Have your ever dated an sp.
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hahahah that is the quote of the day. You need to relax Strokes and see where it goes. She is all woman and maybe she is ready for a relationship. Just be honest with her. If you are just wanting sex, then don't be buying her diamonds and shit like that. At the very least you are both enjoying your time, and you are both adults. If you don't want a committment, then tell her dude!!
The real question is.... can you accept her profession?
Ahhh yeah... I can relate to the lady crying after sex. Usually it's me though...
I actually dated an sp in 2009. I never thought I would do such a thing but I remember we had great times and long, engaging conversations. I took her out for some fine dining at all sorts of fine Greek, Italian, Vietnamese and Japanese restaurants-- we both enjoyed each others company. At first we would meet at the place to eat but as she got to know me, she would want me to pick her up at her place and we'd take my car. We had good chemistry. I don't want to divulge her name but I will say she is a classy, down to earth and well educated young woman who no longer works as an sp. I would say this was a fun time for me that year. I look back with nothing but happy thoughts!
If nothing else you two can learn a lot from each other, whats the harm in some enjoyable moments, great sex and good laughs? Just like life, you take it one day at a time. Go with it.
This is too cute!
Been there done that a number of times over the years. It never works out. The longest I have had this kinda of relationship was 8 years. Most only last a year or so. Costly anyway you look at it. But it is only money. I know guys who spend that on a golf membership. So different stokes for different folks.
I love the senario. As a guy who has never been married I love the story line. I like the romance part of the relationship. I just hate the BS part that comes later.
I love the senario. As a guy who has never been married I love the story line. I like the romance part of the relationship. I just hate the BS part that comes later.
Not every SP is the same I have dated a few.
I would say some of my best relationships are from SP's. I guess because you get to know you are sexually compatible.
There are always issues in any relationship however some can be different because you are dating a SP. It also depends if she likes what she does. I have been with a girl that hated what she did. She was with many guys she never wanted to be with. Sometimes she would have to run to the washroom to puke because the guy smelled etc etc.
Another had many good regular clients and that became a issue of how emotionally close some of these guys wanted to be with her. She also would not discourage it because they paid a lot.
I could go on forever but really finding the right girl SP or not.
You also get to know who certain people are on Perb from the SP’s perspective.
I would say some of my best relationships are from SP's. I guess because you get to know you are sexually compatible.
There are always issues in any relationship however some can be different because you are dating a SP. It also depends if she likes what she does. I have been with a girl that hated what she did. She was with many guys she never wanted to be with. Sometimes she would have to run to the washroom to puke because the guy smelled etc etc.
Another had many good regular clients and that became a issue of how emotionally close some of these guys wanted to be with her. She also would not discourage it because they paid a lot.
I could go on forever but really finding the right girl SP or not.
You also get to know who certain people are on Perb from the SP’s perspective.
Have I ever dated a sp. Yeah . For me this is a natural extention of spending time with someone that you enjoy having sex with. Crazy itsn't it? This is apparently the reverse order that we are taught. Why should it matter though, relationships are a continum. It doesn't matter where you enter or where you leave.
I had one Sp tell me after we had met for the first time; " That night with you wasn't like a first time. It was like I was sepending time with an old lover" I prefer to think of that comment as more than a knod to my age.
I would spend more time going places with ladies except it is vital that I not be seen with an unknown lady.
There was one date last spring that I remember exceedingly well. This date was possible because I was in Toronto and the ladys was someone that I knew from Winnipeg who had moved to Toronto.
I attended a day of meeting but instead of going the arranged entertainment she picked me up at my hotel( pretty well the other side of the city from where she lived and worked) Her driver drove us down the the theater area of TO where I had booked tickets to a live theatre production. She had not been to the theatre since her days as a child when her grandfather took her. After the theatre we went out for a late supper at a somewhat funkie restaurante.
After supper we didn't go back to either of our places, instead we caught a cab to The Harbour Castle Hotel where I had booked a room on the 14th floor overlooking the harbour.
I would have prefered the date to end with leisurley morning sex and leisurely breakfast , but I had to get back to my buisness and she had to get back to her's. She and her driver took me back to my hotel and I slipped back into my responsible life.
Is that dateing a SP. I think so. You see once you have reached a certain level of connection it doesn't matter.
I would love to do this more but I will likely have to limit this to times when I am a thousand miles from home.
I had one Sp tell me after we had met for the first time; " That night with you wasn't like a first time. It was like I was sepending time with an old lover" I prefer to think of that comment as more than a knod to my age.
I would spend more time going places with ladies except it is vital that I not be seen with an unknown lady.
There was one date last spring that I remember exceedingly well. This date was possible because I was in Toronto and the ladys was someone that I knew from Winnipeg who had moved to Toronto.
I attended a day of meeting but instead of going the arranged entertainment she picked me up at my hotel( pretty well the other side of the city from where she lived and worked) Her driver drove us down the the theater area of TO where I had booked tickets to a live theatre production. She had not been to the theatre since her days as a child when her grandfather took her. After the theatre we went out for a late supper at a somewhat funkie restaurante.
After supper we didn't go back to either of our places, instead we caught a cab to The Harbour Castle Hotel where I had booked a room on the 14th floor overlooking the harbour.
I would have prefered the date to end with leisurley morning sex and leisurely breakfast , but I had to get back to my buisness and she had to get back to her's. She and her driver took me back to my hotel and I slipped back into my responsible life.
Is that dateing a SP. I think so. You see once you have reached a certain level of connection it doesn't matter.
I would love to do this more but I will likely have to limit this to times when I am a thousand miles from home.
I did, more than once. They have all ended on a positive note, and I am happy to say we are still friends.
I am single and would do it anytime the connection was there and we both enjoyed it for what it is, companionship, friendship, comfort and love. The sex which obviously came first, became secondary to just being with each other and having a blast.
G.A.
I am single and would do it anytime the connection was there and we both enjoyed it for what it is, companionship, friendship, comfort and love. The sex which obviously came first, became secondary to just being with each other and having a blast.
G.A.
