girls what would you do if clients did not pay you?

[newatit]

I have to say my participation in this subject is going to drop from three or four to just maybe one who operates pretty hidden. no more advertised dates or parlours etc. which I wasn't much into anyway. I think this thing has gotten excessively one sided toward victims and perpetrators and the other side of consenting adults and private deals is being lost. It well take some court battles and challenges to establish the difference.

So should we be demanding that our Saturday night date pays for her own dinner in case we end up in bed afterwards. That way a guy can't be stuck with giving away a consideration?

Being in a marriage is protection? So maybe before visiting a date we should get a marriage licence but don't marry to avoid problems? What Bout common law marriages. They aren't recognized for a specific period initially so are you in danger of breaking this law until the legal period is passed. And how long do you hVe to live with her. And what about affairs? Do they provide protection? How often would you have to date a gal to claim it is an affair?
I can see the courts could have a heyday with this one. I think we can still play but the ground rules and atmosphere of the encounter must change.

 

[Lo-ki]

Could an outcall be considered a short term common law relationship if she brings a toothbrush?

It null's it if I bring mine....

 

[johnlowe]

Really? Good to know Badgy

Ohhh is that a shot

 

[badbadboy]

Ohhh is that a shot

Yup, get your popcorn :nod:

eace:

 

[Fullhouse]

Could an outcall be considered a short term common law relationship if she brings a toothbrush?

No, but I would ----if she brought a vacuum, some dust rags and laundry detergent.

 

[johnsmit]

So it is common for girl that have long time client to accept the payment at end..
I did it with a few girls. Through the yrs.

 

[newton man]

Hahahaha, right on BBB an JL, nothing gets past you two

Do tell :nod:

 

[Elle Diablo]

Had a funny situation yesterday with a "No payment" sort of scenario with a well reviewed lady in red yesterday.
The session was over and there was just a little chit-chat and me gathering everything that I was to take with me. I reach in my wallet and pull out some money to leave as a tip. She has a confused look as I head out the door.
"Hey that's not enough money."
"Who says that?" i think to myself especially since I brought flowers and a treat.
"The full fee is..." she says in an in an increasingly alarmed voice.
Ahh-ha moment for me!
"Your money is in the bag with the treat" I assure her as she checks and a look of relief cums over her face.
I guess she didn't here me express that when I first arrived.

I've had a client put the loot on top of the fridge - without me seeing. I had seen him several times before, so I didn't think too, too much of an exchange until he was readying himself to leave. The strangest thing is, HE gave ME a strange look for asking ... if he had told me or I had seen him put it up on the fridge - no foul, but the way it was done is kinda like playing Eye-spy.

 

[Slapshot1]

No trick hidden donation, always in an unsealed envelope and I'll set it down in plain sight immediately after the initial hello and hug. I'll go silent until she is looking and make sure she sees it. It's the KISS principle.

 

[badbadboy]

Ya i've missed you too...

Haha, it has been a while, we should catch up

Ah that's sweet <3

:eyebrows:

 

[newatit]

In answer to the payment time question I understand that up front is the normal way. First time visits are often stressful and you wonder if you're getting what you paid for and don't have a holdback. All that. I don't like cash and don't carry much. So if I got to a place and I negotiated more time there was only one way to pay and that was email transfer. This method also worked if you were acting spontaneously and had no money in hand. But I commonly used email in an established relationship. most gals liked it. I paid sometimes while still with them or within hours. Saved them a bank trip and made for easy payment of their bills electronically. I am totally trustworthy in this respect and never let a gal down.

But had some interesting moments when a bank delay or Internet failure caused the appearance of a rip off. Patience paid off and all was well

 

[Slapshot1]

In answer to the payment time question I understand that up front is the normal way. First time visits are often stressful and you wonder if you're getting what you paid for and don't have a holdback. All that. I don't like cash and don't carry much. So if I got to a place and I negotiated more time there was only one way to pay and that was email transfer. This method also worked if you were acting spontaneously and had no money in hand. But I commonly used email in an established relationship. most gals liked it. I paid sometimes while still with them or within hours. Saved them a bank trip and made for easy payment of their bills electronically. I am totally trustworthy in this respect and never let a gal down.

But had some interesting moments when a bank delay or Internet failure caused the appearance of a rip off. Patience paid off and all was well

Post c-36, using e-transfer may not be the best option as there is a trail that leads directly to her bank account. I don't like to dwell on whether or not I'm getting full value while I am there. If the money issue is in the back of your mind during an encounter, it really could be a distraction that could prevent you from being yourself and having a good time. I drop it and forget all about it. So much that the last time, I even forgot to leave a tip. Yikes! I even had it with me but in a state of numbness, I completely forgot. Oh well, double tip next time

 

[Fullhouse]

Oh really, newatit --- email transfers. --- I've never tried it. I like the old 'cash in hand' method ---- from my hand to her hands in an unsealed envelope BEFORE the session,
which eliminates ALL concerns in her mind about payment, and allows her to concentrate at the tasks at hand.

Email transfers - talk about traceability - don't have to be a Sherlock Homes to follow that trail.

How about a SO. asking you: "Honey, I see a couple of email transfers from our account to a EroticAngel@cum.ca. What was that for ????

Or try and explain that to a cute Asian gal with limited English skills. By the time she finally understands, it may be "Ooops, time is up".

I can't even imagine this email working with a 'first time SP'. -------- "You didn't bring any money???? --- did you think you were just going window shopping, ---
You want me to f*ck you now, and you'll send me money later????? ... Yah, right, How about you pay me now, and I f*ck you later???"

 

[Lo-ki]

"You want me to f*ck you now, and you'll send me money later????? ... Yah, right, How about you pay me now, and I f*ck you later???"

LOL ound:ound:ound:

 

[newatit]

you guys have not developed any trust, and yes, I did not say this was for every body or everytime. I was simply commenting that some, some that is, of the SP's I had dealt with for a few years, were happy with it. After all, not all events are planned, and not everyone can do a bank and a date in a short period. So it worked. sorry you guys ain't there yet. Pretty soon Apple will let you pay on line too, lol.

Yes post Bill C-36 this would be a admission of guilt, ain't happening anymore. I also found out that if you delete the SP from your bank Payee records, all those records of payment are still there but without her Payee ID on it. So doing that too.

Yes, back to the stone age. You guys have it.

 

[Slapshot1]

you guys have not developed any trust, and yes, I did not say this was for every body or everytime. I was simply commenting that some, some that is, of the SP's I had dealt with for a few years, were happy with it. After all, not all events are planned, and not everyone can do a bank and a date in a short period. So it worked. sorry you guys ain't there yet. Pretty soon Apple will let you pay on line too, lol.

Yes post Bill C-36 this would be a admission of guilt, ain't happening anymore. I also found out that if you delete the SP from your bank Payee records, all those records of payment are still there but without her Payee ID on it. So doing that too.

Yes, back to the stone age. You guys have it.

I'll agree on the trust issue, but I just look at it his from the angle of eliminating risk. When a person is out in the boonies and may get the opportunity to see a reputable SP assuming both schedules work, is often a months apart type situation. Trust takes time and by reading a lot of horror stories of SPs getting shafted financially, I can appreciate the fact that their level of trust of a client is low.

 

[Fullhouse]

Trust - oh yah

All the micros, the MPs and most individual ladies that share incalls with another lady, live by this motto:

In God we trust, all others pay cash.

I'm working my way up to 'God' status real quick - a couple of the ladies refer to me as God, - like in : "Oh God, don't stop now", .. or: "My God, you're so good" ---
and a few other admirable comments. Once I'm able to partake again in about 4 weeks, .. after a couple of more sessions, I will not have to pay cash anymore .. 'cause I think: "In God they trust"........:thumb:.

 

[Lo-ki]

FH

Good luck in your GOd pursuit of happiness without cash and getting laid :cheer2::cheer2::cheer2:

 

[Slapshot1]

Ohhh you mean Gordy status. Like ol Gordie Howe, Gordie Lightfoot or Gordie Tupper

You actually take them seriously. LMAO

The academy award for best female acting in a sex scene goes to...... the envelope please?

Play nice, don't we all have that illusion that we are the greatest?

 

[Fullhouse]

You actually take them seriously. LMAO

You actually took me serious ????? ROTFALMFAO