Well on the other side of the trust issue. Having stated that I used email and in some cases had the account so as to make direct payments into her account or cc.. The other side of this trust issue was the occasional communication asking for an advance on our next date. Only one gal ever stiffed me on that but eventually she made it up. I generally do not do this unless the gal is reliable. So having established electronic payments IT was easy to provide an advance ahead of time
