Going to swingers clubs: I've never been but I'm curious about it

[johnA27]

Something else you could try is hiring a SP to go with you to a club. You'll probably get accepted in more easily as a couple than a single guy, and have someone experienced to play with while you're there.

It doesn't seem to make much sense as the SP would have to pretend to be your SO or at least FWB. Also likely, some of the guys, or even gals there would have seen the SP for her services and be able to see through the jig right away. Unless you're comfortable saying that I am coming here with an escort, which might not work anyways, this doesn't seem to work.

 

[escapefromstress]

It doesn't seem to make much sense as the SP would have to pretend to be your SO or at least FWB. Also likely, some of the guys, or even gals there would have seen the SP for her services and be able to see through the jig right away. Unless you're comfortable saying that I am coming here with an escort, which might not work anyways, this doesn't seem to work.

This happens quite frequently and I've seen many reviews by guys in the Toronto area who have done this. But if it doesn't fit your comfort level, that's ok.

 

[sdw]

Something else you could try is hiring a SP to go with you to a club. You'll probably get accepted in more easily as a couple than a single guy, and have someone experienced to play with while you're there.

I don't feel that hiring an SP to get you into the Swing Club would be a very efficient use of money. The SP isn't doing it for free, so multi-hour, multi-partner fee. The other ladies at the Swinger Club, may not be as attractive as the SP - may not even want to be with you. So, you could be blue balled while the other Swinger Guys had a great time. Better to just book the SP and have sex. You could even pretend that she's one of the women at a Swing Club.