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[hankmoody]

Hello ladies
I've been seeing this girl for a while now. Always enjoyed my time and by all accounts she seems to as well :eyebrows:. But she has raised her rates 3 times in a year and a half . Because of this its doubtful i will see her anymore. I know how much you hate hagglers and don't want to be that guy. Is there anyway to bring this up politely without looking like an ass ? I've read that some grandfather old rates in for past guests but don't see that in her ad. Or should i just move on. thx

 

[yasmine]

Hello ladies
I've been seeing this girl for a while now. Always enjoyed my time and by all accounts she seems to as well :eyebrows:. But she has raised her rates 3 times in a year and a half . Because of this its doubtful i will see her anymore. I know how much you hate hagglers and don't want to be that guy. Is there anyway to bring this up politely without looking like an ass ? I've read that some grandfather old rates in for past guests but don't see that in her ad. Or should i just move on. thx

hi sweetheart

it never hurts to speak up. i have regular clients whom see me at grandfather rates. i would hate to lose them as i've built quite the rapport and connection. if you need help feel free to contact me to elaborate further. good luck !!

 

[take8easy]

I am not THAT old, but I have had a session or two (not too many) on GRANDfather rates. If you think you have fairly good sessions with her, then .. just ask upfront... you can always ask it tactfully.

 

[Cami Parker]

I don't think asking if it's possible to see her at the rate you were originally seeing her at (or somewhere between that and her current rate) is the same as trying to haggle. Just tell her you really enjoy seeing her and would love to be able to continue seeing her but will be unable due to the financial details. I'm sure if you have a good connection, and assuming she's 100% independent, she would consider seeing you at a grandfathered rate. It's not something that ladies typically advertise but I know several ladies that do that for their valued loyal clients. After all, membership has its privileges. :eyebrows:

 

[hankmoody]

Shot down.
Apparently she doesn't/won't grandfather rates to returning guests. Disappointing.
She said she's earned the reputation to charge more. I was one who helped that reputation. Hows that for irony.
Never thought recommending her would hurt me in the end. Me and my big mouth.
Lesson learned.
Thanks for the advice. Kudos to the ladies who value their regulars.

 

[badbadboy]

Shot down.
Apparently she doesn't grandfather rates to returning guests. Disappointing.
She said she's earned the reputation to charge more. I was one who helped that reputation. Hows that for irony.
Never thought recommending her would hurt me in the end. Me and my big mouth.
Lesson learned.

I feel your pain Hank.

Writing reviews that do assist SP's in the beginning of their career's can and actually did bite me in the ass three times in the past year.

I understand that successful SP's are running a business with a view of a career end in sight which means they have to make hay while the sun is shining.

 

[JimDandy]

Shot down.
Apparently she doesn't grandfather rates to returning guests. Disappointing.
She said she's earned the reputation to charge more. I was one who helped that reputation. Hows that for irony.
Never thought recommending her would hurt me in the end. Me and my big mouth.
Lesson learned.
Thanks for the advice.

It is my opinion that some combination of the following is true:

- She does not really enjoy your company as much as your initial post would have led us to believe. That is not a slight towards either you or her. After all, it is her job to make you think she really enjoys her time with you.
- She has too high an opinion of herself. She will likely fall to earth soon enough with that kind of attitude.

JD

 

[Elm]

As a rule of thumb, I only post reviews once I'm tired of seeing that provider. Posting a review before that would be of little benefit to you. She'll be harder to book and her rates will go up.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Shot down.
Apparently she doesn't/won't grandfather rates to returning guests. Disappointing.
She said she's earned the reputation to charge more. I was one who helped that reputation. Hows that for irony.
Never thought recommending her would hurt me in the end. Me and my big mouth.
Lesson learned.
Thanks for the advice. Kudos to the ladies who value their regulars.

A poor business practice in my (not so humble) opinion. I've always offered to grandfather my rates for loyal long-time clients with whom I have enjoyed repeated business. That's why I have one fetish client who currently pays less than my "At Home" rate: because sometimes you need to dance with the guy(s) what brung you to the party...

 

[hankmoody]

I feel your pain Hank.

Writing reviews that do assist SP's in the beginning of their career's can and actually did bite me in the ass three times in the past year.

I understand that successful SP's are running a business with a view of a career end in sight which means they have to make hay while the sun is shining.

Yes i will think twice about further recommendations. Somehow it seems a little like a slap in the face.

It is my opinion that some combination of the following is true:

- She does not really enjoy your company as much as your initial post would have led us to believe. That is not a slight towards either you or her. After all, it is her job to make you think she really enjoys her time with you.
- She has too high an opinion of herself. She will likely fall to earth soon enough with that kind of attitude.

JD

Perhaps. And/or maybe she thought i enjoyed her company more and would come no matter what the price.

As a rule of thumb, I only post reviews once I'm tired of seeing that provider. Posting a review before that would be of little benefit to you. She'll be harder to book and her rates will go up.

Now you say! Where the hell have you been! lol

A poor business practice in my (not so humble) opinion. I've always offered to grandfather my rates for loyal long-time clients with whom I have enjoyed repeated business. That's why I have one fetish client who currently pays less than my "At Home" rate: because sometimes you need to dance with the guy(s) what brung you to the party...

Thanks Erica
And to those who pm'd.

 

[bmwdriver]

I personally have never asked for a grandfathered rate. Even if I was offered a grandfathered rate I would pay the current rate. I wouldn't want the escort to feel that she should give me a discount. If I enjoy her company then I would continue to see her. I wouldn't be offended. Why should I be? At the end of the day it's a business exchange.

 

[MRGREEN]

Been there and done that...... a little disappointing at first but a good reality check.

Peace
MG

 

[Jethro Bodine]

I think it boils down to whether you are aware of the rate increase and the lady's expection.
I really don't have a regular right now but in the past I just had their number and would call them as needed and thus never looked at their ad.
If they had increased their rates, I never knew unless they mentioned it. I figured if they mentioned it, then they obviously expect me to pay it.
In fact a couple of times when I realized I had been paying the "old rate" for years, I tried to give them a lump sum to compensate and both times they refused.

Cheer

 

[MrBrown]

In fact a couple of times when I realized I had been paying the "old rate" for years, I tried to give them a lump sum to compensate and both times they refused.

Cheer

That's class act!

FWIW I think that if there's mutual connection and the SP doesn't find the client unattractive a grandfathered or regular rate can be achieved.
It exists in other businesses and no reason it shouldn't in this industry.

 

[hankmoody]

I personally have never asked for a grandfathered rate. Even if I was offered a grandfathered rate I would pay the current rate. I wouldn't want the escort to feel that she should give me a discount. If I enjoy her company then I would continue to see her. I wouldn't be offended. Why should I be? At the end of the day it's a business exchange.

One day when i'm rich and famous i wana be just like you.

Been there and done that...... a little disappointing at first but a good reality check.
Peace
MG

I suppose.

I think it boils down to whether you are aware of the rate increase and the lady's expection.
I really don't have a regular right now but in the past I just had their number and would call them as needed and thus never looked at their ad.
If they had increased their rates, I never knew unless they mentioned it. I figured if they mentioned it, then they obviously expect me to pay it.
In fact a couple of times when I realized I had been paying the "old rate" for years, I tried to give them a lump sum to compensate and both times they refused.

Cheer

I have to be organized, do up extra work to get away and travel. I wish it was as easy as picking up the phone.

That's class act!

FWIW I think that if there's mutual connection and the SP doesn't find the client unattractive a grandfathered or regular rate can be achieved.
It exists in other businesses and no reason it shouldn't in this industry.

Quite a few do.

Thanks for the insight here and by PM. As JD eluded to, guess you never really know someone when money changes hands.
If she would rather have no income than thousands of dollars that's her decision.
Just as it's mine to take my business to someone who appreciates it.

 

[Cami Parker]

That's considerate of you.

I personally have never asked for a grandfathered rate. Even if I was offered a grandfathered rate I would pay the current rate. I wouldn't want the escort to feel that she should give me a discount. If I enjoy her company then I would continue to see her. I wouldn't be offended. Why should I be? At the end of the day it's a business exchange.

 

[Cami Parker]

Yes! Most ladies I know offer a monthly package that would be less than, say 4 dates/month, for regular visitors.

That's class act!

FWIW I think that if there's mutual connection and the SP doesn't find the client unattractive a grandfathered or regular rate can be achieved.
It exists in other businesses and no reason it shouldn't in this industry.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Shot down.
Apparently she doesn't/won't grandfather rates to returning guests. Disappointing.
She said she's earned the reputation to charge more. I was one who helped that reputation. Hows that for irony.
Never thought recommending her would hurt me in the end. Me and my big mouth.
Lesson learned.
Thanks for the advice. Kudos to the ladies who value their regulars.

It's a fine line. Giving a nice review can get you extras. And giving a nice review can get her more business.

I think the behaviour speaks more to her nature, than to anything you did or didn't do. If she has the opportunity to charge more, she should do it, as any business would. But if her rates get too high and she sees a drop off in callers, you may find that her rates come back down. Then it will be up to you to see if you still want to visit.

If her rates don't come down and you got to see her when it was more affordable to do so, then you can chalk it up as a good experience that you got at a discount. Perhaps she has now set the bar a little higher for you and your experiences, but that is life. Enjoy the search for quality at an affordable (for you) rate!

 

[hankmoody]

It's a fine line. Giving a nice review can get you extras. And giving a nice review can get her more business.

I think the behaviour speaks more to her nature, than to anything you did or didn't do. If she has the opportunity to charge more, she should do it, as any business would. But if her rates get too high and she sees a drop off in callers, you may find that her rates come back down. Then it will be up to you to see if you still want to visit.

If her rates don't come down and you got to see her when it was more affordable to do so, then you can chalk it up as a good experience that you got at a discount. Perhaps she has now set the bar a little higher for you and your experiences, but that is life. Enjoy the search for quality at an affordable (for you) rate!

Yes, if she has the opportunity to charge more do it. But as Erica said, you have to dance with who brung you to the party. Poor decision to take advantage of those who built your reputation. Better to find out her true colours now i suppose.
No worries Alex, she won't be seeing anymore of my business at any rate.
Not likely bother recommending anymore if this is the reward.
On the plus side 2 other ladies i've seen offered me a "special rate". To bad their not offering what i'm looking for.
When are the Japanese going to have this sex robot ready???...

 

[Lo-ki]

Everything is going up.
MSP Premium, ICBC, Gas, Electricity, property taxes....
SP's have to live just like we do and I am not at all surprised the costs have been going up and will keep going up.
Saleries dont' go up to meet the extra that we have to pay.

For those PS's that will grandfather rates for loyal clients....BRAVO...

Thank god masturbation is still free.