Hard or soft massage?

[Bradkp]

What’s up with getting asked if you want hard or soft massage?

Usually it’s mostly just a medium pressure massage when you ask for a strong massage unless they do back walking.

If you ask for soft massage does that usually end up with more teasing and a soft sensual massage?

 

[oldshark]

Many girls give a lame massage but once in a while, you run into someone who knows what they are doing. I prefer a hard massage initially followed by a more sensuous approach before we launch into things. And back walking is great if you can find someone who does it well. One of the reasons I like Nancy (now Treasure at AF) was her massage techniques including the back walking.

 

[PuntMeister]

Back walking with the right heel pressure and toe scrunching is a-mazing! Although I respect the balance of the free-walkers, I feel the high hand bars help with steady pressure, precision, and fluidity.

I good massage puts me on the verge of wincing, without quite wincing. Like wince-flirting. Mmmmm.

 

[80watts]

A person doing a massage should know what they are doing, because they could cause you damage, especially around joints.
Another issue is the SP strength to do a hard massage.. Using body weight helps. Rolling massagers and vibrating massagers can be used too.
Good steady pressure works, but someone that can use their fingers to press into the muscles, that can be awesome...

 

[gianni lotus]

No pain no gain. I like hard. Don't understand a soft massage. May as well be tickling me.

Jennifer at SMART gave me a very hard massage almost entirely with her feet. She walked on my back but also applied pressure with her feet all over. I asked for hard and she delivered the hardest massage I ever recieved. It wasn't cruel or unskillful at all but a very hard massage that made the happy ending even happier.