I actually came across a post recently, describing a similar situation like this on Reddit. The husband ended up going through with the cheating and viewed his SIL's private porn videos intended for her overseas lover. It ended...poorly for him to put it mildly. In a myriad of ways he didn't expect. Different situation altogether, but same intentions of lust from the husband.
Have a gander...
(FULL THREAD COPY PASTE)
https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/f6etag
(Original post, updated by his ex wife)
https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/bpr2iy
Look, you're going to do what you want to do. However, keep in mind.....straying from your marriage is one thing. Going after people in your spouse's inner circle, or people they are biologically related to in that process......that is a very different situational choice and it carries a whole different set of consequences. I feel a lot of people can forgive cheating, but not as often when it's done with someone from their own circle. Personally I think it's always best to keep your family members out of your marriage, but that's just me.
I'll also say this.....do you really think your SIL would even
agree to see you as a client if she knew your identity? You're pretty confidently assuming that the only factor in making this situation happen is your own will. What happens if your SIL sees your inquiry, screens you, and then puts 2 and 2 together and decides not to see you and share the info with your spouse aka HER SISTER?? Are the two gals sworn enemies or something? You underestimate how smart women are and how much they pick up on but just don't say anything lol til it's too late....
We all have choices....choices have consequences.... 🤷♂️ If you're looking for validation, you'll find it here from other members who would make the same choice given the chance. This world of PERB can be an echo chamber at times...However if you're looking for pragmatic advice in terms of your long term, I think you truly know deep down what your answer is.
Are you thinking with the right head right now? Respectfully. 🙏
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