversations, she did retire and go back to school and we then began dating. Initially everything was great and she finished school and began her career in another profession. We, by this time were exclusive and even talked about moving in together. I even decided to introduce her to my daughter, who was 4 at the time and as any single parent will tell you is a bold move. Well, a few months down the road I began to notice certain changes in her. She at time seemed distant and secretive. Long story short, after a bit of investigation I found out she was "working" again. When I confronted her about it she admitted that she was having a hell of a time surviving on the $36,000.00 a year she was now earning compared to the +$50,000.00 tax free she was earing as an SP. Unfortunately this is a common issue for alot of SP's trying to leave the profession. Especially for single moms. Where else can they find work with a highschool education that allows them to earn upwards of $50 - 60,000 a year working 10 - 20 hours a week?
Anyway I told her I could not continue to see her because she a) lied to me and b) was still seeing other men yet expected me to be monogamous.
So, in summary, while some men may have what ever it is that allows them to be okay with dating someone who has sex with strangers for money most of us do not and unfortuantely a large number of ladies who retire, return to the profession because of the money.
Dating? Maybe.
Long tem, monogamous relationship? No
 
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WellHung

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I dated a girl who ended up working at Broadways while we were going out. (Found out the first time she asked me to give her a ride to work and she went into 610. I said nothing and did nothing but we stayed together for 2-3 more years. It only ended when she moved out of the country and we eventually faded away.
 

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I dated one that worked for an agency. We went out for about 3 years and I even asked her to marry me and she said yes but left before the wedding with my heart and wallet..lol. I am seeing one now that used to have an ad on ec and would love the chance to date her and see where it goes. We have gone to dinner a couple times and seem to hit it off. I am not sure if she is still working or not but if it gets to the point that she has feelings for me thats when we will cross that bridge.
 

givemeabreak

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Church....??? Your kidding....right?
Your on this site and undoubtedly you've been with sp(s)....and you goto church....wtf is up with that? I don't get it....
 

xmy556

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Church....??? Your kidding....right?
Your on this site and undoubtedly you've been with sp(s)....and you goto church....wtf is up with that? I don't get it....
a little judgemental perhaps?
 

Deepstrokes

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What does church have to do with seeing sp's??? All walks of live see sp's, all walks of live go to church. I am sure many of the women that work in the sex trade go to church also.
 
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Church....??? Your kidding....right?
Your on this site and undoubtedly you've been with sp(s)....and you goto church....wtf is up with that? I don't get it....
I see SP's and I regularly go to church. I volunteer for the church (maintain their website) and have even helped out as an usher, a reader, giving out communion & wine, etc. I don't see what the problem is with that. Am I bit of a hypocrite? Maybe. But if we partake in this hobby, we all end up leading a bit of a double life. I'm also married, have a couple of kids, have a great job, normal hobbies, a mortgage, etc. Just a normal guy caught up in the 21st century rat race. Would I want the other members of my church to know what I do with SP's? Of course not. But I also wouldn't be shocked if I found out that any of my friends, colleagues or church members went to SP's.
 

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Deepstrokes it is possible You've found a fallen angel in need of rescue, but you are bound to have a tumultuous time if you think there will be a fairy tale ending. You may also be getting hooked into a pretty typical scam or relationship where the girl has a bunch of guys she is stringing along this way. If you can avoid getting used, keep it casual and don't get swept up in her drama you could actually enjoy spending time with her and who knows maybe she could use a nice guy around once in awhile. Personally I have a history of ignoring the pretty obvious red flags and that's why I'm in my late 30's, single, cynical, and would rather enjoy pro girls with no strings rather than head games.
 

Deepstrokes

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I have to say ditto to Stanley Manley, with the exception that I am not married, my kids are adults, and my home and cottage are pay for. With that said I would like to thank everyone for there 2 cents. I would also like to say that the sp support on this issue was nice to hear also. Most encouraged me to give it a shot. The down side was someone asking me for her name?????
 

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I wouldn't worry about it once she reads this if it isn't imaginary I'd imagine she'll be mighty pissed off and won't want anything to do with you anyway
 

Deepstrokes

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Actually we are sitting here now rexxx reading the thread, and the private messages together. I told her last night I was going to start a new thread about dating an sp and she thought it was a great idea.

As far as the imaginary part goes, it seems more common then we thought that sp's date or have a relationships with a client.
 
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westcoast555

It totally depends on a few variables.
By dating do you mean an occasional movie or dinner followed by a romp in the sack?
Is there any expectation of exclusivity?
Is the hope that dating will trun into something longer term?

I ask because based on MY personal experience the answer is it usually doesn't work out.
Back in 2003 - 2004 I began a relationship with an SP who I began seeing shortly after my divorce. It started as a business arrangement like any other but within a few months she told me she was having feelings for me. I told her that while I appreciated that, I could not be in a relationship with someone who basically made her living screwing other men. I know this might sound harsh and judgemental but I'm being bluntly honest. She told me that she had been thinking for some time of leaving the profession, going back to school and getting a "regular" job. Over the period of a couple of months we had many conversations, she did retire and go back to school and we then began dating. Initially everything was great and she finished school and began her career in another profession. We, by this time were exclusive and even talked about moving in together. I even decided to introduce her to my daughter, who was 4 at the time and as any single parent will tell you is a bold move. Well, a few months down the road I began to notice certain changes in her. She at time seemed distant and secretive. Long story short, after a bit of investigation I found out she was "working" again. When I confronted her about it she admitted that she was having a hell of a time surviving on the $36,000.00 a year she was now earning compared to the +$50,000.00 tax free she was earing as an SP. Unfortunately this is a common issue for alot of SP's trying to leave the profession. Especially for single moms. Where else can they find work with a highschool education that allows them to earn upwards of $50 - 60,000 a year working 10 - 20 hours a week?
Anyway I told her I could not continue to see her because she a) lied to me and b) was still seeing other men yet expected me to be monogamous.
So, in summary, while some men may have what ever it is that allows them to be okay with dating someone who has sex with strangers for money most of us do not and unfortuantely a large number of ladies who retire, return to the profession because of the money.
Dating? Maybe.
Long tem, monogamous relationship? No
I casually dated a couple of Asian SPs a few years ago. Nothing very serious though. I can see the complications you are talking about.. but let's face it... things often/usually don't work out with women who aren't SP's. That's one of the reasons we're all on here right? :)
 

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It can work out... I speak from experience, but I don't want to elaborate here.

However, it seems that the odds might be stacked against you - depending what you are comfortable with.
 

Maxfield

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Been there, done that. All I can say is it is cheaper to see her professionally. Girlfriends are way more expensive.
 
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