When you find a 10/10 provider do you gate keep and save her for yourself or do you put the word out and let others know about her?
Just curious
Just curious
Gatekeeping
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I usually share if the woman has not been reviewed, but sometimes I don't bother if she has plenty of reviews or if it's someone from out of town who is leaving shortly because there isn't much point.
There are probably a lot of guys who don't review to save girls for themselves, but they'll never admit it in this thread because it goes against the spirit of this forum and they know they'll get criticized for it.
There are probably a lot of guys who don't review to save girls for themselves, but they'll never admit it in this thread because it goes against the spirit of this forum and they know they'll get criticized for it.
We book on average
OP could also start leading by example and post a review of his own. Doesn't have to be 10/10 you know.
lol why… what? You know we all advertise our businesses all over the internet right? We aren’t secrets 😂 why wouldn’t you want us to be happy and successful, also?
Yeah no kidding!🤦♂️
She's got ads up on the internet, or she's posted on a dedicated agency or independent website, you ain't 'saving/hiding' her from shit lol
I'm guessing every woman over 30 has been in this type of relationship. The type where your partner is cool and chill, but you'd see them do mini acts of sabotage and gaslighting to keep them you as reliant as possible on them. They want your happiness to come from them, as exclusively as possible. Unfortunately in this case it means downplaying your business as much as possible without looking like it (ie gate keeping). Maybe even hoping for special rates or services if things get bad. I've seen this happen in both people's personal and business lives; people are needy selfish creatures.
That and people are lazy. I know I am. It takes a special kind of person to go into explicit recorded detail about every encounter and share it with as many people as possible. Paid or not.
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Because then the rates go up, lol. But yeah, I've never seen the sense in trying to pretend like it's some big secret.
That's a given for me. My assumption is that I'll be eventually priced out by anyone that I enjoy spending time with, with or without my help. It's just the nature of the industry.
The truth can be harsh, but it doesn't have to be.
The girls are here to earn a living by providing a service.
The clients are spending money on the girls to fulfill a need.
The only real bond is hormonal within the body.
She doesn't truly know you, nor you her.
Your duty, if you are honourable and truthful, is to NOT try to keep her to yourself.
People want to try to believe the lies they tell themselves, and this is not healthy in the long run.
The girls are here to earn a living by providing a service.
The clients are spending money on the girls to fulfill a need.
The only real bond is hormonal within the body.
She doesn't truly know you, nor you her.
Your duty, if you are honourable and truthful, is to NOT try to keep her to yourself.
People want to try to believe the lies they tell themselves, and this is not healthy in the long run.
notice how people only bring up abuse men suffer when we are talking about abuse that women suffer 🤔
Abuse should never be accepted, no matter who is at the receiving end.
Supports should be made available to everyone, and sadly this is not the case for men.
Men who report abuse are all too often shunned, and seldom given access to support.
I agree. But we only bring up abuse of men in the context of abuse towards women.
Wow, this thread got heavy. Original question: I have generally found that if you find a 10/10 that she has been found before and reviewed. Never stay secret for long
There are certainly "hidden gems" out there that have been operating for awhile, with a lack of reviews.
Tryst/seeking/twitter/word of mouth seems to be the way to find a lot of these girls. Not everybody that's good advertises on LeoList or is reviewed here. Usually that means they are a bit more selective in their screening process and decline to be reviewed when asked.
Tryst/seeking/twitter/word of mouth seems to be the way to find a lot of these girls. Not everybody that's good advertises on LeoList or is reviewed here. Usually that means they are a bit more selective in their screening process and decline to be reviewed when asked.
No idea what you gain by gatekeeping. I always let others know about a good provider if I find one
A lot of Perbites here are drunk on control or power. Every once in a while I may come across a comment which says PM me for the name or other details. Unless you have "buddies" on Perb, you're not likely going to have access to hidden gems.
