Gifts

[GeeBeeP]

A question for the ladies of Perb, gentlemen jump in if you have some ideas.

A favourite SP has arranged a duo for me, and has been very kind and accommodating in making everything work. I'd like to give her a gift as a thank you, in addition to the envelopes for each lady of course. I'm always happy to pay whatever an SP's rate is, and perhaps add a bit as a tip, but I usually don't bring gifts to an SP. This is a bit different and I'm thinking a gif is in order and will be appreciated.

Ladies, other than cash what gifts do you actually appreciate getting from a client?

Lingerie seems self serving on my part, and gift cards are a bit impersonal (Although I'm not opposed to it) I'm usually a practical guy who likes to give people useful things like books but I'm not sure I know the girl well enough to make a thoughtful choice.

Any advice would be helpful from the ladies point of view, or guys have you given gifts to an SP that were appreciated?

Thanks Perbites.

 

[westwoody]

Agree with you on lingerie. Get something for her as a person, not something sex work related.
Has she told you her favourite wine? Her fave restaurant or store?
Gym shoes or workout clothes if she does Crossfit, a golf club she wants if she golfs.
A gift card for her favourite store is always good. She can buy exactly what she wants that way.
Shopping together (if possible) is best.

 

[sensualsixty]

A question for the ladies of Perb, gentlemen jump in if you have some ideas.

A favourite SP has arranged a duo for me, and has been very kind and accommodating in making everything work. I'd like to give her a gift as a thank you, in addition to the envelopes for each lady of course. I'm always happy to pay whatever an SP's rate is, and perhaps add a bit as a tip, but I usually don't bring gifts to an SP. This is a bit different and I'm thinking a gif is in order and will be appreciated.

Ladies, other than cash what gifts do you actually appreciate getting from a client?

Lingerie seems self serving on my part, and gift cards are a bit impersonal (Although I'm not opposed to it) I'm usually a practical guy who likes to give people useful things like books but I'm not sure I know the girl well enough to make a thoughtful choice.

Any advice would be helpful from the ladies point of view, or guys have you given gifts to an SP that were appreciated?

Thanks Perbites.

Step number one is to check the lady's website, if she has one. I have noted that a large number of the websites have gift suggestions.

 

[blakealridge]

Yes ask her if she has a wish list, or if there is anything in particular lingerie wise she’s been coveting.

 

[grusse]

There was a recent thread about this...think it was called do you tip ?

Might give you some more info?

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Yes ask her if she has a wish list, or if there is anything in particular lingerie wise she’s been coveting.

THIS fellow perbites. This is how it works. Something about that communication thing

 

[GeeBeeP]

Step number one is to check the lady's website, if she has one. I have noted that a large number of the websites have gift suggestions.

That was my first thought, but she has taken down her website, only seeing regulars at the moment I believe. I'm sure there was something there but I'll be damned if I can remember, it was a long time ago that I had to look at the site.

 

[GeeBeeP]

THIS fellow perbites. This is how it works. Something about that communication thing

Yes ask her if she has a wish list, or if there is anything in particular lingerie wise she’s been coveting.

I know, its the obvious thing to do, and I may end up doing that in the end. I've always been a person who likes the element of surprise in gift giving. Just buying an item from someones Christmas list feels like cheating somehow.

 

[blakealridge]

I know, its the obvious thing to do, and I may end up doing that in the end. I've always been a person who likes the element of surprise in gift giving. Just buying an item from someones Christmas list feels like cheating somehow.

Trust me, getting something we don’t want isn’t fun for us and that’s what ends up happening.

 

[PoorGuy]

All ladies regardless of vocation like a scented bath experience. Get them a gift card from The Body Shop or Lush

 

[blakealridge]

All ladies regardless of vocation like a scented bath experience. Get them a gift card from The Body Shop or Lush

That’s simply not true. I can’t use scented bath products because my vagina is too sensitive and I’ll get a BV outbreak. And a lot of us have allergies or are scent sensitive.

 

[westwoody]

All ladies regardless of vocation like a scented bath experience. Get them a gift card from The Body Shop or Lush

This assumption is exactly the problem LOL

 

[luvsdaty]

Kentucky fried chicken is my go to gift.

 

[blakealridge]

Kentucky fried chicken is my go to gift.

Soooooo many of us are veggie but also you’re probably not serious or trolling

 

[luvsdaty]

Soooooo many of us are veggie but also you’re probably not serious or trolling

I'm rarely serious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

 

[Leave it to Beaver]

I have only ever gifted once and it was a Starbucks gift card for $50. I didn’t include the denomination on the card so she would have to find out once she arrived at the checkout. No idea if she liked it. I only saw her once and to this day she’s still my fave. Allie the Sexy Secretary in Parksville.

 

[Forum mod]

This thread went off the rails pretty quickly. Ask her what she wants, or give cash. No one doesn't like cash. Thread closed.