Handjob Only
- Thread starter Tsubame
- Start date
My first ever experience with an SP was for "just" an hj following a massage. Admittedly, the SP was naked, but I was young and inexperienced, so even if she was fully clothed, it still would have been very exciting and erotic for me.
Now as a much older adult and my SP experiences evolving to include FS, I still very much enjoy massages that include "just" an hj. Massages never get boring - there's always a muscle or two that need tension relief, and the endorphins released by having hands rubbed over most of my naked body makes a skilled massage always worthwhile. Even if the hj is a quick add-on at the end, is that not still better than the same massage without hj?
The trick is finding the right balance between a nice massage, skilled hj and/or other services, and price (and convenience, for that matter). Finding someone who is very good at massage _and_ offers sexual services has been challenging for me. I've found I have to spend more to get those services, yet the massages have not been as good. I'm confident that if I spend enough money (and often, travel further), I can find someone who excels in both, but I can only afford that as an occasional special treat.
So I gravitate to the SPs that offer excellent massages with "just" hj. I'm lucky to have found one who is also excellent at hj - she builds up gradually by slowly working up my inner thighs (while I'm face down), getting closer and closer to my balls, then lightly touches my balls and massages around them, then rubs them while reaching further up beyond them. Then she rubs my abdomen and gradually reaches further and further under, until she is stroking my penis. It is mind-blowing. She keeps her clothes on, but her rate is such that I can afford to visit her once a month.
So in a long answer to your question, yes, it still turns my crank 😄
Now as a much older adult and my SP experiences evolving to include FS, I still very much enjoy massages that include "just" an hj. Massages never get boring - there's always a muscle or two that need tension relief, and the endorphins released by having hands rubbed over most of my naked body makes a skilled massage always worthwhile. Even if the hj is a quick add-on at the end, is that not still better than the same massage without hj?
The trick is finding the right balance between a nice massage, skilled hj and/or other services, and price (and convenience, for that matter). Finding someone who is very good at massage _and_ offers sexual services has been challenging for me. I've found I have to spend more to get those services, yet the massages have not been as good. I'm confident that if I spend enough money (and often, travel further), I can find someone who excels in both, but I can only afford that as an occasional special treat.
So I gravitate to the SPs that offer excellent massages with "just" hj. I'm lucky to have found one who is also excellent at hj - she builds up gradually by slowly working up my inner thighs (while I'm face down), getting closer and closer to my balls, then lightly touches my balls and massages around them, then rubs them while reaching further up beyond them. Then she rubs my abdomen and gradually reaches further and further under, until she is stroking my penis. It is mind-blowing. She keeps her clothes on, but her rate is such that I can afford to visit her once a month.
So in a long answer to your question, yes, it still turns my crank 😄
A slightly different perspective than Beyond Infinity; I like me a sexy HJ, but I’m not a massage guy. I do enjoy kissing so the HJ/DFK combo is the winning one for me. So usually I’ll pay for the FS at a spa (agency, or indie) as it is almost impossible to find someone at a HS place who will kiss and end with a long HJ. I’ll indulge in a BJ or FS for a little, but the main event is mutual touching and scintillating conversation.
If you want an hour long HJ where you will be edged within a inch of popping multiple times before the release, try either Ms Beatrice or Ms Hunter; both are experts at this and it is thrilling to say the least.
If you want an hour long HJ where you will be edged within a inch of popping multiple times before the release, try either Ms Beatrice or Ms Hunter; both are experts at this and it is thrilling to say the least.
Depends on the quality of the massage. If it’s 5mins of bad massage and a poor HJ fully clothed then it’s a waste of time. But back in Ireland I knew this incredible Italian, she would do it naked and when she was tossing you off her lovely arse would be in your face and she was just overall a nice girl. Good massage too. If I could see her again I would in a heartbeat even though she doesn’t off BBBj and fs
