Getting out of pooning: Is it possible or am I in this for life?

[LoadShooter]

I've been doing this for about 10 years now. I would say I have engaged in about 10-25 sessions per year during that time. I have gone months without a pooning visit, as in when I'm dating someone and getting regular and enjoyable sex. But then the luls in dating come, and I have to do some pooning.

I'm not sure how open people in the community are about this hobby with their personal friends, or know of other pooners, but I'm curious whether this is a hobby that people eventually leave? Or am I and everyone in this for the long haul?

Ideally, I'd like to find that right girl for me in the long run. Hopefully the sex is good, and if I'm really lucky, she's open to things like threesomes and going to sex parties/swingers clubs. Maybe it's just some late night contemplation on my end...but I just wonder if I'll be surfing this PERB forum and the LL ads for the rest of my life.

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

Hopefully the sex is good, and if I'm really lucky, she's open to things like threesomes and going to sex parties/swingers clubs. Maybe it's just some late night contemplation on my end...but I just wonder if I'll be surfing this PERB forum and the LL ads for the rest of my life.

IMO you'll have to find someone who's as open minded as yourself to partake in that.
That could be a difficult task.In the end though, we'll be seeing you here and elsewhere for a very long time.
So don't worry! Just sit back and enjoy the best hobby in the world.

Is it addicting you ask? Hmmm, let's see what others have to say.




.....................QM'r

 

[wetnose]

Of course you can get out of pooning...you just have to find a sweet, kind gal who'll put up with your shit.

On second thought....

 

[apl16]

As soon as you run out of money!

 

[87112]

It goes further____. Wait till you discover brothels, foreign brothels. Makes the choices in Van seem so limited. I for one love hoping down to San Diego and than Zona Norte, last month Friday night at Adelita's was incredible. Took me an hour to make my choice from all the ladies.
No it does not really stop till you meet your dreamgirl imo.

 

[uncleg]

If you gotta ask...you're a lifer..:amen:

 

[take8easy]

A line from my ATF song is "You can check out anytime you like BUT ....... you can never leave. (Hotel California) Yes there are exit doors but once you are in, it is very hard to leave.

It is a form of addiction. Do you guys honestly believe that a man can stop seeing hookers once he finds some 'dream girl'? IMO may be a for few months or a few years but once the boredom sets in, kids are born, the nagging starts, wife's body starts to show signs of effects of age and motherhood, ......the itch will begin again.

For me, as much as this hobby is about sex it is also about the thrill of finding, contacting, waiting and then being with a female that YOU choose and you dont have to fold laundry to get sex from her. This hour of living out one's fantasy can not be had at home especially after a few years of marriage.

Homecooked meals might be healthy but eating out has its own charm.

 

[Caramel]

you dont have to fold laundry to get sex from her.

hahaha just the thought of that is hilarious :lol::lol::lol: I've never been that far into a relationship so its funny hearing about it from others

 

[badbadboy]

Reading some reviews, I notice a few guys with a join date > 10 years ago who will post a new review. They are basically saying they have been not very active for a long time but felt the "urge" and came back to post a review about it. :thumb:

Sometimes its good to ease off the gas pedal. Save up some more $ for the next one....

I am sure people notice returning SP's. I suppose returning Pooners qualify too.

Hiatus is the operative word.

 

[take8easy]

The Moth and the Flame, I hardly have any wings left yet I still can't resist a good singeing when I see the light!

Good old pooner put it so poetically.

 

[golferjohn]

For me, as much as this hobby is about sex it is also about the thrill of finding, contacting, waiting and then being with a female QUOTE]

This rings-true with me, as well

 

[sevenofnine]

I think it depends on you,
what would you like to do.
do you see this as a plus in your life, a benefit.

or something that is just dragging you down.

I guess your answer is there.

I think sex sexuality is good.
some one mentioned st francis.
some of the founders of Christianity have said sex is not dirty, sex acts are not dirty or wrong or bad,

what is wrong is the emotions we bring to them,

 

[87112]

A line from my ATF song is "You can check out anytime you like BUT ....... you can never leave. (Hotel California) Yes there are exit doors but once you are in, it is very hard to leave.

It is a form of addiction. Do you guys honestly believe that a man can stop seeing hookers once he finds some 'dream girl'? IMO may be a for few months or a few years but once the boredom sets in, kids are born, the nagging starts, wife's body starts to show signs of effects of age and motherhood, ......the itch will begin again.

For me, as much as this hobby is about sex it is also about the thrill of finding, contacting, waiting and then being with a female that YOU choose and you dont have to fold laundry to get sex from her. This hour of living out one's fantasy can not be had at home especially after a few years of marriage.

Homecooked meals might be healthy but eating out has its own charm.

Something to think about as you said, time and the so called " Coolidge effect" takes place. I've never dated a dreamgirl but kind of know what it feels like to meet a SP you think you would want for years than another comes along and you quickly forget that one. Heck it happened late summer. I thought about this SP daily but its gone and I think about the one from Tijuana daily now. Short little thing but with the face of a model.

 

[WandErection]

It's addictive in the sense that it is real life porn. Porn messes with your head because you're flipping from picture to picture or jumping through videos so fast, so many girls, fast stimulation.. Pooning provides that variety, that new connection, that rush of adrenaline. It was a lot more exciting when I started, but it still is great because you never know how it's going to play out. Every SP is different. That's what keeps me coming back. The longest I've taken a break for is perhaps 6 months... In 10 years.

 

[Elmore]

Eventually things lose their appeal. I haven't been to a strip club in 20 years and have zero desire to go.

With seeing escorts, I open up leolist or other ad spots and see the same ads for the same escorts that have been there for years (of course the escort is the same advertised age).
It gets old and boring.

If I wasn't interested in seeing them years ago, I wouldn't see them now. The odd new ad catches my attention but those are rare.

When I'm ready to settle down again I'm sure I'll just stop altogether. Unlike most who spend 700 bucks on a 2 hour session and describe it as money well spent, I usually leave with the opposite feeling...and that's after a good session.

 

[Man in Submission]

Maybe getting into this much later in my life, I've never felt like it is something I have to do, or can't be without. Times sure have changed now with so many young guys in their 20s and 30s involved in the hobby. The relationships were never easy along the way, but man, to be doing this for 20 or 30 years or whatever, it's really hard to fathom. Seems like some fellas never have a relationship outside of this hobby, but again I guess this is the day and age we live in with easy accessibility and variety through the Internet. Still, I think you have to be able to pick your spots. Diversify your interests. I don't think it's going to be enjoyable - or sustainable financially - long-term if you feel like you are 'trapped' so to speak.

 

[athaire]

Having dabbled for many years i think its possible to get out if that is a goal lol. For myself i tend to play when the situations and money allow. I moved to place that is not a destination for escorts so that has definitely had a huge impact on my play time. That and i generally only play when I am not in a happy relationship.

Has my journey with the lifestyle impacted my relationships? I think so but not in the negative way one would think. For me i feel it has given me a confidence and ease around attractive women that i may not have acquired had i not spent so many quality times with so many beautiful ladies. I thank each and every one for fond memories.

 

[johnsmit]

Long time no here from you athaire
It the old maxx50.

 

[girth-brooks]

Why leave? Best decision I have ever made.

 

[athaire]

Lol sure has been old friend